720 women (and a coupla guys) have filled out my survey so far, and the results have been astounding. So many interesting, heartfelt, vulnerable questions, which, if I didn’t have a day job as a dating coach, I would love to answer, one by one.

Many of the questions come from a genuinely curious place and there are simple, straightforward answers: Continue Reading »

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How do you ask a guy friend to sleep with you? I used to date guys but figured out a few years ago that I would much rather be with women. I am 30 and have never slept with a guy. It’s something I want to do, just to try. Continue Reading »

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I’m still sifting through the hundreds of responses that you gave me on yesterday’s survey:

In case you didn’t know, all I asked was this: What is the most important question you have about relationships that you’d like me to address in my new eBook? Next thing I knew, I was flooded with questions like this: Continue Reading »

I know: it sounds like an email from Africa, but keep reading…

I have to admit, I’ve been a little bit of a hypocrite recently. It’s embarrassing to admit that, since I run around giving advice for a living, but it’s true.

I’m always telling you to be bold. To take chances. To get rid of your fear. To open up to the unknown. To enlist the help of others. To not be afraid to fail. Continue Reading »

Hi Evan,
Before I got married 10 years ago (now recently divorced) I had and just recently have had ‘coffee dates’ of at least a dozen to two dozen (no exaggeration) with only-child women. The same personality trait in all of them can be found when I meet them: They rarely ever ask any questions, show little interest or just passing curiosity about me, even just to fake it. It’s astounding. Continue Reading »

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“Women don’t want advice. They just want you to listen.”

I remember the first time I learned this principle – courtesy of Alison Armstrong. In delivering her “Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women” seminar, she gave a distinctive and visual metaphor to describe how men should deal with a woman who is venting. Continue Reading »

Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I waited until I was officially his girlfriend (2 months) before we had sex. It's been amazing, but this New Year I want to get closer to God and stop having sex until we get married. It seems like he can't sacrifice sex for the man above or for me, and when I talk to him about it he tries to ignore the subject. Continue Reading »

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I just wanted to let you know that one of the women who joined the Inner Circle last week has a scheduling conflict, which means that there’s now ONE MORE SPOT available for you. Continue Reading »

Just this Christmas, my husband ran into his old high school fling. Since she was starting to see my sister's brother in law, we spent Christmas with her as well. I noticed that there is still an undeniable sort of chemistry (for a lack of a better word) between them. They had the whole "crush" thing going on. Continue Reading »

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So last night, The Bachelor, Jake Pavelka, chose Vienna, the sexy, opinionated former Hooters waitress, over cute, bland, devoted Tenley. Continue Reading »