I find online dating very frustrating but I do get a decent response rate and get unsolicited contacts from time to time.  That said, I am NOT a player and am marriage-minded.  It’s usually feast or famine and I tend to get stretched pretty thin as I try and exercise my options while giving the proper consideration to a date.  It gets really difficult to balance all this and I usually wind up with nothing in the end.

On the other hand, I’ve been out on a few one date wonders where a woman would not give me a second chance or e-mails would abruptly stop or my overtures would be completely ignored.  I always see these same woman back online eventually trying all over again. 

We’re all doing the best we can and are all facing the same ups and downs on this whole merry-go-round.  This is why I am getting better at handling rejection and the whole concept of “out of his/her leaugue.”  Not sure that’s even applicable when it comes to online dating.