I am a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. I thought that since I was an attractive, fit, well-educated, financially and emotionally secure guy that I would have no problem finding a woman in her mid 30s to settle down with and start a family. I have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. and have had very few dates over the past year. I thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates. Continue Reading »

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After a mentally abusive relationship, and a lot of bad dates and or one nighters… I got to a place where I stopped looking to be in a relationship and just enjoyed being somewhat promiscuous and enjoyed being single in the Manhattan dating scene. Over a year ago, I met my current boyfriend, who at the time, was nothing more than the guy I called when I needed a warm body next to me at night. After our strictly physical relationship became more routine (in a good way), I began to see what a beautiful and simple, kind, loving man he could be. Continue Reading »

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If you missed last week’s post, I called for you to come up with an angle on a dating/relationship topic about which you felt strongly. After a few fits and starts, your brilliant responses came pouring into the comments section. Continue Reading »

I’ve often said that I didn’t get smarter when I got married; I got married when I got smart. Nothing illustrates this more clearly than this short video. Continue Reading »

Hi Evan,

Your blog has been really helpful as I find myself in an interesting situation. I’m 44, divorced with a son in college. Been divorced for a long time. Met someone at work and became friends over the course of 4 years. Continue Reading »

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My wife and I had a few guests over last night. Over a bottle of wine, we got into a really interesting discussion of changing gender roles, money, evolutionary biology, and societal mores. I know. Very hot.
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Happy Monday! I dug this video out of my archives just for you. Shot at my home in Los Angeles for SingleDad.com, it’s actually a fun, fast-moving, candid 8-minute interview that I think you’ll enjoy. Continue Reading »

Thanks for all your great writings and teachings. I have a question for you.

I am seeing a guy for almost 4 months now, I am 25 and he is 39. He has 2 teenage kids (boys) and we have been introduced to each other. Continue Reading »

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You want a guy who is tall, successful, charismatic, worldly, independent, and sexy. You’ve dated him before. He’s broken your heart, time and again. Why do you always go back for more? Because you can’t help yourself. You’re on the most common drug known to mankind – lust. Continue Reading »

I just started going out with a guy whom I’ve known for 5 years. We decided together and things have been going very well. Last weekend we spent together, he gave me a single red rose and it was wonderful, just getting to know each other on a different level. We both decided that we were not going to have sex until we are absolutely sure. Continue Reading »

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