Comments on: The Top 10 Worst Dates Ever

By: Kurt

Kurt — Mon, 21 May 2012 12:03:11 +0000

I see that only women were asked this question. I bet that men would also have some interesting answers.

By: Ana

Ana — Fri, 18 May 2012 03:18:24 +0000

I had to laugh at this article. I had a date that wasn’t the absolute worst for me but was the absolute worst for my date. There are peals of laughter ringing out of me right now just recalling it. Years ago I used to work in the corporate world in Manhattan, and right downstairs from my building was this little deli where everyone would go to grab a snack or lunch. It seemed everytime I went there I would see this same guy and after a time we started a conversation and eventually went on a date. He took me to a really nice restaurant and then we went dancing and had a really good time. On the way home in his car I started feeling sick (I later came down with a full blown case of the flu) and had put my head down to try to contain my nausea. I happened to turn my head and saw that he had his pants zipped down with his penis out and was whacking off and just at that moment a gusher of puke flew out of my mouth all over him. He was totally covered from the waist down with vomit but I didn’t get one drop on myself. I started screaming at him to pull over because I felt like I was going to throw up again. As soon as he did I jumped out of the car and hailed a cab and went home. I avoided that deli for some months after that and one day was with another person when I saw him across the street (fortunately, he didn’t see me). The person I was with knew him and said that he was a married man and a philanderer, and that his wife was the sweetest person she knew who seemed to be the last to know. Up to that point I had no idea he was married. I always wondered, since his pants were opened at the time of the incident, how he explained the vomit inside his pants to his wife?

By: Happy Person

Happy Person — Tue, 15 May 2012 04:26:42 +0000

A guy who thinks that going into a woman’s apartment means sex needs some lessons in seduction and in how to please a woman. Because that isn’t what it means, so he has a problem reading women’s behavior accurately. If he can’t get something that basic right, how is he going to get the trickier, more complicated sex signals right?

By: Ruby

Ruby — Mon, 14 May 2012 00:49:43 +0000

I wouldn’t invite a guy to my place on the first date, but I’ve invited a few to come up on the second or third. None of them automatically assumed that meant sex, and none of them ever tried to molest me. Actually, I did once invite a guy to come up and wait for me while I got ready to have a first dinner date with him. He definitely wanted sex, but backed off when I said no.

Sorry, but inviting a man over isn’t a tacit invitation to commit rape. Forcing a woman to have sex against her will is never acceptable. Whatever happened to “No” means “No”?

By: helene

helene — Sun, 13 May 2012 23:17:18 +0000

The craziest thing for me about these awful date stories is that i have BEEN on several of these dates!! I have been on “butt out ” date, and I have dated the cat guy… I don’t know if I’m relieved or freaked out that there are other “cat guys” out there….!
As for “come up for coffee” being an invitation to sex… come on girls, its the oldest euphimism in the book! I actually get annoyed by women who come out with these so called “date rape” stories that go “I just invited him in for a drink then suddenly he started trying to undress me…” If you don’t want a new guy to undress you what on EARTH are you doing inviting him in to your apartment?? What are guys meant to do, get a written agreement before they make a move?

By: Darci

Darci — Sat, 12 May 2012 14:50:28 +0000

These are all pretty funny, and a few of them are rather frightening. It definitely makes me feel better about my worst dates. Well, there was that one guy who turned out to be…never mind…another time

By: SalsaQ

SalsaQ — Fri, 11 May 2012 23:20:19 +0000

@Heather

Maybe his career happiness was more important to him than meeting someone. It is just a different priority set. Also, just because some other women have given him that feedback, it doesn’t mean they all have. He has probably dated women who are secure enough that they don’t care if he uses the same lunch refrigerator as his ex wife.

By: Heather

Heather — Thu, 10 May 2012 19:26:43 +0000

@ Goldie, HAHAHA!!!! Yes, I heard that one a lot. That one cracked me up. I used to get a kick out of it after awhile. I’d email them back and ask them if I could tell their wife what they told me. The result was…..wait for it….silence. LOVED it.

Another one that had me almost in tears from laughing, was a guy who emailed me and said that he was divorced, but he and his ex wife worked in the SAME SCHOOL. Uh, say what? I asked him why they both worked together if they were divorced. He said that neither of them wanted to move to a different school. I’d heard enough. I said thanks, but no thanks. He said well, my ex and I are definitely not together, but I understand your concerns, other women have turned me down for the same reason. I about died laughing. I thought OK so if he’s getting this feedback, um, shouldn’t he DO something about it so he can meet somebody? I guess he really didn’t.

By: Goldie

Goldie — Thu, 10 May 2012 11:47:43 +0000

@ Lux #14, ahhh latex allergy, oldest line in the book, along with “my wife and I haven’t had sex in years”… Gotta admire those guys’ hope that, maybe this time, it’ll work. LOL

By: david

david — Thu, 10 May 2012 05:59:10 +0000

I hate to say this, and I really don’t want to pour salt in anyone’s wounds, but you still, well, got robbed. Your law enforcement history and your neighbor didn’t / couldn’t prevent that. And chatting on the phone for 6 months? But I am sorry you had that experience.