And, to me, that’s the only problem with you stalk–I mean–“looking up” this attractive man at his law firm. Fact is: if he wanted to ask you out, he would have asked you out. How do I know this? Because that’s what men DO.
Sure, there’s always the man who’s impossibly shy and needs someone to give him a pep talk before he can approach a woman. Yet, this is rarely the man women pine over.
Fact is: if he wanted to ask you out, he would have asked you out.
Objectively, it costs you nothing to send him an email and say, “Had a great time meeting you. Wanna grab a drink?” In fact, if it would give you closure, I say go ahead and do it.
I just wouldn’t expect very much in the way of a reply.
He had his chance to ask you out and he opted not to. I would think that would be all the evidence you would need.
Or, as my assistant wrote when forwarding me this question: “If he likes you, he, uh, won’t sneak out of a political function!”
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