Comments on: What Do Guys In Their 20’s Want With Women In Their 40’s?

By: Jean

Jean — Sat, 31 Dec 2011 16:45:45 +0000

I am here to testify that love, real love, between an older woman and a younger man can work out. My husband is 43 and I am 66. We have been together for 23 years. That’s right.. he was 20 when we met and I was 43. I was very reluctant to give in and marry a younger man after living with him for 3 1/2 years, but we were both totally in love and he taught me with my own words. I had told him I believe we came from God and came to earth to grow our spirits to go back to God so we could be closer to God…and my boyfriend…now husband…said then your soul does not have an age and so we are “soul-mates”. He was right. We have been soul mates throughout all these years. We are about to begin our 24th year together and our love is stronger and more beautiful than ever. It is true, I am beginning to feel “older” than him, but he continues to tell me I am the most beautiful woman in the world (to him)…and that we will be together throughout eternity…Now this is a real love story..

By: Mary

Mary — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 18:45:35 +0000

I agree with ONE OL’ LADY , I mean why can’t men my age treat me as well as this wonderful 20 year old ….I too take it one day at a time becasue there are no grantees in life I say if it makes you happy and your not hurting anyone then do it. Life is short my friends

By: Mary

Mary — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 20:08:28 +0000

opps didn’t prof read lol I meant to say Now we live togehter and he dosn’t think of me as 40 sorry

By: Mary

Mary — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 19:24:49 +0000

I am 45 years old I have been dating a 20 year old for about a year now. He was 19 when we meet. Know we have been living together for about 6 months now. My 21 year old son has disowend me and refuses to talk with me as long as I date/live with this guy. The truth is he makes me happy Its not just the sex and yes that is great . He and I have a realtionship that grows stronger everyday. When we first started to go out I worried about what people would think in public now I don’t care. We love each other and I don’t think of him as 20 and he dosn’t think of me as 20. We are comfortable with it and we just live day to day and take things as they come. No one has any granuntees in life. And btw I am the one who strugles with the age difference thats why I found this site .

By: Mialou

Mialou — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 06:21:06 +0000

I am a 48 year old woman who is currently dating a 29 year old for the past 3 months. I came across this thread somewhat by accident, and became intrigued by what everyone was sharing. Our relationship started out as casual dating, the sex is the most amazing, but in the last couple weeks he has expressed a desire to become serious and exclusive. I tried to break it off a week ago and found out that he is really very serious about wanting to be with me so I figured why not see where things go. I think he is absolutely adorable, enjoy his company, he makes me laugh… and did I mention the sex is incredible? I am in agreement to the exclusiveness however do not have expectations for the relationship to last forever. I have a 28 year old daughter who is very supportive of the relationship and has stated that she feels a younger guy will be good for me. Most people are surprised to learn I have a 28 year old daughter because not only do I look like I am in my mid 30s, I honestly feel I am in my mid 30′s. I plan to take things one day at a time, trying not to become too attached because he could easily wake up one day and decide is wants children. Enjoy the ride while it lasts is my motto.

By: starthrower68

starthrower68 — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 21:27:06 +0000

isn’t that funny, john? i just looked at another thread where a couple of guys said women in terms of looks peak at 25. fascinating. i have gotten hit on alot by younger guys.

By: John

John — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 20:04:10 +0000

The term cougar seems to have lost the negative connotation. It’s only the younger ladies who get offended by it. As long as there are older women searching for younger men, you can bet the term will live on.

By: Catherine

Catherine — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:21:34 +0000

I have been and am on a couple of sites for older women and younger men. I know Match.com has this category.

By: Catherine

Catherine — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 21:18:12 +0000

I am age 50. This topic is my strongest. I enjoyed reading about the more successful age gap couples. I truly beleive that there are men in their mid twenties who are considered real men, other than kids. I follow lately what was best for me, and followed my heart. I left an abusive marriage to a man 7 years younger. During my separation, when I was 34, met and had a year long relationship with a man my own age range. He was dysfunctional, finacially and emotionally unstable, who also had jail time for beating a girlfriend. He borrowed money from me because he had a low paying job. I was shocked after he ended a security shift on a porn shoot that he was one of several who “banged” the actress; and on top of this he was Christian? I said my goodbyes!
I had tried online dating within a 10 to 15 year age gap, about 35 to 40 with no responses to my emails . The men winked or viewed were over 56 to 70. I know of an intergenerational dating expert who sees the majority of younger men wanting to bond for certain reasons other that sex or money with a mature woman who enjoys being treated well. I am much more fit and attractive and more confident than I was when I was in my 30′s. I get approached alot more by younger men. I just have to weed out the kids, and prefer substance from the real men. My 2 cents.

By: happy

happy — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 19:34:13 +0000

I am 70, he is 49. We have been together for 30 years. Laughter is good medicine. Lighten up and keep things simple. No drama!!!