Comments on: Guys Fall in Love With Me Waaay Too Quickly. What Can I Do To Slow Things Down?

By: ELIZ

ELIZ — Tue, 04 Jun 2013 08:20:12 +0000

u know the guy likes u when he chats and chats and his eyes get bigger

By: hunter

hunter — Tue, 04 Jun 2013 01:42:20 +0000

..a mans biggest sex organ are his eyes, we know if we want a woman, just by looking at her…

By: Vzen

Vzen — Mon, 03 Jun 2013 21:32:43 +0000

I enjoyed reading this post and was looking for that same topic… “I love you within a month.” I will say this, I’ve had the exact same experience and I can tell you for certain that my conduct did not draw them in, and I did not dress provocatively either. I’ve dated younger, the same age and this time I went for a man eleven years older….I’ve gotten the exact same experience. By the way, I am fifty-five, and no I don’t look it. This man has been the perfect gentleman, paid for all the dates and gives me a lot of attention. I have not been intimate with him, however he has begun to make a few advances in that direction and always says when “you are ready.” He has already begun to talk about being in love with me, and intends for us to have that until death do we part kind of future….wow…spooking me.

By: BSer

BSer — Wed, 22 May 2013 03:06:40 +0000

My niece, who is single again, has a tried and true method of revealing a man’s character…. Hold him at arm’s length for longer than usual…see who he really is, see what he’s made of – is he determined? is he easily discouraged? is he focused? is he calculating? How does he react to being held at arm’s length? When he doesn’t get his way, whether it’s being noticed by you, or talking with you or whatever – is he like a bratty 2 year old, or does he pull back, does he walk away, does he call you a bitch (or worse)? That tells you a lot about him. If he’s quick tempered or hot headed, you will know now!
She swears by this…if you try it, let me know how it goes for you!

By: BSer

BSer — Wed, 22 May 2013 01:24:06 +0000

I have always found if a man is up front with me, I am with him. But if a smoke screen is the order of the day, well then, bring me a load of firewood!

By: Rochelle

Rochelle — Fri, 08 Mar 2013 16:29:51 +0000

This was a good read. I don’t think I’m above average in looks but I’ve been mistaken for as young as 17. And I’ve been attracting a number of men lately who seem to be blinded by chemistry and are coming on too strong and putting me on this high pedestal in just a few days of knowing each other. o_O I’m like we just met so they can’t possibly be sure that they want to be with me.. I’m thinking that these guys are going to implode. And the immense flattery they give me does seem chemistry driven. Having a history of always feeling like I was chasing, I’m not really used to all this attention and it kinda freaks me out. It also feels nice lol but I’ve been trying to slow them down. I think my approach is pretty in-line with what Evans suggests so this reinforced my beliefs!

By: hunter

hunter — Fri, 08 Mar 2013 03:28:59 +0000

…generally speaking…the sooner men fall in love…the sooner we earn time in the sack…

By: Catherine

Catherine — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 01:27:53 +0000

I had this problem all thoughout my dating life. It always confused me why I hated it so much because isn’t this what you were susposed to want? I would hear complaints that all men wanted was sex and wouldn’t commit but I never saw these men. The problem was …they would bombard me before I even got a chance to like them. It was uncomfortable. I never married.

By: June

June — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 20:55:42 +0000

Wow, this situation is me to a tee. I am very fearful and Leary of the men that begin to fall so hard so fast. But there are an awful lot of men out there like this. I am in my late 40s and I do feel it’s looks that make men fall all over themselves. I was married to an actor and a model for 22 years and know that while attraction is necessary, it can not hold a relationship together. I want someone that looks past my appearance and sees my heart. Most men end up scaring me away with their admiration. I need a man who plays it cool so I don’t want to run. I’ve read the comments and some people on here just don’t get it. Online dating makes this issue even worse because men select based on appearance alone usually. It’s enough to make me want to never date again. .

By: andy

andy — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 03:28:37 +0000

Sounds like the typical situation where women want it both ways. Women want to have instant chemistry with a guy and want to be swept off their feet… if its the right guy otherwise he ie just pathetic and they lose respect for him.
On the otherside when men play it cool, women wonder why they send mixed signals and are so hard to understand.
OP clearly needs to stop accepting these men take advances toward her.