Comments on: How Does a 30-Year-Old Man with No Sexual Experience Get Some? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/ Wed, 19 Jun 2013 17:41:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: D http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-916128 D Tue, 21 May 2013 09:38:30 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-916128 Steven, I’d be careful what you say! I’m over 22years old (26) and still a virgin by choice and I’m definitely NOT ugly or fat! Far from it, I’ve done some modelling and get attention from guys wherever I go (not arrogant, it’s just a fact to demonstrate a ridiculous stereotype). In fact, I’ve got some friends similar ages who are still virgins and are stunning amazing women, plus a couple of great guys I know. Just because people have self respect and don’t want to go around giving their body away to anyone doesn’t conclude they are ugly at all! I am attracted to the most attractive guys physically but if I know they’ve slept around at all I’m immediately put off them as shows they don’t have good morals or self respect. A guy who is a virgin is MUCH more attractive to me as long as you have the chemistry there and they’re a good kisser etc. I’ve no idea why you would presume a girl would be unattractive if they were an older virgin ana ironically most the less attractive and bigger people I know have slept around the most! (Just from who I know, not generalising). I think society today is too sexually orientated, hence more cheating , divorces etc. It’s sad that instead of love and intimacy going hand in hand and being special for the one person you want to spend your life with , guys constantly say ‘I love you’ just to have sex!

]]> By: FH http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-522686 FH Wed, 28 Nov 2012 12:46:27 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-522686 You people are totally lost as human species.

]]> By: bobdole http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-484066 bobdole Sat, 10 Nov 2012 06:06:36 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-484066 hi. im a 28 year old guy. I had a girlfriend for a few weeks when i was 16, she lived in a different city and we basically travelled to have sex with each other like 5 or 6 times. Then I started  going to parties more and sleeping with random girls, but only ever one night stands. I have literally had sex a total of 12 times in my entire life, half those being one-nighters. I got really depressed after highschool and ive only been on a handful of dates, and had sex twice, between ages 20-28. I recently tried dating a 22 year old, who basically told me i was fucked in the head for having so little sex. my friends make fun of me for it. its akward being in a room when everyone is joking about sexual matters. one of my best friends(a girl) slept with me like 3 years ago… she asked me to never bring it up again.  im pretty sure half the girls i know think im in the closet or something. i hate my life, myself, the choices ive made. Counselling starts next month, well see how it goes.

]]> By: Steven http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-266984 Steven Thu, 01 Mar 2012 13:33:23 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-266984 Rest assured if the female is over the age of, say, 22 and still a virgin..then that female is either massive or ugly. Thats just how it is. So for all the people saying that there are plenty of girls who are 30 and no experience..sure there are, but theyre not exactly the types you’d want to get with. I say go for either the prostitute or the surrogate deal. I’d rather pay for someone who’s attractive over top of laying with a beached whale or Joe Dirt lol.
 

]]> By: fenny http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-258910 fenny Sun, 12 Feb 2012 02:49:27 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-258910 I think it matters where and how one picks up one’sexperience, so prostitutes are a terrible idea.
 
I don’t think many women would be thrilled to be partnered with a dude who had to resort to an artificial cash transaction just to get his dick wet.  What kind of experience does that really bring to the bedroom?  
 
Sexual experience is also about wooing and communicating, not selecting a la carte and expecting to be serviced.  Also, if your date is a blood donor, you’ve done her a disservice to the community if you’re honest, and perhaps putting her at uninformed risks if you hide the fact.

]]> By: Adam http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-194685 Adam Sun, 30 Oct 2011 11:12:11 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-194685 Hey look. I think the best way is unfortunatley  to pay for it. As long as all precautions are taken.I would suggest seeing a Tantric Goddess. Tantric therapy is sexual but  takes the spiritual connection into consideration.These men may actually have sexual issues that have been holding them back and a tantric therapist will talk about these. So they can get this inexperience off there shoulders so to speak and kill two birds with one stone.

]]> By: lola http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-154222 lola Tue, 10 May 2011 03:11:50 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-154222 These guys don’t have to fish solely in the other brain tumor suvivor pond.  There are women who are patient and understanding and are waiting to experience intimacy until after marriage or commitment and they are sometimes over 30 also.

]]> By: David http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-56784 David Sat, 06 Feb 2010 07:30:17 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-56784 How Does a 30-Year-Old Man with No Sexual Experience Get Some?
wow, reminds me of my friend james, I guess go to las vegas and find some nightlife if you get my drift?
Seriously though, since they missed out on junior high and high school, their going through stuff now they should have done years ago, thats just how it is. How do kids in junior high and high school learn? By doing. They will only get better by keeping at it and over comming failures.
Their is no shortcut for experience.

]]> By: Kristyn http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-56708 Kristyn Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:45:59 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-56708 For Pete and all the other people wanting more experience – I think you are not as alone as you think. I’m 40, I was married at 19 and now I’m divorced. I know on this blog at times we’ve talked sex partner numbers and I’ve always felt that is fairly private and hadn’t shared but lets just say my number is very few. Someone without a lot of experience would not scare me in the least; probably because I have no idea how experienced I am myself. Here is what I believe: As you get to know someone better and get more comfortable, sex gets better. Knowing what your partner likes, wants, hots spots; etc only comes with time and experience with that particular partner.

Good luck.

]]> By: A-L http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/how-does-a-30-year-old-man-with-no-sexual-experience-get-some/comment-page-1/#comment-56675 A-L Fri, 05 Feb 2010 01:31:36 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=2456#comment-56675 Sayanta,

Sorry to hear about the negative experiences you had when you were younger. I can relate because I had some bad experiences when I was rather young (I developed early). Thankfully I was able to overcome them, in part due to my faith. I think you may have mentioned that you’ve seen a counselor before about this, but if you haven’t I would highly recommend that you do so.

As far as your current dating life, are the only one date relationships of your making or theirs (ie, are you the one refusing the second date)? I would really advise that you go out on a least two dates, preferably even three before nixing a guy. I totally understand not being comfortable with some man on the first date. I’m not comfortable then either. But I’ve found that my best relationships didn’t necessarily start off with an automatic-WOW first date. They were nice first dates, but in getting to know the person more I became more interested in a relationship with them. Doing the same might work for you. It’s at least a thought. :)

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