A reader recently pointed out to me that she had no idea what I did for a living. Funny, I never thought about that. But unless you’ve been scouring the side panels of this blog, you might have just thought I was some dude who likes answering dating questions for fun.
And yeah, technically, I am.
But what you may have not realized is that this is all I do for a living.
I’m a dating coach.
Every day, I listen to individuals tell me about their love lives.
I help men understand women. I help women understand men.
I help both sexes uncover their blind spots to gain more power and control over their destinies.
I know it sounds kinda cheesy, but I love my work because because it makes a tangible difference in people’s lives. Sometimes it happens almost instantly.
- I once had a 31-year-old man sign up with me. He got a girlfriend after only one phone session.
- I once had a 40-year-old woman sign up with me. She met the father of her child three weeks later.
It’s exhilarating when it works out this well…but believe me, success isn’t guaranteed. Dating coaching is a process, like changing careers, or working out at the gym. There are ups and downs, but, at the end of the day, you get closer and closer to that relationship that’s been eluding you.
So how does it all work? Well, it all depends upon you. Before we work together, we spend a considerable amount of time on the phone, so I can learn more about you, your previous experiences, and your long-term goals. For example…
You may claim that you’re not meeting enough people. Too old for the bar scene, too few single friends, too much time at work. If that’s the case, I recommend online dating coaching, whereupon I help you get the most out of your experience. I buy you professional photos, write your profile essays using your words, and teach you a new email and dating technique that separates you from the pack. It’s remarkably effective.
You may find that you’re meeting people, but things fall apart soon thereafter. You’re not good on email, you’re awkward at flirting on the phone, you don’t get asked out after a first date. If this describes you, I’d recommend regular dating coaching. Once-a-week phone coaching sessions, which are actually much more powerful and interactive than therapy. Because you’re not just talking for the sake of being heard. I’m listening to your story and providing you some tangible new techniques and philosophies in return.
Finally, if you feel that you need help both meeting dates and keeping dates, I do live dating coaching weekends, where, in two full days together, we work on all facets of your dating life – your appearance, your people skills, your online presence, your first date abilities, your self-esteem, your awareness of how you’re perceived by others, and so on. You’ll even go on a simulated Saturday night date so I can get instant, no punches-pulled feedback on how you come across in a dating situation. Live coaching is a one-of-a-kind, life enhancing experience for both of us.
To some people this all sounds strange. I’m smart. I’ve gone to therapy. I have friends. Why hire a dating coach?
Well, if you’re single and stymied in your pursuit of a lasting relationship, dating coaching might be just what you need. We think nothing of hiring a plumber to fix a leaky faucet, or of hiring an accountant to do your taxes, but for some reason, we think we should have all the answers when it comes to matters of the heart. Not true.
We all have problems. We all have blind spots. We’re all too close to our own issues to see things clearly. By working with an experienced and unbiased dating coach – whose work you’re already familiar with – you quickly develop a greater awareness of what’s not working in your life. More importantly, you’ll develop the instant tools to change it.
If you want your love life to finally start working for you, click here to learn more. And if you want to hear what others have to say about working with me, click here.
Have an amazing weekend.
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