“You opened my eyes to the fact that my boyfriend left because he didn’t love me unconditionally.”
My boyfriend broke up with me last month out of the blue. I was crushed and felt like the rug had been pulled from under me. Even though we had been only dating for 4 months, it felt like everything was progressing organically. We met each other’s friends and families. We shared the same values and seemed to be falling more and more in love each day. We seemed perfect for each other and everything felt so right. Out of all my relationships, he treated me the best and made me feel so special. Then one day he told me that we were not compatible, that he fell out of love with me, and that he no longer saw me in his future. I thought he was “The One” and felt it in my heart. When he dumped me, I was so heartbroken.
I wanted him to come back badly and to realize what I did wrong. I kept blaming myself. I wanted to know why he disappeared on me, our relationship and our future together. I wanted to make things right by figuring out how I needed to change. I automatically assumed I was the problem.
I’ve been reading self-help books on breakups in order to move on but none could explain why he left and so abruptly at that. Your ebook “Why He Disappeared” gave me closure and the answers I was looking for. You opened my eyes to the fact that my boyfriend left because he didn’t love me unconditionally, because he didn’t accept me for who I was. I didn’t do anything wrong. I was not to blame. If he was meant to be my partner for life, he would have stayed through the thick and thin, through the bad of it all. He would have worked on our problems together. But instead he bailed. Clearly, he was not the man for me.
I feel liberated and relieved to know these truths, like a great weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I don’t blame myself for the breakup anymore. He left because of him, not because of me. I am in such a better place today because of your insights and inspirational guidance. I was so stuck on getting him back and learning what I did wrong, but now I realize that I don’t want him back!! I deserve someone better, someone who will love me unconditionally and be there to the end, no matter what.
Frankly, I feel optimistic and excited about dating again. I am looking forward to meeting my future partner and I know he will love me unconditionally, just as I will love him unconditionally. I have faith and I have found peace. I feel more confident about myself and the future.
Thank you so much for “Why He Disappeared”, Evan. I feel alive again! No more tears!!