Comments on: What Do Guys In Their 20’s Want With Women In Their 40’s? http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:53:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: OMG! http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-56908 OMG! Mon, 08 Feb 2010 04:29:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-56908 <strong>Maura</strong> #53, R U NUTS? He keeps calling but you don't want 2 go out? And why not? Tell me something-if a <strong>totally sexy 24 yr. old</strong> called a 51 yr. old man for an innocent date, do you think the guy would hesitate and say no? It's because you have been conditioned by society to believe (possibly) that all women shpuld date older men ALL the time. That's great for older men but not so much for women. So if a <strong>sexy 24 yr. old</strong> wants to contact U, I say...Go out like that, to use your words. Good luck! Keep us posted! ttfn Maura #53,
R U NUTS? He keeps calling but you don’t want 2 go out? And why not? Tell me something-if a totally sexy 24 yr. old called a 51 yr. old man for an innocent date, do you think the guy would hesitate and say no? It’s because you have been conditioned by society to believe (possibly) that all women shpuld date older men ALL the time. That’s great for older men but not so much for women. So if a sexy 24 yr. old wants to contact U, I say…Go out like that, to use your words. Good luck! Keep us posted! ttfn

]]> By: Jim http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-40993 Jim Fri, 21 Aug 2009 17:17:29 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-40993 sorry, i met my wife when i was 24 and she was 42. that was 18 years ago and i have to say it has been the best life i could ask for. It was depends on what you want. i wanted some body with their crap toghther and after 4 years in the Navy, playing the field was realy old. all the girls my age justed wanted to play head games and party. I wanted a life, and i got one. so while MOST guys are out for a good time, not all. Just be sure to figurer out which is which. sorry, i met my wife when i was 24 and she was 42. that was 18 years ago and i have to say it has been the best life i could ask for. It was depends on what you want. i wanted some body with their crap toghther and after 4 years in the Navy, playing the field was realy old. all the girls my age justed wanted to play head games and party. I wanted a life, and i got one. so while MOST guys are out for a good time, not all. Just be sure to figurer out which is which.

]]> By: Kurt http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-40926 Kurt Thu, 20 Aug 2009 22:35:35 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-40926 I am a 28 year old single dad with a four year old son and I have had 5 years of life experience as a dad and 10 years working experience as a teacher. I like to work out and keep fit and have fun without the whole getting drunk scene. I have always been attracted to women my age, a bit younger and as much as twenty years older so long as they were youthful in personality, sexy and liked to keep fit. I think I connect with them mentally because I have already gone through what a lot of other men only start going through in their thirties and forties. It is true that women who are older have learned from past relationships, are very appreciative of the compliments, affection and love that you show them. The ones that I am attracted to have lively sexy personalities so there is so much to be had. You older women who want to have fun should so and see where it leads. You can't even be sure where a relationship will take you when you are the same age so just enjoy the ride and see if it lasts. If it doesn't then at least it is an enjoyable experience. I wouldn't mind marrying a women older than me but considering that I am 28 I would probably only marry someone who is in their mid forties at the oldest because I would have to be realistic as far as if we wanted to have kids together. I would like to have four kids and I already have one so I wouldn't mind including previous or adopting or making some together. In any case, older women who are youthful and fit make for appreciative, sexy, passionate, appreciative partners so long as you also connect mentally it will last. Happy cub hunting to those sexy cougars out there! I am a 28 year old single dad with a four year old son and I have had 5 years of life experience as a dad and 10 years working experience as a teacher. I like to work out and keep fit and have fun without the whole getting drunk scene.
I have always been attracted to women my age, a bit younger and as much as twenty years older so long as they were youthful in personality, sexy and liked to keep fit.
I think I connect with them mentally because I have already gone through what a lot of other men only start going through in their thirties and forties.
It is true that women who are older have learned from past relationships, are very appreciative of the compliments, affection and love that you show them. The ones that I am attracted to have lively sexy personalities so there is so much to be had.
You older women who want to have fun should so and see where it leads. You can’t even be sure where a relationship will take you when you are the same age so just enjoy the ride and see if it lasts. If it doesn’t then at least it is an enjoyable experience. I wouldn’t mind marrying a women older than me but considering that I am 28 I would probably only marry someone who is in their mid forties at the oldest because I would have to be realistic as far as if we wanted to have kids together.
I would like to have four kids and I already have one so I wouldn’t mind including previous or adopting or making some together.
In any case, older women who are youthful and fit make for appreciative, sexy, passionate, appreciative partners so long as you also connect mentally it will last.
Happy cub hunting to those sexy cougars out there!

