The longer I do this, the clearer it becomes.

What we think we want is often not good for us. What’s good for us is something we often pass up. Continue Reading »

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The polls are just about closed on my survey and I am eternally grateful to you for your participation. Since last week, I’ve gone through 1520 different relationship questions and looked closely to discover what’s most important to you.

Starting next week, I’m giving away a whole bunch of priceless content – videos, newsletters, blog posts, special reports – that addresses your biggest concerns about men. If you’re a regular blog reader, you know that I intend it to be thought-provoking, challenging, logical, and, most importantly, helpful. Continue Reading »

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720 women (and a coupla guys) have filled out my survey so far, and the results have been astounding. So many interesting, heartfelt, vulnerable questions, which, if I didn’t have a day job as a dating coach, I would love to answer, one by one.

Many of the questions come from a genuinely curious place and there are simple, straightforward answers: Continue Reading »

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“Women don’t want advice. They just want you to listen.”

I remember the first time I learned this principle – courtesy of Alison Armstrong. In delivering her “Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women” seminar, she gave a distinctive and visual metaphor to describe how men should deal with a woman who is venting. Continue Reading »

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So last night, The Bachelor, Jake Pavelka, chose Vienna, the sexy, opinionated former Hooters waitress, over cute, bland, devoted Tenley. Continue Reading »

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No, not really. But in John Tierney’s continued analysis of dating behavior, he cites some interesting studies that suggest that women are far less open to dating men of other races than vice versa.

African-American women said yes about 30 percent less often to Hispanic men; about 45 percent less often to white men; about 65 percent less often to Asian men.

Black women were the most averse to interracial dating, Asian women were the most open to it, and Asian men didn’t fare all that well.

I’m not going to hypothesize why – after all, I’m a dating coach, not a social scientist – but this very much corresponds with what I’ve heard from clients.

White women said yes about 30 percent less often to black or Hispanic men, and about 65 percent less often to Asian men.

With one exception. I’m a bit surprised at men’s openness to interracial dating. While I’ve personally dated women across the racial spectrum, I’ve only had a handful of clients who ever expressed preferences for women of other races. Then again, the demographics of my clients are probably a bit skewed towards upper-middle class white people.

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