If You Are Short, Fat, Older or An Asian Man, You Must Read This. But Especially If You’re Short.

If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. Appearing with me was one of my all-time favorite clients, Tom Pandolfo. Charming, charismatic, successful, warm, athletic… Tom has it all. The only thing missing in his life is a woman. So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on Match.com.

We took new professional photos. We had Tom fill out my long questionnaire and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone. We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident. We renamed him “LookMaNoHair.”

And we watched as his in-box filled up with interested women.

You can see what a great experience it was in this CBS Early Show clip:

What I haven’t yet mentioned is that Tom Pandolfo is 5’3″.
Height doesn't define a man as a husbandI didn’t want to mention it for the same reason that Tom didn’t want to mention it in his profile: because it’s irrelevant to anything that makes him a good accountant, husband, or father. Yet his height defines him, since it has prevented otherwise interested women from being interested in him over the course of his entire life.

Height is irrelevant to anything that makes a man a good husband or father.

This instantly reminded me of a story that ABC did years ago on this very issue.

To see if the women would go for short guys who were successful, ABCNEWS’ Lynn Sherr created extraordinary résumés for the shorter men. She told the women that the shorter men included a doctor, a best-selling author, a champion skier, a venture capitalist who’d made millions by the age of 25.

Nothing worked. The women always chose the tall men. Sherr asked whether there’d be anything she could say that would make the shortest of the men, who was 5 feet, irresistible. One of the women replied, “Maybe the only thing you could say is that the other four are murderers.” Another backed her up, saying that had the taller men had a criminal record she might have been swayed to choose a shorter man. Another said she’d have considered the shorter men, if the taller men had been described as “child molesters.”

Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’3”, no matter what else he has going for him.

I’m going to let Tom take it from here.

So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’3″ and 5’10”. I wanted to know if height was the only difference and the constant deal breaker. So I moved my profile from Pittsburgh and posted it for 3 days in a town where nobody knew me (Philadelphia). Here’s what I found:

5’3” in Pittsburgh 5’10” in Philadelphia
Mutual matches 0 80
Reverse matches 12 400
Petite women w/pics w/in 50 miles 45 650
Views in 3 days 11 212
Emails received – unsolicited 0 32
Winks received – unsolicited 2 28
Emails sent out 6 6
Replies received to emails sent out 0 6

 

This proves, in stark and undeniable terms, two things:…

Life – and people – can be incredibly unfair. We talked about this just the other day. People want what they want. They’re attracted to what they’re attracted to. And no amount of complaining is going to change it.

Oh, and I am one helluva dating coach. 60 unsolicited contacts in three days? Six replies from six emails sent? Come on. That’s pretty damn good!

Okay, I’m kidding about the last part, but only because I’m so serious about the rest of this. Really, it kills me.

Why, in God’s name, is it important for women to stand on tiptoes to kiss a guy?

Believe me, Tom is no “woe-is-me” kind of guy. He’s just been confronted with a very ugly reality that has shaken his confidence in people. And even though we had good initial results, the fact remains, empirically: women don’t want short men.

And although you can feel free to substitute “older women”, “older men”, “heavier women”, or “Asian men”, I honestly feel that nobody gets a rawer deal than short guys.

Honestly, ladies…You can get your own dishes from the top shelf. You don’t really need to feel “protected” from the dangers of suburbia. And why, in God’s name, is it important to stand on your tiptoes to kiss a guy?

So how about it, women? Is there any legitimate reason not to go out with this amazing, amazing man?

Talk to me. I want to hear the truth.

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  1. 781
    Ramon

    @Sammie
    I am not talking about hispanic women specifically, I have had relationships with some african american and white women. Currently I am interested in a beautiful pakistani girl and my height has not posed an issue as of yet.  I have noticed that out of all cultures, white women have had the greatest issue with my height.

  2. 782
    Sammie

    @Ramon (789),
    As a black man, I do not believe you with respect to African-American women. They are the most height-sensitive and there was even a study done that showed just that…
     
    @Angie,
    You gave no tips, just repeated an old diatribe we have all heard before…that does not really work…

  3. 783
    judy

    Hunter 769 – ah the beauty of those words – the magnificence of the “fuck it”.
    I used to get so offended when men used words like that to a woman, and now, it just makes things so crystal clear!!
    By the way, haha, for years, I thought quite seriously that I was 5’7″ and ye Gods, I’m much smaller.  5’4″. 
    Come on men…….where are ya?????

