Comments on: My Husband Ignores Me and I Have a Crush on My Stepson http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 05:00:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: DMR http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-187490 DMR Sun, 09 Oct 2011 22:53:07 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-187490 I was in a similar situation in a bad marriage (which i'm still in hell but thank god we are separated) and a stepson who had a huge crush on me.  However I had only been married a few months, my step son was 18 and I did not see him grow up and had only had breif encounters with him over the past couple years.  I honestly have no idea how we started flirting but we did.  AFTER I left my husband is when we starting sleeping together but it only lasted very breifly.  Did I forget to mention when all of this occured I was mentally gone from dealing with my husband cheating on me with his FIRST COUSIN over a two month period (they actually are still together) and through that time having him throw it in my face, downgrade me, call my hurtful things, hit me, etc... It happened and I don't regret it.  I am not saying I made the best choice but what was done was done. I was in a similar situation in a bad marriage (which i’m still in hell but thank god we are separated) and a stepson who had a huge crush on me.  However I had only been married a few months, my step son was 18 and I did not see him grow up and had only had breif encounters with him over the past couple years.  I honestly have no idea how we started flirting but we did.  AFTER I left my husband is when we starting sleeping together but it only lasted very breifly.  Did I forget to mention when all of this occured I was mentally gone from dealing with my husband cheating on me with his FIRST COUSIN over a two month period (they actually are still together) and through that time having him throw it in my face, downgrade me, call my hurtful things, hit me, etc… It happened and I don’t regret it.  I am not saying I made the best choice but what was done was done.

]]> By: Miranda http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-167308 Miranda Sun, 24 Jul 2011 22:10:50 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-167308 First of Stella I think your crazy, Karen please don't take her advice, polygamy never works without someone feeling unfufilled, under treated, or jealous...and almost always ends up badly. If you are serious about somebody you should never be so selfish and inconsiderate of their feelings, doing what Stella said gets people killed, and is usually only agreeable by people with serious issues. Don't ever tell your husband that you wanna sleep with his son, knowing a man's ego....he might kill you, or beat you up really badly. I think if it's so bad you are screaming for attention from whoever will give it to you including your stepson, then YOU NEED TO LEAVE. DON'T SLEEP WITH YOUR STEPSON BECAUSE YOU WILL MORE THAN LIKELY REGRET IT, and if he's nice to you now it's probably because you are a MILF (Lol) and what man isn't nice to a woman he'd like to F**K? If you sleep with him you will probably find that the apple doesnt fall to far from the tree....GET OUT OF THE SITUATION ENTIRELY, before you cause undoable damage to yourself and everyone else around you. First of Stella I think your crazy, Karen please don’t take her advice, polygamy never works without someone feeling unfufilled, under treated, or jealous…and almost always ends up badly. If you are serious about somebody you should never be so selfish and inconsiderate of their feelings, doing what Stella said gets people killed, and is usually only agreeable by people with serious issues. Don’t ever tell your husband that you wanna sleep with his son, knowing a man’s ego….he might kill you, or beat you up really badly. I think if it’s so bad you are screaming for attention from whoever will give it to you including your stepson, then YOU NEED TO LEAVE. DON’T SLEEP WITH YOUR STEPSON BECAUSE YOU WILL MORE THAN LIKELY REGRET IT, and if he’s nice to you now it’s probably because you are a MILF (Lol) and what man isn’t nice to a woman he’d like to F**K? If you sleep with him you will probably find that the apple doesnt fall to far from the tree….GET OUT OF THE SITUATION ENTIRELY, before you cause undoable damage to yourself and everyone else around you.

]]> By: 30 years old woman http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-104116 30 years old woman Sun, 12 Dec 2010 02:42:08 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-104116 I am in the same situation the only difference is that I love my husband but I have a strong sexual desire for my step son I am in the same situation the only difference is that I love my husband but I have a strong sexual desire for my step son

]]> By: nikki http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-85445 nikki Sun, 10 Oct 2010 03:33:22 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-85445 YOUR THINKING IS WAY OFF. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN WANT YOUR HUSBANDS CHILD..GIRL GET SOME HELP BFORE  YOU GET SOMEONE HURT. YOUR THINKING IS WAY OFF. WHY WOULD YOU EVEN WANT YOUR HUSBANDS CHILD..GIRL GET SOME HELP BFORE  YOU GET SOMEONE HURT.

]]> By: Stella http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-74918 Stella Thu, 15 Jul 2010 17:25:10 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-74918 Talk your man into letting you sleep with the son in addition to sleeping with him. Just present it like a business proposal. Don't tell the son that you are asking. That way if you can't convince the hubby to share, just say "Ok dear hubby you win", and then keep your mouth shut about the whole thing unless you decide to choose the son over his father. Which could turn out pretty messy. If you do the share plan, don't tell others, because people are often too ignorant to consider a different, 'tribal' sort of relationship that this one would be. I, for example, am dating a man who is 18 years older than I. If he dies long before I do or if something happens to him (The All forbid), then I would not be averse to the romantic company of his son. Since your hubby is still alive and does not treat you well, your situation is a bit more hairy. I wonder, what's the harm in having sex with more than one person? Polyamory can work. Plus, your not just screwing some random guy. This is your husband's son, who he knows well. If the proposal doesn't fly, how about screwing your husband's dad instead (har har little joke).  Talk your man into letting you sleep with the son in addition to sleeping with him. Just present it like a business proposal. Don’t tell the son that you are asking. That way if you can’t convince the hubby to share, just say “Ok dear hubby you win”, and then keep your mouth shut about the whole thing unless you decide to choose the son over his father. Which could turn out pretty messy.
If you do the share plan, don’t tell others, because people are often too ignorant to consider a different, ‘tribal’ sort of relationship that this one would be.
I, for example, am dating a man who is 18 years older than I. If he dies long before I do or if something happens to him (The All forbid), then I would not be averse to the romantic company of his son. Since your hubby is still alive and does not treat you well, your situation is a bit more hairy.
I wonder, what’s the harm in having sex with more than one person? Polyamory can work. Plus, your not just screwing some random guy. This is your husband’s son, who he knows well.

