"I'm getting to know and like men with an entirely new perspective."
I’d never really dated before, ever, though I am 60 years old. All my relationships started spontaneously, lasted a long time, and when they ended, there was a long period of not being in a relationship before a new one started. I tried online dating the first time 3 years ago; in six months on eHarmony, I had one phone call, no dates. I was bitter about the wasted time and dashed hopes. Then a friend told me about Evan.
After reading his books online I realized I was doing everything wrong. That gave me hope. I joined the Inner Circle and it took me 3 tries before my profile was ‘right,’ but just having the right pictures and a new outlook got me some attention almost immediately. Now, I never call the guy or otherwise contact him except to respond to his contacting me. When I go on a first date, my primary objective is to have fun and I never ask leading questions. I’m not even interested in asking those questions. They are no fun!
I feel like I’m having the adolescence I never had. I’m getting to know and like men with an entirely new perspective. I haven’t found ’the one’ but I’m having a great time looking. I feel more confident and relaxed and I’m not even sure it matters if I meet the one. I have a whole new way to enjoy life and enjoy having men in my life. I got an especially good boost to my confidence when a man I said goodbye to responded with “Bummer, you’re such a good kisser.”
Who woulda thought?!