  4. 784
    Saman Q

    @Sammie
    I’m not trolling , i’m short thats a fact iv traveled to many countries because of my job , and in most of them i considered short , and when you say that average height of Iran is 5.8.8 (I don’t know how they could get something like that from an isolated country like Iran !!!!  ) i assume that you are talking about average height of all ages !!  i am 25 and i know that people around my age or under 35 are much taller than the older ones , at least here , maybe i’m average between +50 males but among people around my age i’m short !!  thats a fact and i don’t have any problem with it !! :)

  5. 785
    James

    Hi, I’m a 33-year-old 5’7″ white guy and currently live in Colorado, but I have lived coast-to-coast in major cities such as Philadelphia and Los Angeles as well. I can certainly say that I am immediately dismissed by almost every female of child-rearing age and generally looked at as inferior by my male counterparts. I am in excellent physical shape, have all my hair, and am a very family oriented person raising a 2-year-old child. It also happens that I am a world-class scientist (genius-level with good money and a natural leader in my field), very sociable (parties are awesome!), and extremely talented (music, art, sports, etc). I am AMAZED at how my height dictates the way people treat me. Only retirement-aged folks choose to engage me in any real conversation, and women generally go no further than being my friend. Without dealing drugs or brazenly showing off my talents, there is no respect in my life from my peers. My many successes in life give me plenty of confidence, but it still doesn’t compete with a 6’2″ army dude with a gimp limp. So, I am moving to another country where people don’t regard me a short. America can have it’s close-minded, sorry excuse for dating rituals. Why 5’2″ women have to chase 5’10″ baby-men with zero emotional security and ignore me completely is beyond me. Enjoy your fat, lazy, and poorly educated “man” who can’t help around the house because he screwed up his back playing flag football. His pancakes probably suck because he felt no need to learn how to cook, and he’ll expect you to do every-damned-thing around the house after your full shift at the hospital. Good luck with all that. Feel protected and secure in him still? I certainly hope so.

  6. 786
    Darin

    A woman can reduce her weight, but a man cannot increase his height.

  7. 787
    hunter

    Darin#794,
     
    …..a mans height doesn’t get him the girl……..

    @793,

    …… formal schooling does not get you the girl….herds of men don’t know that….,,

    1. 787.1
      Adam

      A mans height doesn’t get him the girl but it sure as hell makes her reject him.

  8. 788
    judy

    Hunter 795 – have to say, I agree with your point to 793.  Sometimes, it’s chemistry, not the height.  I mentioned earlier on that I had met a short man who was someone else’s dream man – there was absolutely nothing that you could reproach him for – but well, if you’re not attracted, that’s that.

  9. 789
    James

    Due to women’s discrimination against me for my height, I now find tall women hideously ugly. The sense of entitlement and lack of empathy & respect on the part of tall men make them unfit as close friends as well. There are so many advantages to being short, I feel it is extremely ignorant of our culture to have a preference for large size. As a species, we are already big enough to completely dominate our environment, as well as worlds beyond. Let me list the clear advantages short people have over the lumbering giants in the majority:
    1.) it is cheaper to live – short people eat less food, require less fuel to get around, use less fabric for clothes, etc. 
    2.) we are better survivors – having been abandoned by our friends and many family members because of our “reject” status, we are often left to our own devices for survival. i personally have been impoverished several times due to employers preferring taller employees. this has forced me to use my other god-given gifts of intelligence, strength, and compassion to find food, security, and friends. 
    3.) we are smarter than tall people – undoubtedly most of us have been forced into solitude and left with little human contact at times. these times have provided us with excellent opportunities to learn and master difficult concepts related to the physical world, spirituality, and general human nature. 
    4.) we are more agile – being small gives a person a low center of gravity, making a compact form excellent for balance and general agility. skateboarding, snowboarding, skiing, hockey, gymnastics, dancing, and martial arts are only a few areas where being of smaller stature is advantageous. when we master the fundamentals of a physical activity, we can excel due to our quickness and ability to land on our feet. the tall people can have basketball and football…after all, we have to let them be good at something.
    5.) we are just better looking – i mean, when you’re short, you’ve gotta work with it. we pay more attention to grooming and style, and have a far better appreciation for aesthetics than our tall counterparts. if you follow a decent diet and don’t let your arrogant boss work you to death, there is no need to be fat or bald. respect your body and mind. 
    6.) we can change the minds of our female counterparts – societies rise and fall, and ours is no different. women ultimately care for survival more than stature, and will side with any man who can provide stability. those who know are the ones in charge when the world falls apart, and this is our chance to claim much needed respect. while women may prefer a large man now, his ignorance and lack of utility will soon be evident. an economic recession is an excellent time to show tall people just how coddled and useless they are. let them envy you for your home made breads, your ability to fix your own car (and your wisdom for not buying an american one), and your fortitude to stand alone and face the challenges that others cower from. we are so strong and intelligent, women will recognize it and eat their pride in foolishly choosing size over character and talent.
    i wish you all strength and patience in the times to come. rejection of tall peoples bullying is the first step toward freedom from oppression and will be a boon to your self esteem. you know that you are the key player at work…that is your leverage. tell your boss he can be the one to work the extra hours if he wants that job done fast. good luck finding talent to replace you in his failing company. reject women for their selfish and arrogant preference for the tall people who already have all the advantages life can give (which are stolen from our toil). it is our time to show the world that WE SHORT PEOPLE ARE THE THINKERS, THE HARDEST WORKERS, AND HAVE THE STRONGEST BACKBONES OF ANYONE. when they ask for forgiveness, we will give it. until then, show none.  
     