If the proposal doesn’t fly, how about screwing your husband’s dad instead (har har little joke). 

]]> By: Random Guy http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-74763 Random Guy Tue, 13 Jul 2010 14:57:20 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-74763 Why is everyone assuming she's over 20 herself? These days in time, older men marry younger women all the time. Hell, the Stepson could be OLDER than her. Shouldn't assume, and should always cover every "what-if" when trying to provide advice to someone on a one-ended blogging site. Why is everyone assuming she’s over 20 herself? These days in time, older men marry younger women all the time. Hell, the Stepson could be OLDER than her. Shouldn’t assume, and should always cover every “what-if” when trying to provide advice to someone on a one-ended blogging site.

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-24465 starthrower68 Wed, 25 Mar 2009 01:14:13 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-24465 Very simple. Actions have consequences. You just have to choose if you want the good or the bad. As you can see in the case of Chromeyellowsportster, many are often hurt if you pick the bad. Very simple. Actions have consequences. You just have to choose if you want the good or the bad. As you can see in the case of Chromeyellowsportster, many are often hurt if you pick the bad.

]]> By: A-L http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-24351 A-L Tue, 24 Mar 2009 01:02:31 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-24351 Chromyellowsportster, Sorry to hear about your situation. I will keep you in your family in my prayers. Chromyellowsportster,

Sorry to hear about your situation. I will keep you in your family in my prayers.

]]> By: chromeyellowsportster http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-24323 chromeyellowsportster Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:43:19 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-24323 This is what I think. I overheard my wife of 17 years telling her girlfriend about how she was having sex with my son (her stepson). She was telling her girlfriend that she didn't want to be 'just a quick fuck to him' and so on. My wife and I have a beautiful son and daughter together, a young teen and a 7 year old. I thought my life was going great. On her birthday just before this came up I'd written her a card saying how beautiful she is and how I loved her more than ever. We have a waterfront home on the lake and hundreds of friends. I make a lot of money and get to work from home. I'm blessed in every way, except one it turns out. The level of betrayal is so severe it can drive you insane. I've been able to sleep an hour or two a night. I pray all the time for guidance. I want my young childeren to be happy, but it looks like I'll only be with them on every other weekend if we get a divorce. My oldest son who was part and parcel to this betrayal has also lost my love. I was his best friend. Words can't describe the anguish. Who's done more harm to me, Osama bin Laden or my wife? It is that bad. I pray for them, I pray for my small childeren and myself. Please pray for us also. I am at Whit's End. What is wrong with people these days? Peace to you and yours... This is what I think.

I overheard my wife of 17 years telling her girlfriend about how she was having sex with my son (her stepson). She was telling her girlfriend that she didn’t want to be ‘just a quick fuck to him’ and so on.

My wife and I have a beautiful son and daughter together, a young teen and a 7 year old.

I thought my life was going great. On her birthday just before this came up I’d written her a card saying how beautiful she is and how I loved her more than ever. We have a waterfront home on the lake and hundreds of friends. I make a lot of money and get to work from home. I’m blessed in every way, except one it turns out.

The level of betrayal is so severe it can drive you insane. I’ve been able to sleep an hour or two a night. I pray all the time for guidance. I want my young childeren to be happy, but it looks like I’ll only be with them on every other weekend if we get a divorce.

My oldest son who was part and parcel to this betrayal has also lost my love. I was his best friend.

Words can’t describe the anguish. Who’s done more harm to me, Osama bin Laden or my wife? It is that bad.

I pray for them, I pray for my small childeren and myself. Please pray for us also. I am at Whit’s End.

What is wrong with people these days?

Peace to you and yours…

]]> By: CasualEncountersBlog http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/my-husband-ignores-me-and-i-have-a-crush-on-my-stepson/comment-page-1/#comment-21718 CasualEncountersBlog Sat, 14 Feb 2009 19:15:58 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/?p=695#comment-21718 She should totally fuck him. What does she have to lose? Her marriage is already over bar the shouting, and if she hooks up with stepson she might at least get a Springer fee out of it to help her and sonny boy start their new life together in the trailer park. <abbr><em><abbr><em>CasualEncountersBlog´s last blog post...<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/casualencounters/SkqR/~3/qTLYtRzaNbA/" rel="nofollow">Single women and casual sex</a></em></abbr></abbr></em> She should totally fuck him. What does she have to lose? Her marriage is already over bar the shouting, and if she hooks up with stepson she might at least get a Springer fee out of it to help her and sonny boy start their new life together in the trailer park.

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