Comments on: How Do You Convince a Poor Guy That You Really Do Like Him?

By: hunter

hunter — Mon, 26 May 2008 00:26:57 +0000

to maria,

Sounds like you were not wanted, and it took 8 months to see that.

By: Maria

Maria — Sat, 24 May 2008 21:38:57 +0000

Oh… I was there. I did the best I could to try to make him get it. I screamed it on his face. Somehow he was simply unable to believe I loved him. I heard many many times things like: Maria, I have nothing to offer to you. I mean, he is a barman, I am a corporate worker, but besides income or the type of job we had, he felt constantly less because I finished college and he didn’t. In the end while we were breaking up after being in a relationship for 8 months he said: I am sure if we stayed together you would leave me for an ambassador, some one like you.

By: rawdawgbuffalo

rawdawgbuffalo — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 04:09:23 +0000

what do u think of this a penchant 4 committment

By: Evan Marc Katz

Evan Marc Katz — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 03:07:20 +0000

And I ripped off the first book cover from Roy Liechtenstein. C’est la vie. Safe flight. EMK

By: mrs. vee

mrs. vee — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 02:36:12 +0000

Pssssst…sorry to go off topic here, but I’m on a plane at O’Hare about to fly for 12 hrs (after we get de-iced). Just picked up the Jan 28 issue of Time. The theme of the issue is “The Science of Romance”. And incidentally, the cover is almost a direct ripoff of your first book, Evan. Looks like a good read for us all.

Adios ’til luego!

mrs. vee

By: Steve

Steve — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 15:20:03 +0000

Hey Samatha;

I just wrote the other day how cool it would be if we could see how people who write in end up resolving things. Thanks for posting a comment on how it went.

This thread has a good lesson. Another person can relieve loneliness, but they can’t bring you happiness. They might be able to temporarily mollify someone else’s issues, but if that person wants to be happy s/he has to plug his/her own psychological holes.

By: hunter

hunter — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 07:22:04 +0000

to samantha,

..almost seems as if, he, missed out on the opportunity of a lifetime…….

You say what changed for me? I think therapy did it for me, only thing being that, men,. call it,. the study of female behaviour/dating code(information)…it is really interesting how females operate, and sometimes fascinating…

By: S

Fri, 25 Jan 2008 04:42:41 +0000

So, Hunter, what changed for you? How old were you when you changed?

By: Selena

Selena — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 04:08:14 +0000

Oh, when the limerance wears off. Isn’t it funny how great someone seems until…you get to know them better? “Just Delightful” to “slacker” in one short month. Bummer.

By: hunter

hunter — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 03:39:14 +0000

to Samantha,

this man sounds like me, before I knew all that I know now……hmmmmhh…