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Watch A 1-Hour Live Coaching Event In My Own Home

Evan Marc Katz — Thu, 29 Sep 2011 18:44:35 +0000

It’s been a crazy week.

And if, somehow, you’re still sitting on the sidelines, reading my emails, wondering why I am so insistent that you take action on your love life, this is your lucky day.

Because I want to share something special with you – and, once again, it’s FREE.

It’s a one-hour LIVE coaching event that I held in my home last week for five private clients who live in Southern California. They came to my home, met my wife and baby, ate dinner, drank wine, and then generously opened up their hearts with authentic, vulnerable, real questions – the very kind that you’ve been asking as well.

I decided to videotape the event, just in case something magical happened.

When you watch this video below, I think you’ll see that it did.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/live-coaching-special-video.php

There are two things I’d like you to keep in mind when you’re watching this video:

1) If you enjoy it, SHARE it with every single woman you know.

If you learn something and want to pay it forward, SHARE it.

If you believe in the positive messages I’m trying to give to women to break free of bad men, SHARE it.

I’m a firm believer that knowledge is power, and think it would be wonderful if you could give every woman you know power over her own romantic destiny.

Just add your comments below the video using Facebook and let your friends see what it’s like when smart women make smart decisions in love.

2) This video is a perfect sneak preview of my FOCUS Coaching program.

Each month in FOCUS Coaching, I’ll conduct a live Q&A call about a new dating topic, and I will answer at least 5 of your questions for you.

Following the call, you can listen a recording of it on my Community site and you will also receive a CD/newsletter of the call a few weeks later.

Additionally, you’ll be an exclusive member of the EMK FOCUS Forum, where you can interact with me and hundreds of other smart women on the path to love.

If you get great insights from this free video, just imagine what you can get when I answer YOUR questions on the phone each month.

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/live-coaching-special-video.php

Warmest wishes and much love,

Your friend,

Evan

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Are You Going to Get All the Benefits of FOCUS Coaching?

Evan Marc Katz — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 23:08:42 +0000

I hope you enjoyed the video I sent out to you earlier today.

There are less than 24 hours to go before you can join me for FOCUS Coaching. Before you do, I want to thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

Your questions and comments these past few weeks have been invaluable, and have really informed what you will see in the final product.

Although I hate to be so anal about the details, it’s important to me that everything in FOCUS Coaching is PERFECT – the monthly teleconference, the member area and forum, the free download for Why He Disappeared, the graphic design for the newsletter, CDs and binders, the audio bonuses, and, most importantly, your experience in working closely with me.

So please pay really close attention to this email so you can get all the benefits of FOCUS Coaching at the best possible price.

Keep in mind that the only reason I’m talking about “limited” supplies is not because I’m going to run out of room on the conference line, but because this bonus-filled offer will take place until 11:59pm Sunday, October 2nd, never to return again.

And if you want to get your most pressing dating questions answered each month..

Or if you want to be one of the 100 lucky women to get a bonus Q&A with me…
Or if you want to get the 75 minute recorded interview with Rori Raye…
Or if you want to save 20% per month for as long as you’re in FOCUS Coaching…

You DEFINITELY want to be in front of your computer tomorrow between the hours of 8am and 9:30am PDT (11-12:30pm EDT).

Because that’s when I’ll be sending out a very special email to the women on my advanced notification list to be able to purchase FOCUS Coaching BEFORE everyone else on my list can get to it.

Since there are special bonuses for the first 100 women to join me (out of 35,000 women on my mailing list), you don’t want to delay.

If you haven’t yet signed up to be on the advanced notification list so you can reap all the benefits of this limited time offer, please click below and sign up below the video. This is your LAST CHANCE!

Tomorrow’s the big day – the day you’ve been waiting for – the day you and I will finally begin to work together in manifesting the relationship of your dreams.

With much love,

Your friend,

Evan

*UPDATE: FOCUS Coaching is now available! Click below to learn more:

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching/group-coaching/focus.php

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Four Reasons You Still Think You Don’t Need My Advice

Evan Marc Katz — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 05:21:27 +0000

As you can probably tell, things are heating up around here.

Once I decided that the best program I could offer you is the one that is comprehensive, interactive and affordable, it’s been all systems go.

My director, Ambika, has been indulging me for the past month as it takes about two hours to shoot a four minute video.

