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Online Dating Wars!

From online dating pundit, Virginia Vitzthum: My competition for online dating talking head status gives women tips in the form of blame. He first directs women not to believe anything…

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Women Are Racist

No, not really. But in John Tierney’s continued analysis of dating behavior, he cites some interesting studies that suggest that women are far less open to dating men of other…

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Ignoring Men

Part 2 of Janet’s question from last Friday: If a woman gets a flood of emails on a dating site, how can she weed through them quickly and fairly? Men…

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