Comments on: I Ask Questions in My Online Dating Emails, But They Don’t Ask Questions Back.

By: Mo

Mo — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 00:43:39 +0000

Also by asking questions like I have given examples it allows her to think about the questions, respond and then she will want to know your answers to your questions and she’ll most likely then have questions for you that she is thinking of while she answers your questions.

By: Mo

Mo — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 00:39:59 +0000

Ask ladies fun open ended questions and also hypothetical situation questions. Also think of some that you can ask when going on dates so you don’t get stuck on the date and can pull them out when you don’t know what else to say. Some questions that come to mind for example: If you won an all expense paid trip for two weeks, where would you go?, also What are her favorite movies?, what are her favorite movies of all time?, What’s her favorite restaurants? etc etc…. You get where I’m going with this? It’s open ended questions but not only open ended questions but fun interesting questions that make people think about the questions and engages them into the email. Another possible question could be something like if you were or could be a plant, or a tree what kind would you be and why? They may seem corney to you but they are at least interesting and getting her to see that you are fun and you have interesting questions to ask rather than the hum dum same ol boring question. Don’t just ask about family or questions that just have a yes or no answer those are boring.

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 20:26:00 +0000

I have been contacted by witty guys, and that got us started. It doesn’t guarentee that it will be a good match in the long run, but it does help get things off the ground.

By: casualencounters.com/blog

casualencounters.com/blog — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 03:22:40 +0000

Try to make sure you're asking a lot of questions, and NEVER talk over someone. casualencounters.com/blog´s last blog post...Casual Encounters Web TV Show, Episode 4

By: moonsical

moonsical — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 05:01:40 +0000

#15

I also have had experiences with men going on at length about a topic I asked about not at all. This is where some women can get silent. If you wonder why your date is silent, wonder if you’re monopolizing the conversation, or turning it back to you, constantly. Not in every case, of course, but…does it for me!

moon

By: Joe

Joe — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 19:41:19 +0000

Also, if it’s a stationary dance, all you gotta do is be thinking about the next thing you’re gonna lead. If it’s a moving dance, you gotta also worry about navigation.

By: Karl R

Karl R — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 14:54:07 +0000

hunter asked: (#29)
“Karl, don’t you get winded while dancing, making it difficult to chat at the same time?”

That’s generally not a problem, but it can be an issue with certain styles of dancing and speeds of music.

“I have heard, some men can multi-task, mostly, the left handed ones.”

I’m right-handed. I’m not sure if left-handed men find it easier to lead (which requires multi-tasking, even if you’re not talking) than right-handed men.

By: A-L

A-L — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 04:11:13 +0000

For many of the dances, you’re not so winded that you can’t talk (unless you’re doing a fast jive for an hour). But there are so many guys in my dance classes who the women can’t talk to during the dance, because if they do, the guy loses his concentration and can’t do the skill that’s being taught. Some guys (mostly newbies) are so focused on the maneuvers that they have no room for conversation. But the more experienced (or confident) dancers…now those are the ones where it truly is enjoyable, both because of the dancing, and the conversation!

By: hunter

hunter — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 02:27:46 +0000

Karl, don’t you get winded while dancing, making it difficult to chat at the same time?…..I have heard, some men can multi-task, mostly, the left handed ones.

By: casualencounters.com/blog

casualencounters.com/blog — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 20:57:35 +0000

Yeah, I guess I was making the statement with a more general context in mind. You are of course correct that one can socialize and meet women without suffering undue personal hardship. And also that doing so doesn't have to feel like work. casualencounters.com/blog´s last blog post...Casual Encounters Web TV Show, Episode 3