Comments on: My Husband Ignores Me and I Have a Crush on My Stepson

By: LaVida Loca

LaVida Loca — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 20:30:48 +0000

#14, Ha!! Just a thought … Plenty of people in messed up marriages ARE dating (read: cheating) so why *wouldn’t* they read a dating blog? They might even be subscribers to one of those married-folks’ dating websites and find Evan’s advice about that to be useful.

By: chris

chris — Thu, 16 Aug 2012 12:51:06 +0000

All of you who so quickly judged this woman should be ashamed of yourselves.

She didn’t say she had sex with the stepson, nor did she give her age or the details of her marriage.
We don’t always choose who we fall in love with.

The best advice I can give is to not make a move, if you are unhappy seperate from your husband or tell him your feelings and work on the marriage.

once the marriage has ended and you still feel the same about the stepson, then you should see how it goes.

Thank you Arvin, peole tend to forget this is a real person who has feelings.

By: Arvin

Arvin — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 10:03:11 +0000

There is nothing to be ashamed of and you don’t need to see a therapist neither !!! Most of people here have a definition of NORMALITY …which is a concept that has been Forced and imposed on to people.

If you love the guy and the guy loves you … it’s all that matters … we are not on earth to be punished and to live in sadness or base our lives on other people’s opinions of what is right and what is wrong.

But make sure that you explain the situation to your husband, don;t lie and hide things, be honest, tell him the truth, and if he doesn’t want to lose you , he will make a move … if not … then make your decision.

All the best and always remember to be happy.

By: DMR

DMR — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 22:53:07 +0000

I was in a similar situation in a bad marriage (which i’m still in hell but thank god we are separated) and a stepson who had a huge crush on me. However I had only been married a few months, my step son was 18 and I did not see him grow up and had only had breif encounters with him over the past couple years. I honestly have no idea how we started flirting but we did. AFTER I left my husband is when we starting sleeping together but it only lasted very breifly. Did I forget to mention when all of this occured I was mentally gone from dealing with my husband cheating on me with his FIRST COUSIN over a two month period (they actually are still together) and through that time having him throw it in my face, downgrade me, call my hurtful things, hit me, etc… It happened and I don’t regret it. I am not saying I made the best choice but what was done was done.

By: Miranda

Miranda — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 22:10:50 +0000

First of Stella I think your crazy, Karen please don’t take her advice, polygamy never works without someone feeling unfufilled, under treated, or jealous…and almost always ends up badly. If you are serious about somebody you should never be so selfish and inconsiderate of their feelings, doing what Stella said gets people killed, and is usually only agreeable by people with serious issues. Don’t ever tell your husband that you wanna sleep with his son, knowing a man’s ego….he might kill you, or beat you up really badly. I think if it’s so bad you are screaming for attention from whoever will give it to you including your stepson, then YOU NEED TO LEAVE. DON’T SLEEP WITH YOUR STEPSON BECAUSE YOU WILL MORE THAN LIKELY REGRET IT, and if he’s nice to you now it’s probably because you are a MILF (Lol) and what man isn’t nice to a woman he’d like to F**K? If you sleep with him you will probably find that the apple doesnt fall to far from the tree….GET OUT OF THE SITUATION ENTIRELY, before you cause undoable damage to yourself and everyone else around you.

By: 30 years old woman

30 years old woman — Sun, 12 Dec 2010 02:42:08 +0000

I am in the same situation the only difference is that I love my husband but I have a strong sexual desire for my step son

By: nikki

nikki — Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:33:22 +0000

YOUR THINKING IS WAY OFF. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN WANT YOUR HUSBANDS CHILD..GIRL GET SOME HELP BFORE YOU GET SOMEONE HURT.

By: Stella

Stella — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 17:25:10 +0000

Talk your man into letting you sleep with the son in addition to sleeping with him. Just present it like a business proposal. Don’t tell the son that you are asking. That way if you can’t convince the hubby to share, just say “Ok dear hubby you win”, and then keep your mouth shut about the whole thing unless you decide to choose the son over his father. Which could turn out pretty messy.
If you do the share plan, don’t tell others, because people are often too ignorant to consider a different, ‘tribal’ sort of relationship that this one would be.
I, for example, am dating a man who is 18 years older than I. If he dies long before I do or if something happens to him (The All forbid), then I would not be averse to the romantic company of his son. Since your hubby is still alive and does not treat you well, your situation is a bit more hairy.
I wonder, what’s the harm in having sex with more than one person? Polyamory can work. Plus, your not just screwing some random guy. This is your husband’s son, who he knows well.

If the proposal doesn’t fly, how about screwing your husband’s dad instead (har har little joke).

By: Random Guy

Random Guy — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 14:57:20 +0000

Why is everyone assuming she’s over 20 herself? These days in time, older men marry younger women all the time. Hell, the Stepson could be OLDER than her. Shouldn’t assume, and should always cover every “what-if” when trying to provide advice to someone on a one-ended blogging site.

By: starthrower68

starthrower68 — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 01:14:13 +0000

Very simple. Actions have consequences. You just have to choose if you want the good or the bad. As you can see in the case of Chromeyellowsportster, many are often hurt if you pick the bad.