Comments on: Do I Attract Men With The Same Sexual Behavior?

By: L

Mon, 12 Nov 2012 20:35:15 +0000

I’m with A Reader. it’s so clear they cheated… their is no such thing as a coincidence anyways. They landed a woman with more experience and got good at it. And yes, I find it hard to believe of all the posts I read about why guys lie about things “is because they know what will happen if they tell the truth”. including if they have not been protected. STD’s are rarely mentioned here and I dare say our society would be a lot more sexually free if it weren’t for STD’s. Still got to listen to your gut when it comes to these things. Sorry Evan, I love your advice but I’d really really have to be careful before I told someone not to consider he cheated. What kind of evidence would she find if they went to Europe?

By: JuJu

JuJu — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 19:55:14 +0000

Vaginas are grosser than penises??

Heh, well then I hope you are happy with whatever you get.

By: JB

JB — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 19:20:08 +0000

@Kathleen “A large percentage of women ONLY climax through oral stimulation with a man”
I understand that,and of course these women have orgasms by themselves when they masturbate without any oral either with a toy or hand.
And like I said in different thread I’ve run across a large percentage of women who can ONLY climax with a vibrator whether a guy is there or not….lol

You gals are sooo complex, sheesh….lol Gay men have it made.

By: Joe

Joe — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 17:46:46 +0000

Kathleen wrote: JB, some men are able to climax through multiple avenues including hands, intercourse, and oral. FTFY.

By: Selena

Selena — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 02:03:28 +0000

Kathleen’s mention of a “pro” made me think of this: maybe OL’s boyfriends were insecure about performing oral because of inexperience and sought out a pro to practice on?

They weren’t in Amsterdam by chance were they?

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 21:09:21 +0000

JB, men are able to climax through multiple avenues including hands, intercourse, and oral. A large percentage of women ONLY climax through oral stimulation with a man, so for those women they are not being picky or selfish, they simply cannot be sexually satisfied any other way. You may not have broken up with a woman because they wouldn’t do any one thing, but if they NEVER allowed you to climax I bet you would change that tune pretty quickly.

To the OP, I am sorry but I also see something fishy and my first thought was also cheating. If not with a fling, then possibly a professional overseas. I am just not buying the coincidence theory.

By: Selena

Selena — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 20:33:57 +0000

@JB

I would guess the “dumpability” would depend on how important the practice was to the individual woman. Also whether she was apt to see someone who wouldn’t do it as a *bad* or selfish lover. Something she might decide, but give him a different breakup reason to avoid having to mention it.

I would also guess a breakup where this was part of the reason would occur after a few months, not a few years.

By: JB

JB — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:35:53 +0000

@Selena “the guy who doesn’t do it doesn’t last long as a boyfriend”

I would be curious to know how many women have actually dumped a guy just for THAT REASON alone. I know I’ve never broken up with a woman because they wouldn’t do any 1 certain sexual thing no matter what IT was. I guess I see a woman as more of an imperfect human being with feelings and emotions rather than will she go down on me. I dunno,that’s just me. I know I’VE never been dumped for that,I love it too much…lol….

By: Selena

Selena — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 22:41:45 +0000

Unfortunately I’m leaning toward the cheating theory. Mainly because neither of her past lovers were interested in oral for years. And since OL never…uh…made it an issue, what incentive did either fellow have to please her in that way?

Some women need oral in order to climax and the guy who doesn’t do it doesn’t last long as a boyfriend. Wouldn’t surprise me that either guy wasn’t “encouraged” to perform oral during a vacation fling, decided it wasn’t so bad after all, and came back more willing (and skilled) for the girlfriend.

Maybe not, but it sure is quite odd they would develop a sudden interest in this practice after years of avoiding it.

By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 17:52:25 +0000

I don’t really think there was cheating going on. As I said, what one woman likes is not necessarily what other women like, so even if they did cheat on her abroad, the liklihood that they would return and give her, a totally different woman with totally different preferences, good head seems slim.