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Men and Money

Men and Money

Money is a dilemma faced by smart, successful women in the dating world. Do you need a man to earn more than you? Will he feel insecure and emasculated around…

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Is Dating a Skill?

Is Dating a Skill?

“Just be yourself” is the most common dating advice in the world. It’s also the worst. Men who send dick pics are being themselves. Verbally abusive men are being themselves.…

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