Comments on: Do You Think It Is a Choice Between Being Alone and Getting Hurt? Think Again…

By: Evan Marc Katz

Evan Marc Katz — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 18:03:29 +0000

Well, that’s ultra-sad, Been There. Please don’t tell my wife that all men “use and dispose” of women. She likes to think she’s happy.

By: Been There

Been There — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 16:02:31 +0000

I don’t agree. It’s an over-used sentiment, but walk a mile in my shoes. Thirtysomething and completely alone. It all started with my father. He loved me for about two years of my life and then it was clear to me that he hated me. He was abusive at worst and distant at best. All other males have done the same thing to me. Sorry, but I’m NOT willing to keep getting my heart smashed in a door. Men are all the same- they all use you and then dispose of you. A guy can find a much better woman than I just looking at porn, which is all men do. I’m not perfect enough, I’m just not GOOD enough. And I never will be- for anyone.

By: kevin blumer

kevin blumer — Fri, 10 Dec 2010 18:10:41 +0000

i didnt make that choise i made the stay with someone and get hurt and i did get hurt a lot i wish at the time i had of left i would not of got hurt then i am now alone and strating to learn to live bymyself it has took sometime and i still dont really like being alone

By: dateclass101

dateclass101 — Mon, 17 May 2010 18:09:14 +0000

being alone is a choice even if youa re afraid of getting hurt.Been alone is not a choice when you have tried to be ina relationship which is never working.If youa re afraid of been hurt be cautious but its better to be alone than get hurt again at the same time dont be too over cautious cos u wont be getting nothing

By: starthrower68

starthrower68 — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 00:11:25 +0000

That is an interesting statement you make, Evan. I believe I have been guilty of that sort of either/or comparison. But you're working on me…I recognize I have issues with pride and being risk averse. But I'm also willing to hear that I'm wrong and such attitudes are based on distorted thinking.