My interns, Lisanne, Karen and Onna, have been painstakingly working on the blog, posting photos, approving comments, and making things look good to the outside world.

My web team, Edgar and Tyler, have taken my big, unwieldy ideas and created something special from scratch.

But it all started with you.

Your answers to my survey gave me the inspiration to do something that no other dating coach does – a live, interactive coaching series, instead of just sending you a CD interview with some other relationship expert.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve given away tons of free information – special reports, and newsletters and blog posts and videos – all with one goal in mind: to help you understand how to attract and maintain a relationship with a quality man.

That’s an important thing to remember, by the way.

It only takes ONE man to make all this pain and confusion dissipate forever.

All the dates and the disappearing acts and the false hopes and the heartbreaks…they all go away if you can persevere and learn to make different choices that lead to better results.

If you practice what I am going to share with you in my FOCUS Coaching, you will save yourself years of repeating the mistakes that have plagued your love life, and open up to a new way of loving – one that actually WORKS.

I do hope that you feel I’ve been doing my job well – writing prolifically, stating my case clearly, justifying my observations with logic, and giving away a ton of useful content every week.

Check it out and pay attention to your inbox tomorrow for final instructions about how to get everything I’m offering to you at the lowest possible price.

Hope you had a great weekend.

Can’t wait to see you sharing it with the man you love!

Evan

*UPDATE: FOCUS Coaching is now available! Click here to learn more about this coaching program for smart, strong, successful women.

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Do Too Many People Get Married For the Wrong Reasons?

Everything You Need to Know About Men For the Rest of Your Life

Evan Marc Katz — Sat, 24 Sep 2011 15:06:47 +0000

I’m assuming that you’ve got a rich, full life, complete with friends and family, work and hobbies.

I’m assuming that you’ve loved and lost at least a few times.

Finally, I’m assuming that you’d prefer to find a happy, healthy, nurturing, fun, passionate relationship that lasts forever.

If I’m wrong – if you’d rather be alone than to have a happy, healthy, nurturing, fun, passionate relationship – then my new FOCUS Coaching isn’t for you.

If you’re reading this right now, I’m confident that you want the real deal, but you’re afraid.

If you don’t put yourself out there, if you don’t learn to understand men, if you just leave things the way they are now, nothing is going to change.

Afraid of putting yourself out there.
Afraid of being rejected.
Afraid that you aren’t as good at dating as you are at every other aspect of life.

But most importantly, you have this fear staring right back at you in the mirror:

You’re so afraid that you’d rather be alone than to risk getting hurt again.

And if that’s the case, you’ve already got your own wish. There’s no risk in staying alone – you can continue to live this way forever – but there’s also no reward.

There’s no one to cuddle with you on Sunday mornings.

No one to comfort you directly after a confrontation with your boss.

No one to surprise you with roses or fresh squeezed orange juice.

No one to provide you the unconditional support and companionship that you desire. And sex! Don’t forget regular sex with the man you love!

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Where You Can Meet Tall, Dark, Handsome, Smart, Sexy, Relationship-Oriented Men

Evan Marc Katz — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 15:00:29 +0000

First of all, I just want to thank you for being a regular blog reader.

I know that these posts are sometimes provocative (in both good and bad ways), but I greatly appreciate your readership and am always trying to figure out how to do a better job.

Since starting this blog in 2007, I’ve answered hundreds of your questions, clarified my thinking about dating and relationships, and – somehow, some way – became a husband and a father. Hard to believe that this was the same blog that was once called “Advice From a Single Dating Expert,” but, well, there you have it.

We live. We learn.

And in case you didn’t know, most of what I do as a dating coach does NOT take place on this blog. It takes place on my weekly newsletter, which comes out on Tuesdays. Last week, I sent out a survey to my subscribers, just to hear what their most pressing questions were about men and relationships.

The response was overwhelming.

Over 1300 women took the time to fill out my survey last week.
What became abundantly clear after, oh, the first 954 responses, was that you’re craving more information, more clarity, more POWER over your own love life.

The #1 thing you want from me – by far – is how to understand men.

That wasn’t a big surprise.

After all, if men were easier to figure out, you’d already be in a healthy relationship, and I’d probably be out of a job.

I’m kidding, of course, but I’m very sympathetic to your frustrations and have made it my top priority to focus my energies on helping you “get” what makes men tick and how you can make better choices with your partners.

