Comments on: I’m Exclusive with a Woman Who Won’t Let Me Call Her My Girlfriend http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/ Fri, 10 Sep 2010 03:31:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Andres http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-15236 Andres Sun, 05 Oct 2008 00:04:10 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-15236 Daniel Truth be told I suspect you were into this girl for years and now that you scored with her you are questioning why she won't let you call her your girlfriend. I doubt she is that into you and I recommend you get over her and move one. You are the chick in this relationship and you need to get in the mindset that you don't need her. Daniel

Truth be told I suspect you were into this girl for years and now that you scored with her you are questioning why she won’t let you call her your girlfriend.

I doubt she is that into you and I recommend you get over her and move one. You are the chick in this relationship and you need to get in the mindset that you don’t need her.

]]> By: Drew http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-14082 Drew Tue, 09 Sep 2008 21:01:29 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-14082 I agree with Rebecca and Selina as well. Folks really need to think about the fact that each one of us are human beings and that we should be treating others as we would like to be treated. Don't use people for your own gain. I agree with Rebecca and Selina as well. Folks really need to think about the fact that each one of us are human beings and that we should be treating others as we would like to be treated. Don’t use people for your own gain.

]]> By: Jill/Twipply Skwood http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13952 Jill/Twipply Skwood Sun, 07 Sep 2008 03:13:36 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13952 I should say though - I HAVE known women who would let a guy buy her dinner after dinner well past knowing that she wasn't truly interested. But in my experience that's been the exception & not the rule. I should say though – I HAVE known women who would let a guy buy her dinner after dinner well past knowing that she wasn’t truly interested. But in my experience that’s been the exception & not the rule.

]]> By: Jill/Twipply Skwood http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13950 Jill/Twipply Skwood Sun, 07 Sep 2008 02:39:13 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13950 Totally agree with Rebecca, Selina, & Jojo on the expensive gifts thing. Even one time when I was maybe 19, this guy I was supposed to go on a date with mailed me this ring right before we went out. It wasn't expensive or anything but it totally freaked me out & I had been SO into him when I met him. I gave the ring to my best friend & never went out with him. Anyway, I doubt I can add too much that's new to this conversation except to say that I was totally suspicious of "that boyfriend word" my guy kept using when we first started dating. My friends were all calling him my boyfriend and he was calling himself that and I was like, "Huh?!?!" But here I am almost a year later all totally and completely head over heels. So I don't know that her being afraid of the label necessarily means all is lost. Totally agree with Rebecca, Selina, & Jojo on the expensive gifts thing. Even one time when I was maybe 19, this guy I was supposed to go on a date with mailed me this ring right before we went out. It wasn’t expensive or anything but it totally freaked me out & I had been SO into him when I met him. I gave the ring to my best friend & never went out with him.

Anyway, I doubt I can add too much that’s new to this conversation except to say that I was totally suspicious of “that boyfriend word” my guy kept using when we first started dating. My friends were all calling him my boyfriend and he was calling himself that and I was like, “Huh?!?!” But here I am almost a year later all totally and completely head over heels. So I don’t know that her being afraid of the label necessarily means all is lost.

]]> By: Jojo http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13528 Jojo Tue, 02 Sep 2008 12:24:33 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13528 I agree with Rebecca and Selina! Receiving expensive dinners and gifts from a guy you're not into is just plain using him. I think it's unfair to do that to someone! that I agree with Rebecca and Selina! Receiving expensive dinners and gifts from a guy you’re not into is just plain using him. I think it’s unfair to do that to someone!
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]]> By: Selena http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13483 Selena Mon, 01 Sep 2008 19:54:07 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13483 Actually Hunter I don't think Rebekah and I are all that rare. I know many women who would be uncomfortable being showered with monetary "attention" from someone whom they uncertain about, or flat out aren't interested in. Women who don't want to feel like they are being "bought" in some way. You don't want to feel obligated in some vague way. Now, if you're crazy about the guy, that's a different story. Gifts, dinners, etc. are fun and sweet and appreciated as gestures of love. Gotta be a mutual thing is all I'm sayin'. Actually Hunter I don’t think Rebekah and I are all that rare. I know many women who would be uncomfortable being showered with monetary “attention” from someone whom they uncertain about, or flat out aren’t interested in. Women who don’t want to feel like they are being “bought” in some way. You don’t want to feel obligated in some vague way.

Now, if you’re crazy about the guy, that’s a different story. Gifts, dinners, etc. are fun and sweet and appreciated as gestures of love. Gotta be a mutual thing is all I’m sayin’.

]]> By: hunter http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13473 hunter Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:15:11 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13473 On post #22, You must be a rare "Gem".....common knowledge amongst men, is that a woman can easily adapt to "monetary" attention......money is powerful, it has been known to change a persons mind..... On post #22,

You must be a rare “Gem”…..common knowledge amongst men, is that a woman can easily adapt to “monetary” attention……money is powerful, it has been known to change a persons mind…..

]]> By: Selena http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13464 Selena Mon, 01 Sep 2008 16:48:52 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13464 I'm with Rebekah #19- gifts, expensive dinners, and all the other "attention" overload stuff I do not want from someone I'm not head over heels about. And only 9 dates in 2.5 mos.? That wouldn't be enough time spent together for me to feel comfortable with the bf/gf designation. I don't think Daniel needs to totally give up...YET...things may shift once they are both living in the same town. But definetly he needs to LISTEN to what she is saying and what she is saying right now is to back off some, he's being/doing too much. I’m with Rebekah #19- gifts, expensive dinners, and all the other “attention” overload stuff I do not want from someone I’m not head over heels about. And only 9 dates in 2.5 mos.? That wouldn’t be enough time spent together for me to feel comfortable with the bf/gf designation.

I don’t think Daniel needs to totally give up…YET…things may shift once they are both living in the same town. But definetly he needs to LISTEN to what she is saying and what she is saying right now is to back off some, he’s being/doing too much.

]]> By: hunter http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13228 hunter Wed, 27 Aug 2008 22:39:22 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13228 on post #20, Some recently divorced women won't commit. Some women with monetary assets, won't commit. on post #20,

Some recently divorced women won’t commit. Some women with monetary assets, won’t commit.

]]> By: Agreeing http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-13209 Agreeing Wed, 27 Aug 2008 14:31:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/im-exclusive-with-a-woman-who-wont-let-me-call-her-my-girlfriend/#comment-13209 I was just reading an article like this. The guy can't get a commitment and he was thinking that maybe she had had some bad experiences in the past or something. I think it's something you should talk about because then atleast you'll know why she doesn't want to commit. Usually women want to, so you want to make sure she's really into you. I was just reading an article like this. The guy can’t get a commitment and he was thinking that maybe she had had some bad experiences in the past or something. I think it’s something you should talk about because then atleast you’ll know why she doesn’t want to commit. Usually women want to, so you want to make sure she’s really into you.

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