Comments on: How Come Everyone I Want to Meet Online Isn’t Interested in Me? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 15:39:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: JuJu http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-2/#comment-54415 JuJu Thu, 31 Dec 2009 20:07:38 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-54415 That's not to mention all the other "joys" of getting old, obviously. That’s not to mention all the other “joys” of getting old, obviously.

]]> By: JuJu http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-54413 JuJu Thu, 31 Dec 2009 20:04:21 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-54413 Btw, now that you reminded us of this letter, I have a question: what did this man think about until he turned 56? Did he really think that he has until the end of his life to father children or something? He squanders his life away and now some much younger woman has to be at peace with a really high risk of bearing unhealthy offspring? Btw, now that you reminded us of this letter, I have a question: what did this man think about until he turned 56? Did he really think that he has until the end of his life to father children or something? He squanders his life away and now some much younger woman has to be at peace with a really high risk of bearing unhealthy offspring?

]]> By: hunter http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-37642 hunter Sun, 12 Jul 2009 17:39:26 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-37642 I would have to say, most men on this blog need more than one woman to date. On account of them having little dating experience. I would have to say, most men on this blog need more than one woman to date. On account of them having little dating experience.

]]> By: Michael http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-37227 Michael Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:20:19 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-37227 I have sent e-mails to dozens of women, and very few hav e ever replied. One of them who did reply back mentioned that she has a boyfriend. I have noticed that some of the active profiles on my favorites lists were there for at least two years. Maybe they have similar luck. I have sent e-mails to dozens of women, and very few hav e ever replied. One of them who did reply back mentioned that she has a boyfriend.

I have noticed that some of the active profiles on my favorites lists were there for at least two years. Maybe they have similar luck.

]]> By: Michael http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-37072 Michael Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:27:38 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-37072 <i>Also, when a woman sees that the guy is looking for much younger women to have his children, she tends to feel objectified. Again, those looking for marriage and family generally want the whole solid relationship. This includes being with a partner that loves and respects them for their individual traits. When he says he wants a wife to bear his children - a woman may feel as if she is only being valued for her womb. It is a pretty icky feeling to be on the receiving end of that type of attention.</i> Having a family is a good reason to get married. If the goal is to make babies, marrying someone who is 21 would be optimal if fertility were the only factor calculated. (Of course, most women that age do not want kids yet.) Also, when a woman sees that the guy is looking for much younger women to have his children, she tends to feel objectified. Again, those looking for marriage and family generally want the whole solid relationship. This includes being with a partner that loves and respects them for their individual traits. When he says he wants a wife to bear his children – a woman may feel as if she is only being valued for her womb. It is a pretty icky feeling to be on the receiving end of that type of attention.
Having a family is a good reason to get married.

If the goal is to make babies, marrying someone who is 21 would be optimal if fertility were the only factor calculated. (Of course, most women that age do not want kids yet.)

]]> By: Adele http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-37054 Adele Sat, 04 Jul 2009 08:53:28 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-37054 in response to that: Or, they are after your green card. in response to that:

Or, they are after your green card.

]]> By: Rachelle http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-16975 Rachelle Wed, 05 Nov 2008 23:02:58 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-16975 That is so true! I had a guy friend tell me that he was cruising the profiles and saw a gorgeous gal who was in her early 20's. He read on and she stated in her profile that she only dates men over 40. That floored him! To each their own. =) That is so true! I had a guy friend tell me that he was cruising the profiles and saw a gorgeous gal who was in her early 20’s. He read on and she stated in her profile that she only dates men over 40. That floored him! To each their own. =)

]]> By: Hot Alpha Female http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-16643 Hot Alpha Female Sat, 01 Nov 2008 03:59:20 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-16643 Its easy to get dishearted and then to start generalizing. Like all the women don't like older men. All the women this ... All the women that .... And then you get caught up thinking that this is the reality. Well the truth is, that you only need ONE WOMAN and she maybe be an EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. Enjoy the dating process, don't focus too much on outcome and more on fun. Then you will be more able to attract someone who is right for you. Thumbs up Evan, some great advice Hot Alpha Female Its easy to get dishearted and then to start generalizing.

Like all the women don’t like older men.

All the women this …

All the women that ….

And then you get caught up thinking that this is the reality. Well the truth is, that you only need ONE WOMAN and she maybe be an EXCEPTION TO THE RULE.

Enjoy the dating process, don’t focus too much on outcome and more on fun.

Then you will be more able to attract someone who is right for you.

Thumbs up Evan, some great advice

Hot Alpha Female

]]> By: JuJu http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-16630 JuJu Sat, 01 Nov 2008 00:09:15 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-16630 Mo, I once actually replied to someone (I was 26 or 27, and the man in question looked at least 55 on his pic), "Did you really think you stood a chance? You look older than my father!" To which he said, "Well, why not, some of my girlfriends were younger and/or prettier than you." I guess I asked for it. :-D I may have wrote back that he should go to them in that case, since I don't share their problems; but I don't remember if I did. ;-) Mo,

I once actually replied to someone (I was 26 or 27, and the man in question looked at least 55 on his pic), “Did you really think you stood a chance? You look older than my father!”

To which he said, “Well, why not, some of my girlfriends were younger and/or prettier than you.”

I guess I asked for it. :-D

I may have wrote back that he should go to them in that case, since I don’t share their problems; but I don’t remember if I did. ;-)

]]> By: Mo http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/comment-page-1/#comment-16615 Mo Fri, 31 Oct 2008 20:21:47 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-come-older-men-cant-get-younger-women/#comment-16615 This article made me laugh aloud. I'm a 36 year old woman who has online dated off and on. I count even count how many times I've b*tched to my gf's about this exact thing! I like to joke that I'm very popular with the 50 and over crowd! I just don't get it! What frustrates me the most is that men DO NOT READ a person's profile to check for a person's age preference, etc and will email you because they think you're cute. The oldest I've gotten was 60. I usually ignore and delete these emails but have to tell you that I get tempted from time to time to email back and tell them my dad is 59! This article made me laugh aloud. I’m a 36 year old woman who has online dated off and on. I count even count how many times I’ve b*tched to my gf’s about this exact thing! I like to joke that I’m very popular with the 50 and over crowd! I just don’t get it! What frustrates me the most is that men DO NOT READ a person’s profile to check for a person’s age preference, etc and will email you because they think you’re cute. The oldest I’ve gotten was 60. I usually ignore and delete these emails but have to tell you that I get tempted from time to time to email back and tell them my dad is 59!

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