    1. 789.1
      Jess

      I would have a heavy petting session with you, seriously. I am 4’11″. I am so desperate for a short guy omg. Why don’t you guys ever approach me. Why do short guys always have girl friends with ‘bubbly’ personalities? Why do I have to put up with these evil, arrogant tallies!! I have heard tall women say horrible things about short men and I want to kick them in the shins. Wait what is your height?

      Wait…5’7 is not short! That is normal. Short is like 5’5 and under. And you have a kid so obviously someone wanted to have sex with you. You are hardly a reject. You are a totally average human. I retract the desire to pet heavily.

  10. 790
    James

    lost is the image of the underdog. yes, we shorter men have odds stacked against our favor, but that only means we must be the strongest to persevere. our presence on this earth gives us a god-given right to have satisfaction and a fair shake. we are the underdog, and united together there is nothing can stand in our way. when a tall man laughs in your face and discounts you as a threat, know we are all united in spirit and aspire to reveal that giant to be the coward that he is. learn all his weak points and be ready for your opportunity to take him down. learn their bad habits (cheating on girlfriends, leaving work early, etc), common physical failures (weak backs and knees), and exploit then whenever possible. be much more clever than him because you have to be. show no weakness and you will not be weak. show no mercy because he shows you none. big men, you are warned. 

  11. 791
    hunter

    @796judy,
     
    Chemistry?…some men can make women “feel”, can’t they?…or is that chemistry?..

  12. 792
    James

    to those of you raising male children of smaller stature…please show your child the way to defend himself from ridicule and physical threats. nothing is more humiliating to a young man than to be equated to a child based on stature alone. being made fun of for wearing smaller clothes, eating less food, etc erodes his confidence and will certainly lessen his chances of finding a desirable mate. teach your children how to handle their fear of the larger male, and to think quickly with witty remarks and anecdotes. male children should be taught basic self-defense techniques from a young age. boxing, tae kwon do, wrestling…just about anything is better than nothing. bullying is rampant and certainly does not end with high school. for a true change to turn in our favor, it will take more than our generation. our children must know that they also have a right to security and happiness, even if they have to claim it with their own fists. our young men must show they have the courage and talent to conquer the bullying element so that women understand there is no stronger force on earth than the underdog. clearly, it is better to be clever and use words first…but we all know that talking does no good against a bully who is used to getting his way. fight back, and fight with honor.

  13. 793
    James

    in addition, there is every reason to raise your children on a healthy diet that will help them grow as tall as they can. while genetics may predispose many of us to be short, the typical american diet can assure that we will be stunted due to a lack of vitamins, minerals, and proper fat content. be educated about proper nutrition, and do it immediately. children require an exceptional amount of protein and calcium for proper muscle and bone growth. make sure they get it. regular dinners at macdonald, wendys, burger king, etc is completely unacceptable and will assure that not only are your children undersized, but also overweight. stocking your kitchen with cheap bread, ramen noodles, and mac & cheese is also quite unacceptable. learn to cook and do it right! chicken stock (made from bones & tendons in your own kitchen) is a cheap source of simple proteins & calcium that is well suited for growing children, and does wonders for the body in general. add shelled sunflower seeds to your children’s diet for an excellent source of minerals and vitamins. do not overlook the importance of omega-3 fats in brain development. our kids must be smart in order to think-fast when the moment calls them. if you sell your kid’s diet short, your kids will be short.  

