ditch the number after getting it (never give contact thereafter)
anything more than a kiss and I’m gone.

As in a previous comment… i have been his ‘wing girl’ and we did have some fun.  Obviously seeing him chat to other women this way and knowing that he kisses them etc bugs me, but at the end of the day, seeing him do it was that little bit more comforting in the fact that as much as he could follow these leads, he doesn’t.

It all comes down to trust.  If everything is good and your the one he comes home to, what’s the problem?… your just going to have a ton of women wishing they were you.  Take comfort in the fact that the ‘type’ of girl he wants is not the easily manipulated one in the bar, club or high street, but the one that he knows, cares about and wants to be with… thats you.

90% of PUA’s are insecure men with a big front of a growing ego… thats what PUA tells them to be so they can pick up these girls (they need the confidence to do it!).  If he has opened up and gone beyond that for you, then there is something there.  a PUA wont go further and allow a girl to see an insecurity unless theres a relationship.  This is because it shows weakness… one thing with the PUA method is weakness is frowned upon-you have to be the best, richest, most social, healthiest man in the house.  So think about what you have with this guy and how he is with you.  Do you trust him now?

No one wants to go out with someone who doesn’t trust them because even if they aren’t doing anything…. being accused of things every night or every other night isn’t fun and it’s just going to aggravate him to a point where he will break up with you.

I used to work a lot, since my ex didn’t want to work at all. I’d come home after 11 hours and be accused of cheating when any one of the other employees and the cameras could vouch for me. To make a long story short, going through that friggin crap everyday was irritating and stressful. After a while I broke up with him and said don’t bother me any more.

That’s just an example from my life. I am a woman and I didn’t want to be with a man accusing me of things all the time. If you trust him then you gotta mean it and actually trust him. If you have doubt then you shouldn’t be together.

Sadly, no- at least emotionally available ones. A lot of men in the current American culture grew up with single mothers who were working ten-twelve hours day and barely had enough energy to cook dinner after coming home, let alone emotionally connect with their children.

Jessica said: (#97)
“I can’t stand that book ‘The Game’.”
“my boyfriend of three years just broke up with me.”
“We have had a horrible abusive relationship for three years”
“thats just not how you get the good girls you want.”
“Treat your girls with respect. Make a woman happy and she will do everything to make you happy too!!!”

You just did a remarkable job of persuading me that you don’t know what you’re talking about. According to you:
1) Your boyfriend was horrible and abusive to you for 3 years.
2) You did not leave your boyfriend. He broke up with you.
3) You (presumably) consider yourself to be a “good girl”.
4) Treating a woman with respect is a more successful method of getting and keeping a “good girl”.

Your boyfriend managed to get you and keep you for 3 years without treating you with respect. The relationship ended when he decided that he no longer wanted to be with you.

You might want to consider why this was possible.

“i just wish we could have more down to earth, fun, loving guys who don’t need that bullshit”

Then date those men, and dump the ones who disrescpect you and abuse you after the first or second date. And if every woman does the same thing, then “The Game” will become a completely useless piece of trash.

I agree with Evan that a nice guy with self-confidence can do as well as (or better than) a jerk. But if you really want to persuade men that it’s against their interest to be a jerk, you might want to start dating the nice guys (regardless of their self-confidence) in preference to the jerks.