Passion vs. Comfort. This is a post you don’t want to miss, inspired by a discussion on my (500) Days of Summer thread. Here’s the gist of it. Reader Lori writes: Continue Reading »

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My question is how do you write someone who says nothing in her profile that you can relate to as a member of your sex? Specifically, oftentimes I find profiles of women who only list feminine interests in their profiles. They talk about shopping, liking chick lit, and fashion and nothing else that I as a typical guy am going to have any interest in. Continue Reading »

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The wife and I saw (500) Days of Summer last night before we caught Inglourious Basterds. Very different movies, with very different messages. But since I’m a dating and relationship coach and not a revenge coach, I’m going to focus on the offbeat romantic comedy just for a moment.

The story recounts the two year on again-off again relationship of Tom and Summer, two twentysomethings who work at the same greeting card company. Although Summer does not believe in relationships or boyfriends, Tom is instantly smitten and knows that Summer is the woman with whom he wants to spend the rest of his life. He wins her over, but she keeps him at arm’s length emotionally for the duration of their time together. Eventually, she leaves him brokenhearted and finds someone else. The end.

None of this a secret; I haven’t spoiled anything. But there were two big things that resonated for me, as I was discussing the movie with my wife afterwards: Continue Reading »

You missed a great call Wednesday night!

Dear Evan,

I have a bit of a situation right now. My college sweetheart whom I have dated for the past 5 years decided to move out of town. On that account, he decided to break off the relationship with me because he says that he is not ready to be in a relationship right now, but wouldn’t mind to come back with me once he’s ready (which is according to him in the next 5 years – after he has finished fooling around). Continue Reading »

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Last minute reminder for you stragglers out there… I’ll be hosting a FREE teleclass, “The 6 Things You Must Do ASAP to Be an Online Dating Rockstar” tonight at 5pmPST/8pmEST.

Register below, take notes, and get ready for a great gift at the end…

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/6RockstarDatingTips/

Talk to you soon.

Your friend,
Evan

From Psychology Today, a smart and concise description of why men risk so much for so little:

Explanations (for cheating) are easy to come by, ranging from economics (He finally has enough money and status to be attractive to sexy young women at the peak of their reproductive power) to existential dread (he’s coming to terms with his own mortality by lashing out symbolically against his own impending old age and death) to the wife’s life cycle (she’s nearing menopause so he’s biologically driven toward the fertility of younger women). Each of these may have some measure of truth, but none answers the most pressing question: Why do men have such overwhelming hunger for variety in their sexual partners-not just at mid-life, but always?…

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If you’re anything like me, you’re always looking to improve. I spend a LOT of time doing things I’m not-so-good at, like guitar lessons, salsa lessons, yoga, and anything involving technology – in the hopes that there will be a life-changing breakthrough.

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The 6 Things You Simply MUST Do ASAP to be an Online Dating Rockstar

Wednesday, August 19th, 8PM ET / 5PM PT

Join me, Evan Marc Katz, your Personal Trainer for Love, on this FREE teleseminar as I give away some of my greatest online dating advice, and show you how to get incredible results out of this often-frustrating medium.

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Dear Evan,

If you’re looking for a long term relationship… can you just go back to having meaningless sex until you find one? For the past couple years I feel that I’ve been so focused on doing the right things to attract long term relationships that I’ve lost touch with my vixen playful side, or at least hidden that side until I’m in a relationship.

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