  14. 794
    James

    get good at everything you can. women appreciate athletes, artists, musicians, and cooks (especially since WOMEN CAN’T COOK ANYTHING). be the best you can be, and this will be your leverage. women love to read, and love to enjoy a short story written especially for them. if you are good at it, you can control their emotions this way. find your calling and excel at it. also, show no shame in warming up to a woman you know is unhappy in her marriage with her tall man. he is bored with her and knows that he has lots of options. don’t invest yourself too much and expect rejection because A GOOD WOMAN IS A LOYAL WOMAN, but it is time to shake the foundation of their marriage and the shoddy values it is based on. be emotionally open to friendship and do not resent her for being loyal. friendship leads to romance for us…it will help your self-esteem immensely and get you used to interacting on a romantic level with women you believe to be out of your league. she truly does want a man that is emotionally stable and comforting, and tall men generally lack this quality due to the fact that they don’t have as much struggle and rejection in their lives. show that you are confident when rejection comes your way, and that if you have to be alone, you’re not a baby about it. definitely cut it off if she expects more from you than she is willing to return. if she returns your affections at all, you are doing the right things. remember, if we all do this, women will change their opinions of smaller men and see us as renaissance men who understand their place in this life. this can become an addiction for them…and one strong enough to break their little fix they get from the tall man.  

  15. 795
    James

    so, here’s the real deal. all you women who say “it’s just my preference to date someone taller than me” clearly have no idea what the situation of a shorter man is like. we really don’t want to date you, but feel compelled to because the women shorter than us seem to think your 6’0″ boyfriend is up for grabs, and he seems to think she’s good to go too. WE COMPROMISE OUR VALUES WHEN WE PURSUE TALLER WOMEN BECAUSE SHORTER WOMEN WON’T HAVE US. it is a humbling to experience your disloyalty when you abandon us for taller men. your preference for a taller man is understandable, and honestly my preference is for a shorter woman. so my problem is with my taller brothers who keep stepping in the short mix. you better watch your step, because 5’7″ isn’t as short as you think it is, and i’m certainly tired of your selfish behavior. you can’t have it all while i get nothing. so, every time i see your cute 5’2″ girlfriend look my way you better keep a good eye on her because i am most certainly going to try to steal her. she is tired of your lazy, selfish, and entitled behavior, and i can read it like a book. step to me and find out what 5’7″ can do to your pudgy face and bad back. call me all the names you want, cause i’ve heard them all before. this nerd isn’t taking your nonsense anymore. 

  16. 796
    judy

    Hunter 799 – I wish I had an honest reply to your question about chemistry. 
    I am still in contact via email with the man in question (he was a colleague) and still have enormous respect for him.  We knew each other for four years.
    What was missing was what I call chemistry.  It was missing – the “x” factor.
    He was certainly attractive and charming and kind.
    Did you never have the experience of meeting someone who had it all going for her, but you did not feel the “x” factor was missing? The one I call “chemistry”?
    But I did not answer your question.  No, he did not make me “feel” as you said. 
    Another man did make me feel, as in, I felt incredibly sexually attracted to him, but over the weeks, while my body was saying YES, his consistent bad manners and lack of reliability switched my tap off.
    Oh well, back to the drawing board!
     
     

