Comments on: The Most Important Sexual Statistic You Need to Know

By: Cat

Cat — Mon, 25 Feb 2013 15:04:31 +0000

Have to agree with PGL #31..within reason, size does matter. More importantly, girth matters, not so much length. With that said, I find size “Large” to be VERY sexy & a huge turn on, not so much important in the actual act though. Probably similar to men that like big boobs, not really important in the sexual act as it is a visual turn on. But I think I am in the minority. We are all different with different tastes. For me, bigger is better! I’ve had a range of sizes, from small to x-large. In relation to being a good lover, I think it takes a little of both, size & technique. Being huge doesn’t make you a great lover, nor does being small make you a bad one. Let me put it this way, I’d rather have a great lover that’s large, than a great lover that’s small & I’d rather have a so-so lover that’s large than a so-so lover that’s small. BUT, I’d rather have a great lover that’s small than a bad lover that’s large. Probably a bit too much information huh! lol

By: PGL

PGL — Sat, 18 Feb 2012 03:01:29 +0000

For all of you who say size doesn’t matter, try dating a guy with a micropenis (real term, not exaggeration.) Or for that matter, a very large penis. Changes how you feel about a relationship. So yes, within reason, size does matter. And for someone who is part of the 25% this can be a deal breaker.

By: sephornet

sephornet — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 03:22:20 +0000

Gem: “We don’t get disappointed when they don’t know what we want, we get disappointed when they are more concerned with their own pleasure and not…ours.”

Cosign.

By: Pineapple

Pineapple — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 01:03:47 +0000

Let me add another tally to the count of women who say that size doesn’t matter as much as other variables. The best lover I’ve ever had was on the small side, and I finished nearly every time. I have no idea what it was that worked so well, but I am definitely in the “size doesn’t matter” camp for life!

By: AllenB

AllenB — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 04:26:00 +0000

@Lara

I think that women that say that – really are just saying what they think they should.

. . .you forgo the big bang and see how satisfied and connected you feel afterwards.
I wrote that orgasm is only a part of satisfying lovemaking and that it can be satisfying without one, referring to my own experiences as a man, not my perceptions of womens’ . You are missing my point, which was that if you are completely focused on genitals and cumming most people will make that event less rather than more likely, and certainly less intense when it comes.

Lovemaking with and without orgasm is fun. If I had to choose to forgo either all kissing, hugging, touching and other loveplay or orgasms for the rest of my life, I would be unhappy, but the choice would be an easy one to make. Ask yourself that question. How would you choose? Orgasms, or everything else? Which would you keep?

By: helene

helene — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 23:10:38 +0000

Nice one Lara!

By: Lara

Lara — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 16:45:15 +0000

Barnett 23 and Barry 24: OK. Next time you’re in an intimate situation you forgo the big bang and see how satisfied and connected you feel afterwards.
Please report back.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 15 Feb 2012 03:37:00 +0000

I agree with Tami size matters but only to the point where each person needs a different size… I agree that organism might not be the main point but women feel more satisfied when they orgasm. Being that I have had sexual partners that didn’t fit the bill, I can say eventually it caused issues as the “just making love” part wasn’t enough. It’s natural to have a climax to feel satisfaction. If two people fit together and work and communicate on sex, no reason why orgasm can’t happen every time. Women have been taught for eons that sex shouldn’t be enjoyable, they shouldn’t want it, need it and that the mans satisfaction is more important. Though this is the 21st century, we as a culture have not done much to change this old mind set. I know women that have never had an orgasm. Some women don’t even know the correct names of their female organs and what parts are more orgasmic than others. Really sad. I think that women that say that – really are just saying what they think they should.

By: Barry

Barry — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:08:44 +0000

Im going to go a step further and say that orgasm isn’t even the essence of lovemaking. It’s just one aspect of sharing that connection. There can be too much focus on “getting off” instead of getting connected.

By: Barnett

Barnett — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:36:56 +0000

It is said the biggest sex organ we have is the brain…

If you can make a woman feel comfortable around you and treat her like a Queen, that maybe one of the best types satisfaction a woman can get.