And I think you’re carrying that slightly misguided point of view to your dating relationships. Could your New York background be holding you back with every single guy you meet? Possibly, but unlikely. Chances are, you’ve met (and are attracted to) a few non-Southerners who migrated as well. Do you think they, too, have a problem with you being from the North?
As I’ve already stated – what you’re doing is a really gutsy thing. But if you want to be successful in both your male and female friendships, stop placing the blame on a factor which you can’t control, and start being a more positive, powerful, action-oriented woman. Be the one who throws the parties, who throws spa weekends, who doesn’t have a shred of doubt on each and every date that she’s going to get a second one.
If you do that, I predict, magically, that no one will think twice about the fact that you hail from the EmpireState.
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