  17. 797
    James

    hi judy, 
         the chemistry of a romantic relationship is defined as the sum of all parts, including personality, height, wealth, health, etc. call any of them parameter “x” and should either party find that any category is compromised too much, there is “bad chemistry”. clearly your friend lacked a little too much in the personality category and didn’t have the confidence to ask you your feelings directly. this was probably due to the insecurity other people have made him feel about his height his entire life. it takes a lot of courage to ask a woman her feelings when you expect rejection, so i feel that you may have been too hard on him for asking around. if you truly respected him still, you would give him a second chance. he does have to get over feelings of inferiority though. if we may stop for a second and consider the human condition, we would find that it is a solid truth that man has had to regularly confront obstacles physically, emotionally, and spiritually greater than him. it is a right of passage to gain the confidence to confront those larger and stronger than yourself, and this is the essence of bravery. facing a major challenge and being prepared for failure is an essential life skill for every human being, and being of smaller stature introduces us to this at a younger age than most. mastering it will reward you with self-respect, and hopefully with a mate that respects you as well. i have seen giant men cower from german shepherds, police, and even teachers. i personally fear none of them, and will stand my ground when and where needed. women who feel that they need protection should be seeking a brave man, not a tall one. 
    on the topic of maintaining the affections of a beautiful and confident woman, good manners and honesty are very important. letting your past failures riddle your personality with anxiety and instability will only assure her departure. keeping a quality person around takes a little effort, and you should expect others to try to win her away. don’t let them chip away at your resolve. defend her and respect her as any high culture would respect and defend their homeland. a beautiful and confident woman is rare and precious, and must be earned. your anxiety of her leaving for a taller man will naturally lead you to possessiveness…a very bad quality in a man, and women are naturally repelled by it. your bravery, honesty, charm, and strong character are enough to keep her around. if she strays in spite of your good nature, let her go play the fool and watch her fail. don’t accept her back without a sobbing apology either. 

  18. 798
    hunter

    ..James..
    ..I would continue to ask the american women out….expect rejection..for every 10 women you ask out, one is going to say, “yes”….the ratio is 1:10…..keep trying…

  19. 799
    Kathy

    I’m 5’0 so I would totally date that Tom guy or any guy who is short. I can understand tall women wanting to date a tall men but i wil never understand why petite women like me go for guys that are like 6’0 or more, find me a short guy Evan ;)

    1. 799.1
      Jess

      Thank you! The majority of the guys that approach me are very, very tall. It is an ego, sexual thing. They want a rag doll to bounce around and they want their dick to seem huge. I have NEVER slept with a very tall man because their arrogance is too much. They try to pick me up and touch me immediately. They know they are god’s gift and just want to ‘experiment’ with a short girl. Most women choose from who approaches them so that’s how you get tiny ladies with sky high tall men. Most people want what they can’t have thus short guys will always pine for a tall woman. Most people reject in others what they don’t like in themselves that’s why you see Black people (I’m Black) always desperate for White partners (subject of a whole other post I’m sure). That’s why you see short people with tall people…they are overcompensating. No true short guy has ever approached me. I would love to date a nice short man. Tall guys all have the same generic personality. Short guys are more fun and individual. On ok cupid I put 4′ 11″ and someone called me a midget. The rest of the messages were from 6 foot plus dudes!! I cancelled my account! 

  20. 800
    Gary

    Come on people! lets be honest. Most women aren’t going to want to date a guy that’s short. I am 5′ 4 20 years of age and I have already came to this conclusion in  my short life span. However I, like most short guys should be is content with their height for one good reason. I did mention most women don’t date short guys, but that isn’t every women in the world. For the slow guys out their this means were not out the game…we just need to work extremely harder to find that person. Which can be a benefit because if she “ok” with your height shes most likely not shallow and brain wash by society. But you can’t be mad at the world for being short TRUST me I know it’s hell on earth, but aye it hasn’t killed you yet so you can still live strong. Oh yeah I’m black and short, now that is F***** unfair lol its like the universe is playing some cruel joke on me. But hey if the universe is making a joke I can only laugh at myself and move on right?

    1. 800.1
      Paul

      Hi Gary,

      I really like your demeanor on the subject. Working hard on self-improvement and searching for “the one” is an excellent mindset. What is your advice on compromises in terms of loyalty and respect? These are two areas of life where I find height influences peoples’ decision making greatly.

  21. 801
    hunter

     
    @gary#808,
     
    …..you are 5’4″, you can hug the majority of women and enjoy it!!!….

  22. 802
    Darin

    Gary (808),
    You are by far the most uplifting man on this site.  Thank you for the words of encouragement.  You honor all men.  You heart is light, and if you should ever find a woman who loves you for your height, or in spite of it, may she also see the light you carry within, because it truly is your best quality.  You have helped straighten out my view of myself, and have given me new hope.  You are right!  NOT ALL women are shallow like that.  We do need to remember that, no matter how many turn downs we have.

