Jessica means well, but her methods are backfiring and preventing men from connecting to her.
Which is why, no matter what your past experience is, it’s always in your best interests to play it cool. Take it from a guy, you may think you’re being smart by gathering information to protect yourself, but all it does is drive most men away.
No matter what your past experience is, it’s always in your best interests to play it cool.
The hard truth is that he doesn’t know yet whether he wants to be with you in the long-term. He won’t know after three dates. He won’t know after three months.
(By the way, YOU might not know if you want HIM long-term either. You just want to make sure that it’s YOU who’s doing the heartbreaking, not him.)
My overall message is that you have to let the relationship play itself out at an organic pace, instead of trying to look into the future. The more you push for clarity – especially when he doesn’t have any himself – the less likely that he’s going to stick around.
I illustrate this, and so much more, in “Why He Disappeared.” Click here to learn how to leave the past behind and stay in the present with each new guy…
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