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-37825 starthrower68 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:58:49 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-37825 And if I'm really honest, I can't contemplate what a 24-year-old who is very easily a 10 wants with a 41-year-old woman who is overweight (though I've lost 15 lbs on Weight Watchers), and if any of my friends or family found out I was involved with this kid, I'd be mortified, and I know that as soon as one of us became bored, it would be done with. And if I’m really honest, I can’t contemplate what a 24-year-old who is very easily a 10 wants with a 41-year-old woman who is overweight (though I’ve lost 15 lbs on Weight Watchers), and if any of my friends or family found out I was involved with this kid, I’d be mortified, and I know that as soon as one of us became bored, it would be done with.

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-37823 starthrower68 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:12:41 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-37823 I view it as a waste of time, but hey, if it's for someone else, far be it from me to judge. I view it as a waste of time, but hey, if it’s for someone else, far be it from me to judge.

]]> By: Steve http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-37811 Steve Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:30:07 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-37811 It would be about sex and would likely not last. That could be a good thing! If it is for you, mazeltov! It would be about sex and would likely not last. That could be a good thing! If it is for you, mazeltov!

]]> By: starthrower68 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-37739 starthrower68 Mon, 13 Jul 2009 20:34:38 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-37739 Wow, had a 24-year-old hit on me and now my brain is short-circuting from all the diametrically opposed advice. Evan, I would be interested to know WHY you recommend a woman give serious consideration to entering such an arrangement (because let's face it, it's more often an arragement rather than an actual relationship). Wow, had a 24-year-old hit on me and now my brain is short-circuting from all the diametrically opposed advice. Evan, I would be interested to know WHY you recommend a woman give serious consideration to entering such an arrangement (because let’s face it, it’s more often an arragement rather than an actual relationship).

]]> By: Lucy http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-29720 Lucy Wed, 13 May 2009 12:04:38 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-29720 Monica #57 Well, when you go to a restaurant you won't be able to share a bottle of wine with him. lol. Does it matter if anyone else sees "something wrong" with it? Isn't it really about how comfortable YOU are with the relationship? Monica #57

Well, when you go to a restaurant you won’t be able to share a bottle of wine with him. lol.

Does it matter if anyone else sees “something wrong” with it? Isn’t it really about how comfortable YOU are with the relationship?

]]> By: Monica http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-29641 Monica Tue, 12 May 2009 18:57:47 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-29641 does anyone see anything wrong with a 31 year old woman (me) dating a 20 year old man?..... the 20 year old looks likes he is under 20 but his drivers license says he is 20....a relative told me that when we are together in public that people probably think i am his mother... but i know i do not look that old to have a kid that big... people say i look about 25... any response would be appreciated.... does anyone see anything wrong with a 31 year old woman (me) dating a 20 year old man?….. the 20 year old looks likes he is under 20 but his drivers license says he is 20….a relative told me that when we are together in public that people probably think i am his mother… but i know i do not look that old to have a kid that big… people say i look about 25… any response would be appreciated….

]]> By: Hopeful http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/comment-page-2/#comment-26696 Hopeful Fri, 17 Apr 2009 06:29:53 +0000 http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/what-do-guys-in-their-20s-want-with-women-in-their-40s/#comment-26696 Marie, I’m sorry to hear of the break up. Some people find it very difficult to tell the other person the reason for the break up because they still care for that other person. Hopefully, it’s not some stupid misunderstand. When we really love someone, we try to respect their wishes even if it hurts us. I think it’s beautiful how people fall in love with one another. Marie,
I’m sorry to hear of the break up. Some people find it very difficult to tell the other person the reason for the break up because they still care for that other person. Hopefully, it’s not some stupid misunderstand. When we really love someone, we try to respect their wishes even if it hurts us. I think it’s beautiful how people fall in love with one another.

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