Connie D.

"Give the guy a chance to prove he might have what you need for a satisfying relationship."

I read one of your newsletters that spoke about how I needed to re-think the kind of guy I was looking for. I always looked for guys that were thin and outdoor’s men. Along comes Palmer from eHarmony who is overweight, very intelligent, fun to be with and willing to try any sport that I throw out for suggestion. We have been dating for 8 months and things are progressing well. He has been divorced for 5 years with 5 children (3 are older and moved out of the house and 2 are 11 and 14) and they are great kids. We are all going to Maui next month for his oldest daughter’s destination wedding. Palmer truly loves me and treats me great! So my advice would be (as you suggested) to give the guy that doesn’t fit your “image” of the what you want in a man, the chance to prove he might have what you need for a satisfying relationship. I am a firm believer in dating at least 4 seasons and we are already in our 3rd season of love. We have discussed marriage and will revisit the idea this October. Keep sending your wonderful advice as I will continue to read your weekly updates. Thanks,

Connie D.