Have You Ever Seen the Same People on Multiple Dating Sites and Rolled Your Eyes?

Have you ever seen the same people on multiple dating sites and rolled your eyes?

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  1. 31
    stephanie

    The thing to watch out for are the guys who have multiple profiles on the SAME site, sequentially or even simultaneously, and in different countries, so that if they tell you they’re off the site you won’t know that they’re lying !! I recently discovered this about someone I’d had an awful experience with. Reported it to the site – an affiliate of match.com – and they dismissed it out of hand. Watch out on any site owned by match.com.

  2. 32
    joyce

    I was looking to join a dating website as a busy professional I thought this was the way to go.  How wrong was I.  I did my homework and looked at the men on different sites and to see how each site was run.  I was not looking for a one night stand.  And I kept seeing the same face popping up all the time but numerous different names.  I was intrigued and found that it was not just English sites he was attatched to but American and German.  He goes by the name sexymann72, sam e, sam ehis, sam ehioghiren, wonderful72 and many others.  i actually clicked on him to see what he would say and Oh My Gosh what a player, within three days he asked for money.  He is Nigerian but located in London England.  On the site I joined you get to see his other (victims!) I feel for the ladies as you just know thay must have been scammed by this criminal thier locations varied from America England Vienna etc.  He is a very handsome gentleman but he is also is very clever with words.  For a lady with low self esteem or self worth they are easy targets.  After he emailed me asking for £100 I actually emailed one lady who continually kept sending him hearts and sweet nothings.  She said they had been a couple for over a year they had not met yet but she was sponsering him from America as he was a student and when he graduated he would be joining her in America.  You had to feel for the lady as you know this is not going to happen.  I was honoured as the night before he asked for the money he declared his undying love for me lol.  There should be something put into place whereby if the gentlemans name or photo should flag up as belonging to other sites.  This would help the decent honest people looking for a patner would not have to suffer at the hands of men and women like these.   

  3. 33
    princess

    Yes, the guy I was recently seeing and dumped was caught on several dating sites by me, some paid and others unpaid. 
    I didn’t mind him still being on the dating site we met on because we only saw each other for around 2 months and I hadn’t removed mine either so that would be hypocritical of me.
     
    However, I found him on an adult dating site because I was curious and had a bad feeling about him so I posted a free profile up on then and lo and behold, he had used the same user name (a unique one) for all profiles on all sites so I  dumped his ass, athough he denied it. 
    I deserve better than that. 

  4. 34
    JoJo

    I totally agree with the comments from princess…The very same thing happened to me.  Same time frame of dating etc.  He had just left my house and was instant messaging someone on match as soon as he got home.  Then I discovered he was on at least 2 other sites, and changed his picture and profile while we were dating!  He was calling and texting at least 3 times a day, probably a blanket text to many other women.  I sent him a message on match, then blocked his number, email and profile.  What a player!! Who needs this?

  5. 35
    Julie

    Why no use as many free sites as possible?  Why limit yourself?  That’s ridiculous.  You never know who’s using which site.  If you’re going to be online at all, be out there!  I know one thing, POF makes me feel so old with all the old men it matches me to!  You can’t control who can search or message you.

  6. 36
    Alan

    Haha,  match.com hijacked my profile and posted me as living in New Hampshire.  This is not funny and they wouldn’t reply to my complaint about it. These dating sites are unscrupulous. Just look at there offshore address.  That’s why they can’t be regulated. 

  7. 37
    matt

    I always chuckle when the sites try so hard to “match” you with others. I live in an area with about 200,000 people in a 25 mile radius. I check the dating sites about once a month and find about 15 new profiles.  Not really hard to check the 0-2 profiles where someone “might” be what you are looking for.
     
    I’ve been on these sites since maybe 2004, got a total of 2 dates from them, one was a relationship that lasted a month, but mainly because I was sort of desperate at the time. Its been almost 5 years since I last went out with someone I met online…..seems to be more of a waste of time than it was in the past.
     
    Can’t figure out why someone would choose a paid site over a free one. I tend to send 2-3 emails a month and get 0 replies. Is it any better on a paid one?

  8. 38
    Bella

    I have. I know this guy from a dating site. We met once and traveled together. He comes from another country. Things happened, so I started googling about him, which I should have done it before I decided to meet him. It’s really shocking to find that he’s in several dating websites, honestly I kinda think it’s a little creepy cause he seems like he’s desperate or something. I even found his profile on this dating website called bangme, then I came to a solution maybe he just wants to hook up. 

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