I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really appreciated the great info. I have not “lost” the guy I’ve been dating for the past 3 months, but I need to fix some of the mistakes I was starting to make. He’s a recent widower (wife died of cancer in June 2010.) We started dating just after Labor Day. He found me on Match.com. Continue Reading »

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This week’s best news links on dating, relationships and sex.

Study: Couples may not agree on monogamy

Opinion: Why Men Don’t Listen to Women Continue Reading »

You have standards.

You know what you’re worth.

And you’re never gonna settle for less.

I’m right there with you. (Boy, am I there with you!) Continue Reading »

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How can I appear to be a great catch when I haven’t had a relationship in such a long time? In my mid 20′s, I realized I was in a disruptive pattern of falling for very wrong men and wisely stopped dating and put the energy into finding myself and being a mum. Thing is that, although I’ve been on a few dates, it’s been years since I’ve had any kind of relationship!  I can’t help but wonder what to say when a guy I like asks about my past relationships. Continue Reading »

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This week’s best news links on dating, relationships and sex.

How porn is changing our sex lives

The 12 Worst Relationship Mindsets: Which Are YOU Guilty Of?

The sexual cost of female success

Drinking alcohol may boost risk of divorce

The science of the smooch

Nice Men Marry or Marriage Makes Men Nice?

Quick Remarriages, Gender, and How We Treat Our Divorcées

I invite you to think of the last time you were emotionally invested in a man.

It could have been a promising prospect you met online, it could have been your boyfriend of five months, it could have been your fiancé.

The common denominator is that this man, who took your breath away and gave you hope, ultimately left you. Continue Reading »

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As we approach our 20,000^th comment on the blog, I’m proud of what a responsive and interesting community we have created together, with many regulars who contribute daily (and sometimes hourly!)

About.com wants YOU to nominate me in their upcoming Readers’ Choice Awards.

I feel like, collectively, we should receive some type of reward for that commitment. Wait, we can! About.com wants YOU to nominate me in their upcoming Readers’ Choice Awards for Best Dating-Related Blog and Best Dating-Related Book of 2010.

From now until February 4, click here to tell the world how much you enjoy reading this site by scrolling to the last two categories on the list:

“Your Nominee for Best Dating-Related Blog: Evan Marc Katz”

“Your Nominee for Best Dating-Related Book of 2010: Why He Disappeared by Evan Marc Katz”

Nominations run from now until Feb. 4. The nominees with the most mentions become the top five contenders in each category. Voting will run from Feb. 11 through March 8, with winners announced March 15.

What’s the prize? A fabulous vacation? A big, shiny trophy? Actually, there’s no “prize” other than the bragging rights. But since I wouldn’t be here without you, I would think you would take as much pride as I do in contributing to such an intelligent, civilized forum in a sea of irrational and misspelled internet noise.

Please click here to nominate me for Best Dating Blog and Best Dating Book.

Thanks for reading and for being such an important part of my life.

Your friend,

Evan

P.S. Please comment below to tell me that you nominated the blog and book. I promise I will be 40% less snarky in my answer to your next relationship question.

I’ve been seeing a man for a year + 4 months. He texted me on Christmas Eve for a hike early Christmas morning. I replied,”YES! I’d love to!” I got up early, got ready for his call, and never heard from him. His text included that he had his 16 year old daughter and niece spending the night on that eve (so no spending the night for us!) Continue Reading »

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This week’s best news links on dating and sex.

The Mathematics Of Beauty – “This post investigates female attractiveness, but without the usual photo analysis stuff. Instead, we look past a woman’s picture, into the reaction she creates in the reptile mind of the human male.”

New Trend: Should You Lock in a “Winter Boyfriend?

Thinner Wife, Happier Marriage?

Online dating is not just for kids, seniors say

Please don’t cry – it upsets a man’s sex drive

Outer-space sex carries complications

Have you ever dated a guy and thought things were going GREAT between you, only to have him suddenly start being flaky, or stop calling, or vanish all together?

In my work as a dating coach, this is the number one complaint I hear.

You’re seeing a great guy and you THINK you’re getting close, but then he suddenly pulls away and you have NO IDEA what happened.

I can tell you what happened – if you’re ready to turn your love life around forever… Continue Reading »

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