Comments on: How Do You Write An Email To Someone With Nothing Interesting in Her Profile? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/ Fri, 24 May 2013 23:05:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Tim http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-766929 Tim Tue, 09 Apr 2013 08:56:00 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-766929 It means men are a lot more forgiving to women. They are not excessively picky. It means they find a much larger number of women attractive and acceptable for dating.
It also means that women don’t need to write awesome stuff in their profiles to get male interest. They can just be themselves…just be normal regular ordinary. Perhaps most of us are just that but alas one gender doesn’t understand that.

]]> By: JD http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-253248 JD Tue, 31 Jan 2012 00:04:12 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-253248   If the profile is sparse, I will often say something about him being a man of mystery, then pick an interesting ice breaker question (google them!) like “What would be an ideal vacation by train?” or something else that most people would be interested in.
  If I’m initially attracted to the photos but then find nothing in the profile inspires me to write a message (almost always with a question about something in their profile) then I just shrug and move on.  Attractiveness is obviously not a key to compatibility and a good relationship.

]]> By: Christian http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-156682 Christian Fri, 27 May 2011 00:40:57 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-156682 Not everyone is good at writing profiles.

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42503 starthrower68 Sat, 05 Sep 2009 17:38:28 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42503 Hehe, there are those out that will constantly flirt with you, all excited about you, then when they finally talk to you, they are excited until you say something they obviously didn’t like because “sorry sugar, we’re not a match” and don’t even tell you why. Such is the travails of online dating. You can’t take it personally. There are just odd people out there.

]]> By: hunter http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42301 hunter Thu, 03 Sep 2009 02:32:41 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42301 Kristyn, please, online dating and nudist camps are very similar in that, the women online/present at camps, are by far, in fewer numbers.

]]> By: JB http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42256 JB Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:53:09 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42256 Sorry for the duplicate post something went wrong….lol
#95 is the finished one. Hopefully someone can fix it ?

]]> By: JB http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42255 JB Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:50:58 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42255 @ mic #91
I simply wrote “Hi there,well I must say you are a woman of few words….lol but you had me at Golf.<–(It was in her headline) I have no idea how to grab your attention among all the responses but I just wanted to let you know I'd love to play Golf sometime just to see that SMILE in person !! :-) If you're interested I'd love to hear from you."

That's it. I don't normally say anything at all about a woman's appearance for the most part but in her 1 head shot she had a smile as big as "Mini-Mouse"….lol The first thing that attracts me to a woman is her smile :) I don't email every woman the same way for of obvious reasons. I pretty much personalize the few I email. Anyway golf and the smile got me and we've played golf at least 5 times in the last 6 weeks and the smile is gorgeous and although I don't normally meet someone after just seeing a headshot (because we all know what could happen….LOL) she had a nice normal figure. Sometimes you take a chance and win ! Sometimes you lose, that's online dating.

]]> By: Diana http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42252 Diana Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:39:49 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42252 To Mic, after 30 years of being together, yes.

]]> By: Kristyn http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42251 Kristyn Wed, 02 Sep 2009 19:34:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42251 JB said:
“So like most men online we can only date the ones that show interest and want to date US. So that’s what we do !”

How funny!! That is exactly what we do too!

]]> By: mic http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-do-you-write-an-email-to-someone-with-nothing-interesting-in-her-profile/comment-page-2/#comment-42237 mic Wed, 02 Sep 2009 15:39:32 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=1703#comment-42237 Diana, hopefully no one who wants a serious relationship thinks that “scaling/rating, based on appearance” is a good thing, but it is the reality for most. It wasn’t for you, probably to your credit, but unfortunately it sounds like the two of you aren’t together anymore, correct?

JB, most women don’t think they are above average in looks, if that’s what you are suggesting. However, most people (in free-choice marriage cultures) strongly crave physical attraction and like to think they somehow deserve an attractive partner, maybe especially if they’ve drawn much interest from good-looking types before, try hard to maximize their looks, have attractive parents, are competitive…. Anyway, it’s true that the topic has strayed. What did you write to that women?

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