Some of us may have the answer in our heart. Maybe for some,,,, but for others, maybe,,,, our hearts have been weighed down with other garbage, to the extent that,,, we no longer know what our heart is saying. And still for others, sometimes we, allow our hormones to take charge and we allow the bad idea to enter our lives….somewhere amidst the chaos, we seek professional opinions….because we need a boost/explanation/we have not lost hope……………..

moon

I agree with you, whomever you date is very personal and no one else’s business.(some of your girlfriends don’t need to know) I knew a very pretty woman, who never told anyone who she was dating, ’cause it always created conflicts.

I saw the misspelled word, but it was too late, I had already ‘clicked’ on it.

I can only imagine if not done with a considerable amount of finesse and respect (which excludes a large percentage of both genders) it could make for a very long and uncomfortable date for the woman, the waitress and the man. My advice: don’t try it. Remember the reason you’re there: to get to know the woman you’re with.

There was a man in a Greek restaurant near a gallery I worked in way back when…I think he might have been the owner…now he knew how to flirt in a way that just said, “Hey! You look great today and I appreciate it!” Cheerful and fun and nothing leery about it. But many men just make a gal uncomfortable. Which brings me back to: the longest date of your entire life.

moon

By “have you” I only meant that you have agreed to go on a second date with them. I never let a man know initially if I am dating just him or 10 other guys. I agree, you need to maintain a little mystery.

Some therpist say it is alright to flirt with the waitress one time, during the date.

moon

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