Comments on: How To Tell If A Guy’s Falling In Love With You http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 06:12:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: pixie http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-250400 pixie Sun, 22 Jan 2012 10:02:20 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-250400 If you are having difficulty coping with your partner's past relationships try reading I HATE HIS EX by Alex Cooper. I had loads of issues with my fiance’s ex and I have now resolved them thanks to the advice in this book! You can get it on Amazon! Definitely worth a read! :)  If you are having difficulty coping with your partner’s past relationships try reading I HATE HIS EX by Alex Cooper. I had loads of issues with my fiance’s ex and I have now resolved them thanks to the advice in this book! You can get it on Amazon! Definitely worth a read! :)  

]]> By: Colleen http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-238820 Colleen Wed, 04 Jan 2012 02:03:19 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-238820 I just got out of a 6 month relationship a month ago. I had no questions about his feelings for me until around the holidays, when he started acting weird. We were in a committed relationship at three months, talked everyday, saw each other 3 times a week. I didn't sleep with him until the three month mark. Things seemed great. But then I told him I loved him a little after five months. He said it was too soon for him. And that's when he got distant. I asked him what was up and where I stood with him a couple of weeks later. he told me the following: I don't love you, don't know if I will, I don't see a future with you, I like my space. Then he said, you can take a couple of days and think it over and let me know what you want to do, or we can go out tomorrow, have fun, and see if anything develops for me over time. I broke up with him then. It didn't take me a couple of days. It shocked me a lot. And I felt crushed. But it was the greatest gift he could have given me. His honesty and true intentions. So I could move on a find what I really want and deserve. Oh yes, even though he didn't see a future with me, we had made plans 5 months in advance to go on a trip this March. Hmmm, misleading right? I lost money on that trip. Se la vie. I just got out of a 6 month relationship a month ago. I had no questions about his feelings for me until around the holidays, when he started acting weird. We were in a committed relationship at three months, talked everyday, saw each other 3 times a week. I didn’t sleep with him until the three month mark. Things seemed great. But then I told him I loved him a little after five months. He said it was too soon for him. And that’s when he got distant. I asked him what was up and where I stood with him a couple of weeks later. he told me the following: I don’t love you, don’t know if I will, I don’t see a future with you, I like my space. Then he said, you can take a couple of days and think it over and let me know what you want to do, or we can go out tomorrow, have fun, and see if anything develops for me over time.
I broke up with him then. It didn’t take me a couple of days. It shocked me a lot. And I felt crushed. But it was the greatest gift he could have given me. His honesty and true intentions. So I could move on a find what I really want and deserve. Oh yes, even though he didn’t see a future with me, we had made plans 5 months in advance to go on a trip this March. Hmmm, misleading right? I lost money on that trip. Se la vie.

]]> By: To Heather http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-235538 To Heather Sat, 31 Dec 2011 20:57:40 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-235538 I hope "heather" comes back and reads these. You are a player's wet dream.  It is SOOOO easy to text someone and say "oh baby I'm thinking of you" bla bla. haha.     What Evan said is actually right.  A guy who loves you will show it through ACTION not some easy bullshit like texting.  Setting aside time for you is what a man who truly wants you will do.  And even when he's with you the little things he does tells you how much he cares for you. Wanting to see you or text you daily is hardly a sign of immaturity, it's about his dedication, devotion, and commitment to you.  In the beginning, yes to each their own, some people are thrilled from "new love" so want to see each other all the time; others are careful and keep it cool for the first while.  But really after some time contact should be pretty often. Beware Heather, I hope you have found a truly honest guy.  Otherwise, you're just another sucker who feeds off of bs hope. I hope “heather” comes back and reads these.
You are a player’s wet dream.  It is SOOOO easy to text someone and say “oh baby I’m thinking of you” bla bla. haha.    

What Evan said is actually right.  A guy who loves you will show it through ACTION not some easy bullshit like texting.  Setting aside time for you is what a man who truly wants you will do.  And even when he’s with you the little things he does tells you how much he cares for you.
Wanting to see you or text you daily is hardly a sign of immaturity, it’s about his dedication, devotion, and commitment to you. 

In the beginning, yes to each their own, some people are thrilled from “new love” so want to see each other all the time; others are careful and keep it cool for the first while.  But really after some time contact should be pretty often.

Beware Heather, I hope you have found a truly honest guy.  Otherwise, you’re just another sucker who feeds off of bs hope.

]]> By: Ashleigh http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-208870 Ashleigh Mon, 28 Nov 2011 12:49:42 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-208870 I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. When we met we were both vergins, we didn't have sex until after our 6 months. He had never had a girlfriend before me or done anything. At our one month mark he told me he loved me. I didn't say it back and I explained that I wasn't ready to say it as I didn't understand what love was. Once our 5 and half month hit I told him I loved him. When I showed up at his house unexpected one day his friends kissed him. He pulled away and walked off. Ever since that moment I realized he really does love me. He starts at 530 am and finishes at 5 pm everyday. And early or not I'm always on the other end of the phone. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.
When we met we were both vergins, we didn’t have sex until after our 6 months. He had never had a girlfriend before me or done anything.
At our one month mark he told me he loved me.
I didn’t say it back and I explained that I wasn’t ready to say it as I didn’t understand what love was. Once our 5 and half month hit I told him I loved him.
When I showed up at his house unexpected one day his friends kissed him. He pulled away and walked off.
Ever since that moment I realized he really does love me.
He starts at 530 am and finishes at 5 pm everyday.
And early or not I’m always on the other end of the phone.

