There are less than 24 hours to go before you can get your copy of Why He Disappeared. Before you do, I want to thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Your questions and comments these past few weeks have been invaluable, and have really informed what you will see in the final product.
Although I hate to be so anal about the details, it’s important to me that everything in WHD is PERFECT – the eBooks, the audio, the bonuses, and, most importantly, the page on which you can download all of this material. Continue Reading »
In an email I sent out yesterday I talked about the cost of pain and suffering. I mentioned that we will pay lots of money for pleasure – a car, a vacation – but are not as generous with ourselves when it comes to removing pain. If you’ve ever balked at $200/hr therapists before, you know what I’m talking about. You’d have to go to therapy every single week for 2 straight years to come close to buying a cheap car. Yet you’re more likely to get the car. Continue Reading »
This is the third video based on the questions YOU wanted answered in my 1500 question survey. Last week, I told you that you don’t ATTRACT the wrong men, you ACCEPT the wrong men. I got a lot of really great feedback on that and hope that you’ve already made the mental adjustment to stop thinking you’re a bad man magnet and instead realize that you’ve been way too accepting of unacceptable behavior.
Today’s tip might be a little more challenging because instead of telling you to dump the bad guys, I’m going to ask you to open up to a whole new way of viewing the pursuit of love. It may be counter-intuitive, but I am confident that it will make a big difference for you. You ready?
This is the second video based on the questions YOU wanted answered in my big survey. Last week, I shared with you the revelation that men are about feelings, not just looks. And that the reason a man will want to marry you has everything to do with how he feels when he’s around you. Make him feel good, and he’ll want to say. Make him feel bad, well, you know the rest.
That idea was not to say that you’ve done anything wrong – you might be the sweetest, most loving, perfect girlfriend ever. I just think it’s surprising to women that men are really driven by their feelings – namely, how they feel around you.
Which is a perfect segue to today’s video, in which you will definitely find yourself nodding your head. After you listen to what I have to say, I’m confident you are going to save yourself YEARS of wasted time in the future.
720 women (and a coupla guys) have filled out my survey so far, and the results have been astounding. So many interesting, heartfelt, vulnerable questions, which, if I didn’t have a day job as a dating coach, I would love to answer, one by one.
Many of the questions come from a genuinely curious place and there are simple, straightforward answers: Continue Reading »
I know: it sounds like an email from Africa, but keep reading…
I have to admit, I’ve been a little bit of a hypocrite recently. It’s embarrassing to admit that, since I run around giving advice for a living, but it’s true.
I’m always telling you to be bold. To take chances. To get rid of your fear. To open up to the unknown. To enlist the help of others. To not be afraid to fail. Continue Reading »
So last night, The Bachelor, Jake Pavelka, chose Vienna, the sexy, opinionated former Hooters waitress, over cute, bland, devoted Tenley. Continue Reading »
After six months of dedicated service, my blog intern, Amy, has just gotten a promotion at her “real” job. I’d like to think that my advice helped pave the way, but the truth is, she did it all herself.
What this means is she’s moving on from this blog, which creates an exciting opening. Continue Reading »
From LiveScience.com: “Researchers at the University of Iowa find that men increasingly are interested in intelligent, educated women who are financially stable — and chastity isn’t an issue.”
Last week, I wrote a blog post about matchmakers, and as soon as I did it, I regretted it.
I’m not sure if you’ve ever had that feeling. Your mouth starts moving faster than your brain, and you haven’t fully had time to formulate your thoughts or consider the consequences of what you had to say. Continue Reading »
