I know: it sounds like an email from Africa, but keep reading…
I have to admit, I’ve been a little bit of a hypocrite recently. It’s embarrassing to admit that, since I run around giving advice for a living, but it’s true.
I’m always telling you to be bold. To take chances. To get rid of your fear. To open up to the unknown. To enlist the help of others. To not be afraid to fail.
And here I am, nearly a year after starting to write my new eBook, and I am stuck.
I’m concerned that I’m leaving something important out.
I’m afraid I’m going to mess up on the technological portion of things.
I’m worried that you’re not going to absolutely, 100% love every word of it.
As a result, I realized, I’m in the exact same position as you are, and I’m making the same excuses for not moving forward.
I talk to my friends who have eBooks and downloadable products: Rori Raye, Christian Carter, Carol Allen, David Wygant, Lisa Steadman, and I wonder how they were able to get such big projects off the ground.
If you’ve ever talked to your friends about men, spent hours agonizing about it and browsing dating websites, and refused to settle for anything less then the perfect man, then, well, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
I spend countless hours poring over the same written material, adding chapters, cutting lines, showing it to friends for notes.
I obsess about the graphic design, the sound, the font, the price, and come to no definite conclusions. And I remain in the same place, dying to share this important material with you, but paralyzed at getting it finished.
If you’ve ever talked to your friends about men, spent hours agonizing about it and browsing dating websites, and refused to settle for anything less than the perfect man, then, well, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
So today, I’m going to break my pattern. I’m going to take a big step forward. I’m going to do something different. Here’s how:
I’m going to ask for YOUR advice,
Because if I’m going to put out the BEST eBook on why women’s relationships with men fail, I better make sure that it addresses YOUR top concerns.
And because your time (and thoughts) are valuable to me, I’m going to give you a gift: “How To Write a Profile That Attracts The People You Want to Meet” audio, for FREE! Listening to this product will be sure to get you writing a profile that will attract the kind of attention you’re looking for. PLUS, you’ll also be put on a special advanced notification list where you’ll be the first to know when this new product that you’re helping create is ready, and tons of other great stuff coming down the road.
Believe me, I know what it’s like to get stuck, and sometimes you just need a little outside perspective. Thanks so much for providing it to me.
Thank you so much for your opinions and thoughts, and for helping me develop a product that will benefit you. I feel grateful to have friends like you who want to contribute to my life.
Warmest wishes and many thanks,