]]> By: The kid http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-206733 The kid Thu, 24 Nov 2011 05:14:32 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-206733 Tell him your pregnant and if he loves you he will stay and if he is just their to have sex and whatever you think he is there for he will leave, truthfully of a guy spends for then a week dating you he is probobly interested in you unless he is a mega ass hole but you can usually tell of he is right away Tell him your pregnant and if he loves you he will stay and if he is just their to have sex and whatever you think he is there for he will leave, truthfully of a guy spends for then a week dating you he is probobly interested in you unless he is a mega ass hole but you can usually tell of he is right away

]]> By: Jessica http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-192752 Jessica Tue, 25 Oct 2011 00:24:06 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-192752 ok i am 17 years old and im not quit sure if i know exactly what love is. but i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months.. we were both virgins before we had sex with eachother. i do not think that if a boy calls you everyday that is proof that he does or doesnt love you. my boyfriend and i talk on the phone like every other day. he has prooved to me that he loves me. and im sure half of you will read this and say i dont know what love is, and half of you may or may not be right. But i do know that i have never been happier in my life since i met my boyfriend. and i do know that i couldnt live without him in my life because not only is he my boyfriend but he is my best friend. but i think that it takes two people to comitt to a relationship not just the guy. guys have a messed up way of showing that they care sometimes and they also have there on way of finding out if you really care for them. but i hope that everything goes well with everybody and i believe that the best way to tell if a boy really loves them is to trust them the most.  ok i am 17 years old and im not quit sure if i know exactly what love is. but i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months.. we were both virgins before we had sex with eachother. i do not think that if a boy calls you everyday that is proof that he does or doesnt love you. my boyfriend and i talk on the phone like every other day. he has prooved to me that he loves me. and im sure half of you will read this and say i dont know what love is, and half of you may or may not be right. But i do know that i have never been happier in my life since i met my boyfriend. and i do know that i couldnt live without him in my life because not only is he my boyfriend but he is my best friend. but i think that it takes two people to comitt to a relationship not just the guy. guys have a messed up way of showing that they care sometimes and they also have there on way of finding out if you really care for them. but i hope that everything goes well with everybody and i believe that the best way to tell if a boy really loves them is to trust them the most. 

]]> By: Jessi http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-192584 Jessi Mon, 24 Oct 2011 14:38:40 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-192584 I met a guy a few weeks back and we finally got to hang out for the first time yesterday.  We went galactic bowling (i cant bowl lol) and had a few drinks by the pool.  We talked, laughed, told eachothers stories :) If i sat down he was right there next to me, smiling, with his arm around the back of my chair.  On our way to take me home, he placed his hand on my upper leg... Does he like me??? or am i getting pulled into sex???  I met a guy a few weeks back and we finally got to hang out for the first time yesterday.  We went galactic bowling (i cant bowl lol) and had a few drinks by the pool.  We talked, laughed, told eachothers stories :) If i sat down he was right there next to me, smiling, with his arm around the back of my chair.  On our way to take me home, he placed his hand on my upper leg… Does he like me??? or am i getting pulled into sex??? 

]]> By: Mandy http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-191607 Mandy Fri, 21 Oct 2011 11:45:16 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-191607 I cant believe I had to read "if he only sees you once a week and only text you, he's not into you" My boyfriend and I were great at first, but then it was one thing after the other and now i see him once a week if im lucky. So Im playing the game becasue I dont want to lose him, how sad. Guess we'll see how it goes, thank you for the artical! I cant believe I had to read “if he only sees you once a week and only text you, he’s not into you” My boyfriend and I were great at first, but then it was one thing after the other and now i see him once a week if im lucky. So Im playing the game becasue I dont want to lose him, how sad. Guess we’ll see how it goes, thank you for the artical!

]]> By: bella italiano http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-190890 bella italiano Wed, 19 Oct 2011 02:57:58 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-190890 I have loved a guy for over 4 years now who just happens to be one of my friends..I have never told him this, and he has never mentioned anything to me about taking our friendship to the next level...he is very career-oriented, and I don't want to do anything to disrupt his career or upset him if he doesn't feel the same way...It's hard, because I have so much to tell him, but then when we are talking, I go completely blank and so does he...What i really think is both of us are just to say anything  about it at all....maybe waiting another 4 years it will be more secured cause i keep finding myself wishing that i would marry him one day...such wishful thinking i know, but i blame shyness for every bit of this.. :p I have loved a guy for over 4 years now who just happens to be one of my friends..I have never told him this, and he has never mentioned anything to me about taking our friendship to the next level…he is very career-oriented, and I don’t want to do anything to disrupt his career or upset him if he doesn’t feel the same way…It’s hard, because I have so much to tell him, but then when we are talking, I go completely blank and so does he…What i really think is both of us are just to say anything  about it at all….maybe waiting another 4 years it will be more secured cause i keep finding myself wishing that i would marry him one day…such wishful thinking i know, but i blame shyness for every bit of this.. :p

]]> By: Tina http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/comment-page-2/#comment-186312 Tina Wed, 05 Oct 2011 04:12:40 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/relationship-advice-how-to-tell-if-a-guys-falling-in-love-with-you/#comment-186312 He buys you what you want, if you want a house he'll buy it for you. If you want a car he'll buy it for you. You'll know it by what he's willing to do for you. He buys you what you want, if you want a house he’ll buy it for you. If you want a car he’ll buy it for you. You’ll know it by what he’s willing to do for you.

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