Comments on: How Can You Tell If Your Boyfriend Really Loves You? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/ Thu, 23 May 2013 19:09:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: maggi http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-426987 maggi Fri, 12 Oct 2012 15:24:47 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-426987 I would say, you desrve some other good guys than him. three (3) yrs is quite a long period of time. from the first moment he met you is where these three letter words would be spoken out and continuesly. i’v been with my bf for 3yrs and he loves me like no bodies business. we planned to get marrid after 2yrs time. he was the one saying all these.( lol) (:

 

]]> By: Moe http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-350169 Moe Tue, 26 Jun 2012 00:11:16 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-350169 “Nobody knows anything. We’re all just guessing.”

Most rational thing you have said on this site EMK!  

]]> By: priya http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-339696 priya Tue, 12 Jun 2012 09:51:16 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-339696 Maries post does make sense.I have been there myself where after one year i kept wondering if he feels for me or not.That made me miserable and insecure.I was not even able to concentrate on my work and studies properly.
If you have gone through Evan’s blog his previous post does mention that boyfriend must make you feel secure.If he isnt doing that relationship isnt worth it.
I totally agree with him on this.
Apart from what Evan has mention two reasons why men dont say those three words there are others reason i have discovered.
I see there are forum and even dating coach for men who advice them to be mysterious by not openly declaring their true feelings to women and keep them in guessing wonderland.I wonder if he is following any of that bad advice.

]]> By: Marie http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-193222 Marie Wed, 26 Oct 2011 07:04:09 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-193222 To the original poster: 3 years is MORE than enough time for a man to tell you he loves you – often and freely. Even if he is young, needing 3 years to express that either means (1) he’s still unsure about you (and you will spend the rest of the days of your days trying to convince him and ‘win him over’ – talk about stressful and lonely….) or (2) he is seriously lacking in communication skills. Neither of these situations is good. Poor communication skills (even if a man does truly love you) can lead to exactly what you are experiencing: doubt, uncertainty and hurt. All of that inevitably leads to the destruction of the relationship – and…you know what? Not a moment too soon! You are wasting your precious, lovely young life with someone who doesn’t appreciate you and/or doesn’t know how to be there for you on a regular basis. Who wants to wait until a crisis situation occurs to hear that your boyfriend thinks well of you or loves you?? No. Move on. A man should be so excited about you that it kills him to hold off (for maybe 6 months or so) on saying how much he loves you for fear of scaring you off! You should feel adored and cherished in your relationship. Life is too difficult and too busy to bother with anything less. Trust me – been there.

]]> By: Courtnie http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-181306 Courtnie Mon, 19 Sep 2011 12:27:09 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-181306 Everyone goes through this in their life every once in a while and trust me I have and it was NOT a pretty site (lol)

]]> By: sharon http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-161628 sharon Tue, 21 Jun 2011 06:12:42 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-161628 well im only 16 ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a month and he told me he wanted to marry me about a month or two ago.sometimes i doubt he really means that but then again he only tells me i love you in realy special moments and even after we have a fight.. but what im trying to say is that he might really mean it if he tok the time to pul you aside and tell you that he wants you to know that hes being serious about bwing with you i might beyounger than you but i can take in a lot of knowledge about love.because ive been through it a lot an als have read about psychology and love as well. but i you evr doubt what he tells you just let him know what youre feeling and thinking itll really help your state of mind and take the confused tougts out of your mind

well i hope this helped you

sincerely,

sharon..

]]> By: Liz http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-134151 Liz Mon, 31 Jan 2011 21:14:36 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-134151 Where is the original person with the question………because it is scary how similar our situations are.

]]> By: tay http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-68538 tay Sat, 29 May 2010 22:06:11 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-68538 i knw.i have certain jealousy issues with my boyfriend.i knw he is handsome.and i knw im not the only gurl looking at him.he tells me that he loves me pretty often.i have actually begun to believe it now.he told me he loved me first.thats a plus.sometimes i get really insecure and we will have a bad fight about it..they are mostly my fault because he says i have trust issues..which i do!and he says things like”i love you,i want you.and i hate when u start acting up like this”then i realize it is my fault for most of the arguments and disagreement.

]]> By: Beth http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-52642 Beth Mon, 07 Dec 2009 14:57:01 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-52642 He might have ED and not want to talk about it to you for fear of losing you.

]]> By: InaccessibleRail http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/comment-page-1/#comment-51349 InaccessibleRail Mon, 23 Nov 2009 21:20:02 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-can-you-tell-if-your-boyfriend-is-in-love-with-you-and-wants-to-marry-you/#comment-51349 If he didn’t want to marry me after three years, I’d cut him loose (well, unless we were both under 25). Studies show that if a man hasn’t proposed by a year and a half, the odds that he ever will start to gradually FALL, not rise. After the three year mark, the odds start to decrease dramatically.
So does he love you? Maybe he does- in fact, he PROBABLY does if he has never given you a reason to distrust him before.
But will he marry you? The odds aren’t looking too great- and the outlook becomes bleaker by the day. You deserve someone who’s sure about you, IMO.

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