Surprising (to me, anyway) was that the second most-important thing to you was “meeting men in real life”. Here’s a sampling of some of your questions:

Where do you go to meet real men?
Where are the real men after age 50?
Where and how do I meet real available men that are close to my age (59)?
Where can I meet men in the suburbs?
Where do you meet men besides on-line and bars?
How can I meet quality men in real life, when my life is so busy?
Where do attractive, successful 46 year old divorced women meet men who are 41-50 aside from on-line, a bar and a gym? Where do guys who are divorced, or successful go? Seems like sophisticated guys go to their club or their boat or places we cannot find them? How can we locate our equals? Just want to find them! I can do the rest if I meet anyone similar to me professionally. Want to meet CEO or C level as that is my level…

Personally, I don’t know the difference between the “real man” of which these women speak and a “fake man”, but I am hearing an outcry for the one place that you can go to meet the man of your dreams.

And I was about to supply a few brilliant options, until I read this response:

I would love for someone (you?) to stop giving pat answers to “where can I meet a great guy?” like, “join a club!” or “try meetup.com!” or “volunteer!” There has to be other ways, and I feel like every dating expert gives these exact answers every time. I guess I would want you to get a little granular and give more LA-centric answers, because really, LA is different from anywhere else when it comes to dating!

I see.

Out of all the free stuff I offer to you, my next endeavor should be to build a tool so that any woman in any city can plug in her ZIP code and the search engine would spit out the local spot where all the tall, dark, handsome, sophisticated, quality, “real” men are hanging out and giving each other secret handshakes?
Seriously?

There’s no bar or store or city or dating site that has managed to weed out all the losers, liars, chumps and dweebs, thereby preserving only the cream of the crop for your choosing.

Let’s flip this around for a second.

What if a smart, kind, funny, honest, successful man told you that he had a very important question for you that he needs to understand about women.

“So, where do all the young, thin, sexy, witty, optimistic, confident, understanding, self-aware women hang out? There has to be a place because I can’t seem to find a “real” woman who is my equal ANYWHERE!”

What would you say to this poor guy?

“In your dreams.”

“Have you tried Home Depot?”

“I hear some porn stars in the Valley are really sweet.”

“You can hang out in a yoga retreat but most women find it creepy if you hit on them there.”

You know what I’d say to him?

“You’re asking the wrong question.”

There is no one place where all the “quality” women or men hang out.

There’s no bar or store or city or dating site that has managed to weed out all the losers, liars, chumps and dweebs, thereby preserving only the cream of the crop for your choosing.

Quality men are EVERYWHERE. They’re just mixed in with all the rest of the guys out there.

Quality men drive to work.

Quality men play golf and watch football on weekends.

Quality men work 50 hours a week.

But unless you’re going to hitchhike for guys, crash his golf foursome, break into his house or stalk him in his office, you’re simply not meeting him in real life.

You’ve been waiting forever to meet him in real life. Hasn’t happened.

Which is why asking for the location of quality men is the wrong question.

When I said I want to provide advice to you on “meeting men in real life”, it’s not about WHERE you meet them…

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A Great Opportunity For You To Find Love Now

Evan Marc Katz — Sun, 22 May 2011 15:38:31 +0000

Elizabeth has stopped chasing men who are ambivalent about her.

Anita is having a great time getting to know her new man.

Stephanie has a guy who’s completely into her.

Irene does, too, and she can’t believe how easy it is.

Why am I telling you about these newly empowered women?

Because all of them were longtime readers, like you.

However, these women weren’t content with free weekly dating advice. They wanted a permanent change in their love lives.

They all joined my Inner Circle this year and have seen an instant impact – both on the way that men respond to them…and on the way that they respond to men.

If you’ve enjoyed my material, but noticed that your love life hasn’t actually changed for the better, you need someone to hold you accountable. That’s my job.

As your Personal Trainer for Love, my mission is to show you a new paradigm for success that will give you the ultimate power and control over your own destiny.

No more waiting for Mr. Right to show up. Here’s how you can take action now:

http://www.evanmarckatz.com/coaching/group-coaching/inner-circle-signup.php

The Inner Circle is the only way you can get access to private coaching outside of my $3000-$5000 one-on-one coaching courses. And the price couldn’t be better:

Only $397/month for a minimum of four months.

