I’m just emerging from my cocoon for a few minutes to tell you how grateful I am to have you as a reader.
The Why He Disappeared book launch has taken up most of my non-coaching time recently, and you have kept things warm on the blog by engaging in your normal level of intelligent discourse. You’re really amazing and it means a lot to me that you stick around. Whether you agree or disagree with everything I say, you’re part of a special community, the likes of which I don’t think exists anywhere else. Continue Reading »
After a full-year of development – not to mention a whole lot of blog posts, special reports, emails and videos – my new book, Why He Disappeared, is finally out.
There are less than 24 hours to go before you can get your copy of Why He Disappeared. Before you do, I want to thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Your questions and comments these past few weeks have been invaluable, and have really informed what you will see in the final product.
Although I hate to be so anal about the details, it’s important to me that everything in WHD is PERFECT – the eBooks, the audio, the bonuses, and, most importantly, the page on which you can download all of this material. Continue Reading »
In an email I sent out yesterday I talked about the cost of pain and suffering. I mentioned that we will pay lots of money for pleasure – a car, a vacation – but are not as generous with ourselves when it comes to removing pain. If you’ve ever balked at $200/hr therapists before, you know what I’m talking about. You’d have to go to therapy every single week for 2 straight years to come close to buying a cheap car. Yet you’re more likely to get the car. Continue Reading »
This is the third video based on the questions YOU wanted answered in my 1500 question survey. Last week, I told you that you don’t ATTRACT the wrong men, you ACCEPT the wrong men. I got a lot of really great feedback on that and hope that you’ve already made the mental adjustment to stop thinking you’re a bad man magnet and instead realize that you’ve been way too accepting of unacceptable behavior.
Today’s tip might be a little more challenging because instead of telling you to dump the bad guys, I’m going to ask you to open up to a whole new way of viewing the pursuit of love. It may be counter-intuitive, but I am confident that it will make a big difference for you. You ready?
This is the second video based on the questions YOU wanted answered in my big survey. Last week, I shared with you the revelation that men are about feelings, not just looks. And that the reason a man will want to marry you has everything to do with how he feels when he’s around you. Make him feel good, and he’ll want to say. Make him feel bad, well, you know the rest.
That idea was not to say that you’ve done anything wrong – you might be the sweetest, most loving, perfect girlfriend ever. I just think it’s surprising to women that men are really driven by their feelings – namely, how they feel around you.
Which is a perfect segue to today’s video, in which you will definitely find yourself nodding your head. After you listen to what I have to say, I’m confident you are going to save yourself YEARS of wasted time in the future.
I usually don’t write on the weekends, but this email from a regular reader made me change my mind – especially since it’s thematically relevant to my most recent post, as well as my new book that’s coming out in a few weeks:
All right, Evan, so I’ve been following your blog and advice for quite awhile now and I sure learned a lot from it. You are right on most things, but I must say I was right on this one: Men care more about women who don’t care for them. Continue Reading »
I’m really excited to be here today, breaking out my new little FlipCam video just for you. The reason I’m doing this video blog is because after reading through nearly 1500 of your most intimate questions, some common themes became apparent.
The polls are just about closed on my survey and I am eternally grateful to you for your participation. Since last week, I’ve gone through 1520 different relationship questions and looked closely to discover what’s most important to you.
Starting next week, I’m giving away a whole bunch of priceless content – videos, newsletters, blog posts, special reports – that addresses your biggest concerns about men. If you’re a regular blog reader, you know that I intend it to be thought-provoking, challenging, logical, and, most importantly, helpful. Continue Reading »
I’ve got a very unique question, but the dilemma is not so unique to many today. I am seriously dating a wonderful woman for 14 months (I’m 49, she’s 46, she’s never been married). I am very amicably separated from ex wife of 10 years. We had no kids. We get along fine, keep in touch once in while.Continue Reading »
