Comments on: Are the People That You Want To Meet Online More Physically Attractive Than You Are?

By: Secrets of Women

Secrets of Women — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 22:29:45 +0000

[...] Are the People That You Want To Meet Online More Physically … – men won’t even date a woman their own age. And many men who indicate they will date an older women I think just show that to appear open-minded and more attractive to women. I’m an attractive 49-year old woman with a good profile (been … [...]

By: hunter

hunter — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 14:44:02 +0000

to Dana on post #46

Women all over say what you said. Men are different, we admire a womans figure all the time, through anger, frustration, laughs, no laughs, etc…..

By: Joe

Joe — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:23:14 +0000

Karl R, I find it somewhat ironic that you turn down women with “abyssmal” spelling…

By: Dana

Dana — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 16:32:44 +0000

Some are and some aren’t. But men (and women) are a package. No man has ever looked the same to me after I got to know him. If I get to like him and he turns me on, he becomes so devastatingly handsome I’m shocked. If we don’t connect, he appears a bit cracked around the edges to me, even if he could be a model.

By: moonsical

moonsical — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:33:23 +0000

Alas, if I were only interested in *dating*…not mating for life. Yes, the younger men are very fun, energetic and enjoyable. But so far, that is where it ends…we have been at different stages in life.

moon

By: hunter

hunter — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:53:49 +0000

to moon on post #39,

I’ve been told that, women, through out most of Europe, date younger men. Supposedly, a very common practice.

By: hunter

hunter — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:46:26 +0000

to Andy on post #37,

Some of those fat, bald, men, have fat, check books, that, make them look very, attractive to women. Women with long necks, and small waists, stay married to fat, men, mostly, because, they live a nice, cozy, life, and have all the material things they need.(some have boyfriends on the side)

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:46:17 +0000

I never cared much about looks, its inside that counts, and the way they treat me, BUT recently I dated a guy with a smokin hot body, and now I melt just thinking about a great bod.

By: Cilla

Cilla — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:30:50 +0000

@ moonsical:

I agree with you–I see many couples where the man has not kept himself up the way his partner has yet he runs his mouth off, saying things like, “I should be dating supermodels,” or “I should have a hot woman on my arm.” I call it According to Jim syndrome (hot wife with dumpy, overweight guy).

Regarding dating younger men: as a woman of 47, I find men in the 35-45 range have little interest in me (they are either happily married with small children, divorced and looking for 20-somethings, or single and looking for 20-somethings). In spite of the lack of common ground, men younger than 35 are much more willing to date me. I’ve had some fun relationships with guys in their late 20’s, who are much less hung up on the age difference than their brothers who are 10 years older.

By: JuJu

JuJu — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:42:46 +0000

In my personal experience, the men who claim to look younger than their age (and some are convinced they look 15-20 younger – why, I can’t possibly determine) are all grossly deluded. Some of them, in fact, even looked older than their age.

Both sexes, I think, should leave it to other people to judge how old or young they appear.