So last night, The Bachelor, Jake Pavelka, chose Vienna, the sexy, opinionated former Hooters waitress, over cute, bland, devoted Tenley.

At one point in last night’s proceedings, I said out loud to my wife that I’d probably choose Vienna… and then changed my mind by the end of the show, where I started “rooting” for Tenley. Continue Reading »

After six months of dedicated service, my blog intern, Amy, has just gotten a promotion at her “real” job. I’d like to think that my advice helped pave the way, but the truth is, she did it all herself.

What this means is she’s moving on from this blog, which creates an exciting opening. Continue Reading »

From LiveScience.com: “Researchers at the University of Iowa find that men increasingly are interested in intelligent, educated women who are financially stable — and chastity isn’t an issue.”

Well, duh. Continue Reading »

Last week, I wrote a blog post about matchmakers, and as soon as I did it, I regretted it.

I’m not sure if you’ve ever had that feeling. Your mouth starts moving faster than your brain, and you haven’t fully had time to formulate your thoughts or consider the consequences of what you had to say. Continue Reading »

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I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog:

Women who think that everything is someone else’s fault and that everyone else should change. And women who understand that you can’t control anyone else’s behavior, all you can do is adjust to the world as it is. Continue Reading »

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This article - actually, this series of articles – at the Huffington Post – has drawn some predictable criticism from some the commenters. And why? Continue Reading »

I’ve heard some doozies in my day, but I’d love to hear from you.

Click here to share your story and if you have the best one, you’ll get a prize!

By the way, comments posted on the blog are ineligible, so make sure you go to the above link, which takes you to Facebook and post your answers there.

BTW, I’ll be interacting more directly with you on Facebook, so if you haven’t hooked up with me there, make sure you do so.

Can’t wait to hear your embarrassing admissions. The competition should be fierce!

Just got an email that 184 have already registered for my live speaking appearance on Saturday, September 26th at the Tee Room in Newport Beach, CA.

For $15, you get two drinks, dancing, a huge singles event, and an hour-long dating coaching seminar from your personal trainer for love (that would be, um, me.)

Check it out, register early, and come up and say hi when you’re there. I spend a lot of time online but truly, nothing beats a personal connection. Last time I spoke, I actually got to meet frequent poster, Hunter, which was kind of cool.

Click here to get all the details.

Your friend,

Evan

Men may have changed their looks over the past 20 years, but they’re still the same clueless, shallow, unrealistic creatures they ever were. Check out this video footage from 1987 and ask yourself: would you rather date online or trust a matchmaking service? You know my vote.

Today’s a great day. It’s Friday. It’s sunny. My wife is returning after two weeks in Portugal. And I’m excited to announce my first of three upcoming speaking engagements. Continue Reading »