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Valentine’s Day is right around the corner.
I know, I know…
Valentine’s Day is silly. Valentine’s Day is a Hallmark holiday.
But you have to admit, days like Valentine’s Day, your birthday, and New Years Eve DO make you stop and think: “What do I REALLY want out of life? And what am I doing to get it?”
I’ve been thinking a lot about this myself.
I really want to get better at guitar…but I always find an excuse not to practice.
I really want to buy a house…but I’d rather do anything on a Saturday than drive around Los Angeles.
I’d really like to have a family…but…okay, that’s not so difficult to find motivation!
Still, you get my point: we all get happier when we take the necessary steps to achieve our goals.
No effort = no reward. It’s not a very complicated formula.
…MY way of online dating will give you a very different experience than your previous ways of doing it.
So if you already have a date for Valentine’s Day, I applaud you. You’re in the game, you’re taking chances, and you’re open to whatever tomorrow brings.
Now stop reading this blog post.
This email’s for everybody else, who, like me, will be staying IN on Valentine’s Day.
If you’ve been reading for awhile, you know that I’m a big believer in actionable steps, as opposed to wishful thinking. I believe you have to work to find love, the same way you have to work to find a job when you’re unemployed.
It may not sound “fun”, but it’s far more effective than the alternative.
Which is why I am a noted and unabashed advocate of online dating. Not because it’s perfect, but because it creates opportunity in your busy life – a busy life that doesn’t currently involve meeting single men.
“But,” you might think, “I’ve TRIED online dating. And it really didn’t work. The men that I wanted didn’t want me. The men who DID want me were liars, and flakes, and players and losers. I found it frustrating and dispiriting. Why would I go back?”
I’ve got two answers to your question
You go back because without online dating, you’re barely dating at all. One date every three months is not a love life. You need more opportunity. Match provides it.
You go back because you’ve never tried online dating MY way.
And MY way of online dating will give you a very different experience than your previous ways of doing it.
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