7 Minutes With Evan – On Good Day LA
Here’s the video from my appearance this morning on Good Day LA. Everyone there was SUPER nice and my new friend Ashlee had a couple of revelations that will undoubtedly improve her choices of men.
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12 Comments »Filed Under Evan's Press, Online Dating Sites, Reviews & News, Online Dating Tips & Advice
Mikko Kemppe 1
Nice Job Evan! I wish they would have let you guys talk more.
.-= Mikko Kemppe´s last blog ..I am smart, independent, successful, and educated, why aren’t men attracted to me? Read the answer here, and discover the solution. =-.
Lance 2
Whoa, dude. Is Ashlee as hot in person as she is in video? and if so, please forward her my contact info: lance at honeyandlance dot com.
EMK, nice job!
.-= Lance´s last blog ..Summer Lovin or Not =-.
Hot Alpha Female 3
Whoa Evan,
This was a great video and you covered a lot of key pointers, possibly even the one mistake that all single women are making right now.
Projecting a different image (casual dating) instead of their truly desired state (longer term relationship).
I think a lot of women today have their guard up with letting people in. So they use lists, expectations and demands to keep potentially viable boyfriends at bay.
Thanks for sharing the video, must be so exciting to be on TV even though I’m sure you have been on before!
Keep up the good work!
Hot Alpha Female
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Curly Girl 4
EMK, must give you high marks on the curly hair.
Speaking of hair, notice that all of the female anchors in L.A. have very long modelly hair. In the East our anchors have shoulder-length bobs. Still straight, however. The curly haired are under-represtented on TV news, though often in cities with large minority populations you’ll see many African American anchors. I like A.A. hair, especially when it’s allowed to grow long and the curls are treated right, so that they turn into corkscrews (google “Devashan”). You don’t see that in the A.A. anchors, but it would be nice.
I have Botticelli curly hair.
Sad to say, TV has not yet caught up with the fabulousness that is curly hair. Thanks for putting in a good show, EMK, and doing your part to show the masses that curly hair is OK on TV.
Shell 5
Evan,
Please elaborate on giving off the image of casual dating vs. giving off the image of wanting a relationship! That was an interesting statement, but I’m not sure what signs give off which image. I’m young, I go out with my girlfriends, have a few drinks, yet I want a relationship. Don’t want to give the wrong image.
JB 6
Great job Evan……Ohhhhh poooorrr Ashlee she’s 26 going on 18,she’s has the looks of a 10 but can’t string 3 sentences together to make a coherent profile a high school kid could make….lol Then she meets 4 guys from online (which I assume she picked out of the 500 responses she got) and because they don’t look like the guys on The Bachelorette TV show SHE doesn’t feel the “chemistry”. What is she looking for they asked ?? “Someone who’s fun,who I can I have fun with” oh…”and I want him to be my best friend” ….LOL TOO FUNNY !
I wonder if she’ll ever meet the right guy ???? (eye roll)
Steve 7
All three of those women looked amazing
Steve 8
If it makes you feel better Curly Girl I was out on a date last weekend with an acquaintance with super curly hair.
Evan Marc Katz 9
Hey JB,
Lay off Ashlee. She’s a good person – teaches autistic kids – and simply didn’t realize how she was at the root of her own relationship issues. But she was extremely open and easy to work with and we had a lot of fun talking. She certainly doesn’t deserve any ridicule for attempting to figure out how to improve her love life. I hope you agree.
EMK
JB 10
Sorry Evan,you know her personally and I’m sure she’s a nice person and of course I agree there’s nothing wrong in learning from a great teacher like yourself. It just boggles the mind when you see a woman or women who can basically have any man on the planet they want complaining. I guess the show didn’t show enough background on her so obviously I’m judging from a different perspective than the knowledge you have. I’d love to see the profile you helped her write and the progress she makes in the future.
Michelle 11
Gotta say that I agree with JB on this. Ashlee may be a “good person” but she’s not the brightest crayon in the box. How hard is it to realize that a blank profile section probably isn’t helping your online dating success? Four dates and she’s already disappointed? She strikes me as rather spoiled and a bit na’ve. She needs to date a heck of a lot more than 4 guys before becoming disappointed about dating.
Lance 12
I thought JB’s comment was interesting and she hit on a point, albeit it was hyper cynical. I had sort of the same kneejerk reaction. My reaction was: “Great, really pretty, young girl bitches about dating prospects and probably makes the guys do ALL the work. She just sits back and waits for the chemistry and the right guy to sweep her off her feet.”
I had a conversation about relationships with a friend recently, age 25, and we both agreed that the average 25-year-old (approx. Ashlee’s age) has very little self awareness, particularly when it comes to relationships. So Ashlee knows what she wants, but she doesn’t have any idea what kind of person she’s projecting and thus what she’s attracting. Evan even mentions self-awareness in his second video. That type of thing doesn’t develop, IMO, until you’ve accumulated a lot of experience and really started to break it down critically. This is something that social artists do really well, because they examine their social interactions and make changes in order to achieve a desired effect. Evan is basically doing this when he coaches Ashlee on changing her profile. Anyway, don’t really have a point, except to say that mid-20′s singles are idiots when it comes to dating and attraction, and that attraction is very much a skill.
.-= Lance´s last blog ..Summer Lovin or Not =-.