Considering that I’ll be answering your most pressing dating three times a month, and that I’m giving away free copies of both Why He Disappeared and Finding the One Online, you can’t afford to NOT join my Inner Circle.

If you want to read more about the Inner Circle, you can click here:

But act fast: there are only a handful of slots before the 12 person group is full.

See you in class on Monday, June 6th!

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This Is Your Chance To Choose The Questions I Answer!

Evan Marc Katz — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 20:00:24 +0000

After ten months of dedicated service, my blog intern Cat has been promoted. This means there’s an exciting opening to take over the intern position, join my team, and put your stamp on the blog!

If you’ve ever thought, “I’d like to be a dating coach…” this is how you get your start. Seriously.

You get to read ALL the incoming email questions.

Including the weird sex ones.

You get to DECIDE which questions I answer.

No kidding. I receive over 150 questions each month, but I can only answer four. You’ll narrow it down to the best that I haven’t answered in the past. (This is why finding a regular reader who knows the majority of this material is paramount.)

You get to delete the comments of people who insult me and other readers.

Dissenting opinions are OK. Being rude to the host and other guests is not. Fortunately, we have such a great community here that probably 99% of comments are approved. (You may not always agree with what you’re approving, so an open mind is a must.)

You get a SNEAK PREVIEW of each of my answers one month in advance.

I may type fast and spell well, but I’m still prone to bouts of redundancy and cluelessness. It’s your job to make me look good when there’s a comma left off.

That’s the fun stuff. Now let’s get to the qualifications I’m looking for:

When Cat started this internship, she’d never used WordPress before, but she had a nearly encyclopedic knowledge of my old posts, plus a passion and enthusiasm for implementing “big ideas” and learning everything she could to improve the look and content of this blog. As a result of her efforts, we’re now reaching more people than ever before. So here are the basic things I’m looking for if you’re interested in taking on this exciting challenge:

1) Time – If you’re too busy to date, you’re probably too busy to screen hundreds of blog questions and comments. I only want a partner who can take this blog to a new level. Thankfully, that means closer to 5 hours a week than 20, but it does mean spending some time every day on the blog moderating comments, as well as formatting (and selecting a picture for) three blog posts a week scheduled for every Monday, Thursday and Sunday.

2) Responsibility – running my blog isn’t the most demanding task, but it’s not something that can be dropped because you have something else to do. Over 100,000 readers a month depend on this blog running smoothly. (And that requires a reliable internet connection as well.)

3) Somewhat tech savvy – You may be available. You may be dedicated. You may know all of my old posts. But if you don’t know how to create and format pages on WordPress – or don’t have an interest in learning– this isn’t the position for you. It’s not brain surgery, but it’s a more technical job than a touchy-feely job.

Basic skills in Word, Excel, Twitter, and Facebook are pretty essential. And if you know SEO, you’re already at the top of the list.

So what do you get for the pleasure of running my blog?

Well, that depends entirely on you. It is, after all, a non-paid position.

Cat got promoted and now knows how to run a successful WordPress blog and Facebook fan page, skills that are becoming increasingly important in business today. Former intern Amy learned a new paradigm for dating and got free access to all of my products. Both were with me for a year and got to take social networking classes that I paid for. Other previous interns, Ben and Thomas got private mentoring from me as they started their own blogs, businesses and brands. Most importantly, I count all of them as friends to this day.

According to Cat, your greatest pleasure will be in putting your imprint on something highly important and lasting. You don’t know what a huge difference you make until you see all the “thank you” letters from readers we’ve touched! And you are the one who chooses which letters we run. That’s powerful.

If you’re qualified and want to work together closely on this important project, please send an email to blog at evanmarckatz.com with your contact info, a description of your current job, how many hours you have available each week, a rundown of your technical abilities, and – if you have one – a link to your own blog/website/Facebook fan page/Twitter account.

I look forward to learning more about you.

Many thanks and much love,

Evan

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Your Votes Count In The Readers’ Choice Awards!

Evan Marc Katz — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 16:00:51 +0000

I’m touched and honored by the loyal readers who’ve been voting daily for me – and this amazing community – in the About.com Readers Choice Awards. But as much as I’d like to think we could coast on merit alone, we’re in a serious contest here, as my competition seems to be highly motivated to get out the vote herself.

