Comments on: By Changing Nothing, Nothing Changes http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/ Sat, 25 May 2013 11:06:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Gigi http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-181659 Gigi Tue, 20 Sep 2011 13:36:48 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-181659 I have something to add about aging.  I hit the big 60 this year and my physician said “Keep on doing what you’re doing!”  I think I look and act years more energetic than some 30 something women I see in public. There are many physically more “perfect” women who are real duds, if you know what I mean.
While I wasted a few years on an abusive marriage, I had the courage to get out before real damage happened.  I applaud others who did the same!  Life is too short to waste on mean people.
My blood pressure, cholesterol, etc.etc. are GREAT, so only a few signs of aging, in the traditional sense.  I work out regularly and pursue many interests.  The freedom I have (retired) and the time to appreciate and enjoy my life are great!  Some man, the RIGHT ONE, will sense that I am a person he wants to spend time with.  I know it, because I have many platonic friends who enjoy my company.  That confidence and attitude is all it takes.

]]> By: Adult Casual Contacts http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-67785 Adult Casual Contacts Mon, 24 May 2010 16:24:47 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-67785 I am very glad to hear about your relation succes, which give everyone a lot of hope, especially to womens. Keep up ;)

]]> By: Selena http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-67509 Selena Sun, 23 May 2010 16:02:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-67509 Hey Evan,

I found you a few weeks ago via Tango (can’t remember what the heck I was doing over there lol).

Anyways, I normally don’t take love advice from men but your advice is straight forward and honest. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Luv Ya!

]]> By: mic http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-65196 mic Thu, 06 May 2010 16:07:48 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-65196 Thanks. You're right about health – possibly you mean that good health is reflected visually, in skin, hair, posture, etc., which of course it is. Raquel Welch certainly looks like she takes good care of herself. Anybody who wants to make a change ought to start with self-care. There is usually room for significant self-improvement there.

]]> By: sayanta http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-65133 sayanta Thu, 06 May 2010 00:47:26 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-65133 Cathy-
"raquel welch chose to stay in love with her husband.." What?? Are you thinking of someone else? Raquel Welch has been divorced 4 times.

]]> By: Cathy J http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-65127 Cathy J Wed, 05 May 2010 23:25:48 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-65127 Mic
 
I like your honesty and it is true.  When we respect ourselves by living a healthy lifestyle, of course we glow even just with good health. 
 
Raquel Welsh's additional secret I believe is that she chose to stay in love with her husband for the duration and radiated that love. 

]]> By: mic http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-64987 mic Tue, 04 May 2010 16:03:12 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-64987 It's probably more accurate to say that young men (well, some of them) rate Raquel Welch and Lauren Bacall attractive because they still resemble themselves in their prime. It's the unpleasant truth, but it's very hard for a person to attract a mate without presenting something that is reasonably physically attractive by at least the culture's standards. Aside from older women and maybe frail old men, most categories of people can work around that without too much difficulty.

]]> By: charles http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-64898 charles Tue, 04 May 2010 00:55:01 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-64898 I love your advice
It doesn't take sides and it's clear
looking forward to reading your other blogs

]]> By: albert http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-64743 albert Sat, 01 May 2010 22:18:25 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-64743 This is very exhilirating. i am most pleased i was able to get something from your advice.i have been searching love fora while and i think following some on your method and rewriting my profile i made it thanks a lot

]]> By: Cathy J http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/by-changing-nothing-nothing-changes/comment-page-1/#comment-64683 Cathy J Sat, 01 May 2010 02:07:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2930#comment-64683 Yes, the aging process can make you invisible – but mostly to the wrong men – which has to a good thing!
Even very young men find Raquel Welsh or Lauren Becall beautiful – it is all about elegance and grace and being comfortable in your own skin.  You could have extra weight however the plump round face is the face of an angel radiating love!!
Choose to embrace who you are!. One thing I love is that at any moment I am every age I have ever been (and perhaps even sometimes feeling a little older or wiser, even ageless :) )
"By changing nothing, nothing changes.  So choose to do something for you today – something luxuriating…….
 
 

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