Hi Evan,

I am a 34 year old woman living in Canada. My first and only boyfriend six years ago pretended to be committed to me, used me for sex because he wanted to be with a virgin, and then he dumped me one month after taking my virginity. As a result of this awful relationship, I have some pretty major trust issues, and find it hard to accept the notion that a man might be genuinely interested in me.

About six months ago, I befriended an extremely good looking man in Puerto Rico through a flirting application on a social networking site. While he initially flirted quite a bit with me, I didn’t pursue anything since he had about a million female friends on his page, and that would make him out of my league. Continue Reading »

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I am a 33 year old single woman. I seem to always attract “great guys”, and we always have a lot of fun. But anytime I want to gently “clarify” what he wants (kids, family) nearly each and every guy I’ve dated shies away. I don’t think I come across as “easy”, and I am intelligent and take care of myself. However, I can never seem to transition properly from the “fun” woman to the “long-term” relationship woman, as the intelligent, loving partners I have had don’t seem comfortable ever talking about a future. Continue Reading »

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Did you know that you can make other people more fun and interesting by asking them more fun and interesting questions?

What are some of the most interesting or fun questions you’ve asked that have elicited successful responses?

What are some of the most interesting or fun questions you’ve received from some of your matches?  Did you respond to these questions in a positive or negative way?

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Every day for the past few weeks, I have been posting questions about the various aspects of online dating.

You, my readers, have been MOST wonderful in your thoughtful replies to those questions, sharing your wealth of experiences with each other.

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Do you rely on people to write to you online? 

Or are you more pro-active about making contact? 

Do you have greater success by making the first contact or by waiting for potential matches to make the first contact?

What do you think of winks and icebreakers?  Do you ever use them or do you prefer an email as the initial communication?

To find out my thoughts on making the initial contact when online dating, check out the following link: http://www.findingtheoneonline.com/blog.

I dated online from 1997 until 2006. I went on over 300 dates in that time.

How long have you been looking for love online?

During that time, on how many different websites have you had profiles posted?

How many matches have led to first dates?

How many matches have led to relationships?

Share your experiences with other readers below.

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Talk to you soon!

Evan

Great usernames are usually puns or plays on words.

What’s the most memorable username you’ve ever seen on a dating site?  Was it memorable for a positive or negative reason?

Are there certain elements of a username that make you steer clear of an individual?

What made you choose your username?  Was it a physical characteristic about yourself or a hobby or interest you have?

Share your ideas and examples of usernames you’ve used with other readers below.

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Talk to you soon!

Evan

Do you know what a man expects out of a first date?

Have you ever bothered to ask him?

If you’re a female reader, please share some of the things you’ve done on first dates that you feel ensure a second date.

If you’re a male reader, please share with us what your date can do to ensure a second date.

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Do you know what a woman expects out of a first date?

Have you ever bothered to ask her?

To my male readers, please share with us what has been successful for you on first dates.

To my female readers, please share with us what has been most enjoyable and memorable about your best first dates.

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How many times a year do you get set-up or get a number at a bar?

Which method of meeting people has led to the most long-term relationships: online dating, set-ups, or getting a number at a bar?

If all methods were equally successful, which one would you prefer and why?

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