The men who became your committed boyfriends did one thing: they made an effort and talked about a future. “What are you doing tomorrow? How about the next day? What about this weeknend? Let’s make plans for the holidays. I want you to meet my family. Did you get my voice mail last night? I think I’m falling in love with you.”
The men who left you walking on eggshells did the complete opposite. A great night of passion is invariably followed by five days of silence. Maybe a text to say, “what’s up?”
The men who became your committed boyfriends did one thing: they made an effort and talked about a future.
Is it not clear which men have long-term potential?
Is it not clear that in waiting for a man who needs a once-a-week partner to change his mind, you could lose years of your life?
Finally, is it not clear that there is only one answer to “How Do I Get Him Back?”
You don’t get him back because you never had him to begin with.
You don’t get him back because he doesn’t want you badly enough.
You don’t get him back because he makes for one selfish and shitty life partner.
Do you need any more evidence, Jen?
If you truly prize loyalty, reliability, and commitment over, say, money and chemistry, then start choosing men who are loyal, reliable and commitment-oriented.
This is one of the main messages of “Why He Disappeared.” You can’t change a man who doesn’t want to change.
All you can do is leave him for a man who DOES want to value, cherish and commit to you. It all begins with you.
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