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I’m a 23 year old guy living in
Yet none of my mails scored an answer.
To get the big picture I decided to set up a fake female profile (also aged 23) equipped with sexy pic and standard essays that would fit any human being. This profile averages 30 messages a day and 90 percent of the guys just reproduce your intentionally boring counterexample from the "3 Email Dating Secrets" article:
I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. Plus, you’re really cute. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance.
Though only paying members can send messages virtually none of the guys was as clever to provide further contact possibilities like an e-mail address. When I write to girls I always provide a single purpose e-mail address but still this does not make me stand out of the crowd.
Now, Evan, apart from matters of me being only as valuable as my options, is there any possible way to write to a girl with zero-info profile and still make my mail stand out of the 300 "Like your profile. Wanna meet?" morons?
Ok, maybe it’s just not possible but I think everyone would like to read your ideas on what kind of ingenious mails women expect men to write when their pic is the only thing that distinguishes them from all the other women. They always complain about male one-liners but would they actually know what to write to themselves?
Thanks a lot,
You want to know how to get someone to respond to your email? Cite their previously written articles. Flattery will get you everywhere.
But seriously, this is a great question – not just for men, but for women as well. Clients of mine and readers of this blog are, in general, smarter than your average bear. Which means three things:
1) They’re more likely to write a unique and interesting profile
2) They’re more likely to be a bit elitist about how boring everyone else is. And this last one is my favorite…
3) They’re just as likely as anybody to write to someone just because he/she is attractive.
, but we’re perfectly willing to contact someone who is hot and boring. we’re all looking for someone interesting, brilliant, witty and kind
To which I say, “Why would you want to sit across a dinner table from someone who is sexy and has nothing to say?”
To which they say, “Uhhhhh….”…
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