Please join the 3000 people who have already shown their support by clicking on these two links and voting every single day through March 8th:

Vote for Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for Best Dating Blog.

Vote for “Why He Disappeared” for Best Dating Book.

Thanks again for voting and for showing the rest of the Internet that we have the most passionate and active blog readership out there.

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Do You Want to Find Your Soulmate Now?

Evan Marc Katz — Wed, 16 Feb 2011 22:14:26 +0000

Just wanted to tell you about a few big things going on now.

First of all, I want to thank you – for two things.

1) This blog, which is just under 4 years old, hit a milestone today. For the first time ever, we have received over 100,000 visits in the past month. For a site with no partners, sponsors, SEO or Google Adwords strategy, that’s absolutely remarkable. And it’s all because of you – your questions, your comments, and your enthusiasm for this material.

2) I’m thrilled to say that your voice has been heard loud and clear on the About.com Readers Choice Awards. However, I know the other candidates are mobilizing their friends and readers to vote for them as we speak. And since you can vote every single day until March 8th, I’d appreciate you winning this contest for all of us by clicking on these two links:

Vote for Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for Best Dating Blog.

Vote for “Why He Disappeared” for Best Dating Book.

Finally, you may have seen the ad on the right sidebar about the Ultimate Soulmate Summit. If you haven’t clicked on it, you probably should. It’s pretty amazing stuff for both men and women, singles and couples. 21 of the worlds leading love experts are coming together online to guide you through a step-by-step program to magnetize the love of your life. Better yet, it’s absolutely FREE.

You’ll learn first-hand from experts like Dr. John Gray, Debbie Ford, Neale Donald Walsh, Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Christian Carter and more.

If you’ve ever heard me quote another authority in my newsletters or Why He Disappeared, it’s quite likely that she is a part of the Soulmate Summit.

Dr. Pat Allen? Check. Lori Gottlieb? Check. Dr. Helen Fisher? Check. Alison Armstrong? Check.

Never before have so many experts in the field of dating and relationships gathered in one place to help you discover exactly what you need to do to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from attracting the love of your life. So whether you’re in a relationship or not, you can get something tangible out of the Soulmate Summit.

Never before have so many experts in the field of dating and relationships gathered in one place to help you discover exactly what you need to do to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from attracting the love of your life.

The event began on Monday with Marianne Williamson and continued Tuesday with Carol Allen. Tonight, Helen Fisher, author of “Why We Love” and creator of Chemistry.com will talk about brain chemistry and love – one of my favorite subjects. And did I mention that this is all FREE? Because it is. Every call streams live and remains on a website for 24 hours for you to download and listen.

And if you enjoy any of the varied speakers and their one-hour interviews, you can upgrade to purchase the entire series via digital download or via CD/transcript. It’s really amazing stuff and I’m very honored to have been invited to speak. My interview, for what it’s worth, airs on Sunday, February 20th.

If you enjoy this blog and want to learn more about relationships from some of the world’s greatest authorities (and yours truly!), click here to register.

Can’t wait to see you there. By the way, I’m doing online dating stuff because, apparently, John Gray doesn’t know too much about it…

Warmest wishes and much love,

Your friend,

Evan

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What Makes This Blog So Great? Our Readers, Of Course!

Evan Marc Katz — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 20:22:05 +0000

I’m very proud to announce that because of YOUR nominations in About.com’s Readers’ Choice Awards for Best Dating-Related Blog and Best Dating-Related Book, I’m now one of five finalists in both categories.

Thank you for tapping into one of my most unattractive character traits: intense competitiveness.

And, as you know, the only cure for competitiveness is VICTORY!

Anyway, if you’re as proud of this community as I am, your next step is to vote. You can vote up to once a day in each category until March 8, with winners announced March 15.

As I mentioned last month, there’s no “prize” other than bragging rights. But since I wouldn’t be here without you, I figured you’d take equal delight in showing the world that intelligent, rational discussion is on the rise. So if you’ve been reading, commenting, or just lurking here – and feel that this forum is beneficial to creating greater understanding between the sexes…

Please click here to vote for Why He Disappeared by Evan Marc Katz for Best Dating Book.

Click here to vote our blog, Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach and our awesome community, for Best Dating Blog.

Thanks for reading and for being such an important part of my life.

Your friend,

Evan

P.S. Please comment below to tell me that you nominated the blog and book. Say it loud and say it proud!

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