And who knew that deleting the offending photographs was so tricky? After all, when I get junk mail that I don’t want, I generally… save it all in a folder marked Personal. I mean, who wouldn’t keep all the disgusting unwanted porn that infiltrated his computer? But then again, what choice did he have – what with her sending those nude photographs against his will.
This leads me to my favorite whopper – one that could only have been borrowed from the playbook of a four-year-old who doesn’t know enough about life to lie effectively.
He doesn’t know why they send him pictures.
You know how women are – forcing their breasts upon our unsuspecting innocent male eyes, no how matter how much we plead with them to stop.
Yeah, you know how women are – forcing their breasts upon our unsuspecting innocent male eyes, no how matter how much we plead with them to stop.
Like last month’s post from the woman whose husband left her for 18 months, cheated on her, and wants to come back, you’ve become quite adept at ignoring the same advice that you’d give to any girlfriend.
As for your actual question: Why is he doing this and is this a valid reason to end our relationship?
Only you can determine whether this is a valid reason to end your relationship. If you can manage to not be perpetually hurt at his mental adultery, you’re far stronger than most women. There are couples that believe in polyamory – he cheats, she loves him anyway. It’s your call, darlin’. I certainly won’t judge you for staying – but only if YOU’RE comfortable with his penchant for friend-porn.
As to why he’s doing this: Maybe he’s got a wandering eye, maybe he’s a porn addict, maybe he’s a voyeur. You won’t know any of this until you confront him directly, and demand a real answer – not some fairy tale about nasty women who won’t leave him alone. And if you don’t get a real answer – an actual admission that he’s done something wrong and needs to atone immediately (with a zero strikes policy in the future) – you have to have the guts to say goodbye.
Otherwise, this email is just another exercise for the sake of itself. Like the unemployed person who doesn’t look for work, or the heavy person who won’t stop gorging, you’ve turned yourself into a victim of laziness and fear and willful ignorance. It’s nobody’s fault but your own if you get fooled again.
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