You have standards.
You know what you’re worth.
And you’re never gonna settle for less.
I’m right there with you. (Boy, am I there with you!)
As a result of my high standards, I became a dating coach. I may have been labeled a “serial dater” by CNN when I was 32, but I was actually one of those rare guys who took his love life seriously at a young age. My parents were married for 30 years before my dad passed away, and it was their amazing marriage that I’ve always wanted to emulate.
You should never give up your standards, but… you’re quite possibly passing up the love of your life right this very moment.
When you have such a high bar to jump, you’ll likely find that most people fall short.
I’m sure you feel the same way. You’ve spent way too much time spinning your wheels on the wrong men to give up your lofty standards NOW.
As your friend, I want to tell you that you should never give up your standards, but that you’re quite possibly passing up the love of your life right this very moment.
I spent ten years dating online, passing up amazing women, and finding plenty of justifications for it. Then I figured out what I was doing wrong.
No doubt about it, you and I have some seriously high (and well-deserved!) standards.
Which partially explains how, between the ages of 25-35, I dated over 300 women.
I’m not proud of that. That’s a lot of failed dates, complete with all the rejection, confusion, and frustration that comes with them.
The silver lining to all of these experiences was that, as I got older, I found myself making much better decisions.
No more dysfunctional relationships with hot, toxic women.
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