Comments on: The Best Birthday Gift You Could Possibly Give a Dating Coach

By: -NN-

-NN- — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 14:32:21 +0000

Oh, I forgot to include my congrats.. (too excited about that new site, and since you have a different target profile, I could show that link here too.. =).. )

Happy birthday..

By: -NN-

-NN- — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 14:29:17 +0000

Nice that someone feels there is something new in that advice.

What I find funny, is that a woman should think about some man that “what it means” – when I don’t even care to see him again.

How on earth other women meet so many interesting men? Since I see an interesting man one in every half a year, if I meet a man every week (which is quite a normal speed for me)

Why meet again when I am not sexually interested? I’m just so easily bored.. and most single men have died, and are just waiting to be buried.
When I know men around me, who are lively (but sadly those are all in a relationship).
I don’t see the point of settling.. or even to meet again to dig up a personality. He evidently doesn’t have what it takes – and I won’t shag someone whom I find boring irl, he will be that in sack too.

There either is chemisry, or there is not..
if there is not – then next!

And I am worse than EMK.. =D.. I have had over 400 + first dates, and only a dozen have followed by seconds.. and only a handful have lead into something more intimate.

btw – I found a new dating site, someone whom I found eminently amusing, who has loads of good stories to tell, and really knows how to grab my attention.

http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2008/12/19/are-you-at-fault-for-choosing-such-crappy-guys/

http://www.mikethemasterdater.com/2009/05/01/the-book-he%E2%80%99s-just-not-that-into-you-annoys-the-hell-out-of-me/

Now I have 2 favourite dating sites.. =)

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 12:42:09 +0000

Sorry Evan, been a busy week! Happy belated Birthday and rest asured I’m happy for Elizabeth as well

By: starthrower68

starthrower68 — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 04:18:40 +0000

I’ll leave a positive comment on a job well done and happy belated birthday! Here here!

By: Curly Girl

Curly Girl — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 04:16:28 +0000

Can’t speak for anybody else, EMK, but I followed the advice from the other day about how to let a guy know you’re interested, and whew! I’ve been really busy. Can’t be bloggin’ if you’re snoggin’, they always say. (OK, they don’t always say that. But they should. We live online too much these days!)

But looking forward to the fireworks tomorrow. Let’s see, will it be about sex, money, cheating, weight, desperation, usurious dating, birth control, weird singles, bitter divorced people?

Oh, I know. We haven’t seen one on personal hygiene. Very important to dating. Is there one planned for the future, EMK?

PS: Happy b’day in belatedness. Not surprised you are a Leo!

By: Relationship Advice From Penny

Relationship Advice From Penny — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:29:05 +0000

LOL… I agree with A-L..so true..
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By: A-L

A-L — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:00:22 +0000

Evan, I’ll venture a guess as to why there aren’t more posters on this thread. There was no question asked, and I think everyone agrees with everything that Elizabeth (and you) wrote. Whereas in most other posts a question is posed or it’s about something where people have differing opinions. It’s just hard to get 100+ posts where each person says, “Yep, I totally agree!” Be that as it may, I’ll go on ahead and say it. You and Elizabeth are totally right. Happy belated birthday, Evan!

By: Evan Marc Katz

Evan Marc Katz — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 01:09:27 +0000

Thanks to the folks who posted here. Elizabeth’s letter really meant a lot to me. What I find interesting is how some complain of the negativity – of the questions, of my answers, of these boards – and yet, when I post something positive, it only gets 6 comments! Where is the regular chorus of posters? Or is it not interesting when someone is happy; only when her life is a train wreck?

New blog post tomorrow. Don’t worry – it’s not happy.

By: Relationship Advice From Penny

Relationship Advice From Penny — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 22:56:03 +0000

aww.. first off, happy belated birthday Evan! It makes me happy to read the kind of letters like the one Elizabeth wrote. It is such good advice to let go of things you have no control of and just have fun. This kind of positive easy going attitude, exudes an aura that is much more inviting and attractive. It’s true that if you want things to change in your life, you must first change the way you think. Change can only begin with you…Good work Evan! and GREAT work Elizabeth!

I wrote some articles on my relationship blog that could hopefully help guide you toward healthy, happy relationships whilst on your journey to find “the one” Good luck and have fun!!
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By: casualencounters.com/blog

casualencounters.com/blog — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 22:05:42 +0000

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