  23. 803
    Brian

    I’m 5’6 white guy who never had too much difficulty trying to attract the opposite sex. Like Location, Location, Location is to real estate – Confidence, Confidence, Confidence is to super attractive to a women. Power/status might be a close, albeit equal criteria but you’re only as small as you want/resign yourself to be!

  24. 804
    libco

    So weird, I have no problem with guys who are shorter but I do ask they not be shorter than me but as I am 5’3 thats not really problem. I can’t understand that being a deal breaker at all.

  25. 805
    Sammie

    Libco 804,

    Your post is a contradiction…no you do not like shorter men…

  26. 806
    hunter

    @804,

    …..I agree with you….

  27. 807
    EDDIE

    A really tall guy (6″3″ and over) with a woman that’s about 5’4″ looks dorky and goon-like to me. An average height guy with an average height girl looks a lot better in my opinion. I’m average height and have been chosen over tall guys many times. Looks and confidence trumps height every time.

    1. 807.1
      Richard

      Hi
      I’m a 45 year old 5ft 4 N European married to a ballerina.
      I am broadshouldered, had boyish good looks,
      long-legged. I am fit and muscular but I deliberately do not lift weights. Tertiary education.
      I’m also from a military and traditional background which has taught me manners and the means to deal with people. (What else do I have to state here!) I have had women approach me and tell me I am the best looking man in the room. The only time height is an issue was on a crowded nightclub floor – but these tend to be full of insecure women in their 20s
      following rules. I’ve had 3 occcasions when a tall man has called on my lack of height:
      invariably they have issues (they are skinny and scrawny) or when they see me as rather too level with their own ideas of their self-worth – the final occasion was when the gentleman rather liked me: he was probably used to other men less than 6ft having an issue with him – but I didn’t. Things work strangely sometimes.
      My observations (and tips):
      -It’s not necessarily the height : it’s the package.
      Short men who are scrawny, or dress badly, or carry themselves badly will have a hard time.
      -Do not overcompensate for being short -
      people might unfortunately label you as Napolean. It is unfair when a man who is confident is called up on it. But remember that every cocky man gets called out from time to time. Compensate for being short by being normal, and if you do that by being accomplished, be modest and charming about it. You will therefore be ahead of the average men who have their own issues to deal with. I was lucky in that my looks and my build carried well: in the same way a 6ft man got across the line with his body.
      Do not weight lift – a short stocky man can be a little strange.
      -There is a phase in life where short women will go for tall men, or indeed where women will attempt to check boxes.It’s hard in your 20s but things suddenly start to even out past
      30. I noticed at about 26 that all of a sudden, average men were pairing up very quickly with above average women. When you are 40 like me, you suddenly realise that at 5 4, and fit, that you
      are all of a sudden the alpha male in a sea of fat and spreading men. Go to the
      suburban US and a short charming man would be very attractive in a sea of conformity.

      - Many men who are over 5ft 10 tend to lean to scrawniness. The men with the most impressive physiques tend to be around 5ft 8 or 5ft 10. This protect business is ludicrous: a 150lb 6 footer could lose out to a 170lb 5ft 6in on any day.

      -I dated women a few inches taller and liked tall women.
      I stayed clear of 6 footers of course – probably a bit silly – but
      I also know they find me attractive. Infact I’ve been in scenarios where the 5ft 10 blonde girl in the group has ended up pairing up with me the 5ft 4: the good looking man in the group.
      There was a unspoken chemistry that we were the pair. We shared everything else but height!

      1. 807.1.1
        hunter

        …you lucky dog…….good looking men get the business..

  28. 808
    Jackie

    I would rather date an broke, unemployed, uneducated, brain damaged, drug-addicted man with who beats my face in when he’s drunk… than some 5’3″ guy.

  29. 809
    Jackie

    I read this guy’s Match profile. Anyone else think it’s very bad?

    First, he pretty much obsesses over some sort of disability he overcame. While men may be impressed, it is a massive turnoff for women. This would be a dealbreaker profile even if he were 6’0″. Add that short thing, and he is just plain old physically defective. Game over for 99% of women.

    Other than that, it’s just another generic “I’m a decent guy” profile. There is no edge whatsoever. Cut and paste from any of a million middle aged guys looking for laughing, cuddling, and cooking dinner together? Yawn.

  30. 810
    hunter

    @808jackie,

    …”there is no edge?”…….navigating through the “ocean” of single men must be devastating, how awful….

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