Comments on: Why Are Women Louder Than Men During Sex?

By: Renee

Renee — Sun, 31 Mar 2013 23:15:27 +0000

Goood topic!
I heard that guys also know if women are faking it…..yet they still want to hear it?

By: hunter

hunter — Mon, 19 Nov 2012 03:55:06 +0000

…blood rushes to the mid section in a man’s body(under 50 yrs old), while having sex, leaving a minimal amount of blood flow above the neckline, making it difficult to process thoughts…..

By: Zann

Zann — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 06:11:24 +0000

I definitely got louder as I got more experienced with sex and with my own body. Making noise is very liberating for me. I suspect women are naturally noise-makers, but the culture muffled that for a long time because women weren’t supposed to enjoy sex. Men have always been very appreciative and aroused by my noise during sex, and I’ve never had a man ask me to be quiet. Men are less likely to be as vocal as I am, and when they do vocalize, they’re more likely to use words, as opposed to sounds. Different men prefer different “utterances” from me, and it’s usually pretty easy to pick up on what’s working for them. I did have one partner who was very loud with a big, booming voice. At first it startled me, and eventually it became distracting and seemed totally forced. I would find myself bracing for it. NOT sexy.

By: Kathleen

Kathleen — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 23:17:33 +0000

I agree as Ive got older and Im at my most confident Im louder and more vocal It has nothing to do with age related hearing loss! With my last guy I know the feedback was a turn on for him. He also liked me to talk nasty sometimes as he would do for me at the right time and that was a turn on.

One guy I knew was a screamer He would yell so loud I thought my neighbors would hear That was weird and seemed theatrical.

By: Fusee

Fusee — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 22:12:20 +0000

Interesting… I also started expressing myself more loudly as I became progressively more aware, confident, and pleased in my sexuality. The turning point (aka closing the windows : ) was in my mid-twenties.

The number of decibels I produce increases proportionally with the intensity of pleasure received and to the extent my man makes me lose control. I do not feel pressured to make more noises than what the situation “calls for”, as it indeed serves as a valuable feedback tool on top of being highly arousing to him : ) I wish my quiet guy would be a bit more “expressive”, but I’d also choose too quiet over too loud. Respect to the neighbors!

By: Goldie

Goldie — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 21:29:45 +0000

I am in awe of people who can talk during sex. Like, complete monologues. It is actually a turn-on when a man does it. Personally, though, I can only do one thing at a time. Screaming and stuff is one thing, but giving a speech, eh, not something I’m capable of.

To your questions, I only do or say whatever comes naturally, make a decent amount of noise, and am okay with whatever the man wants to be verbally. Well if he screamed on top of his lungs, that would probably freak me out, but I haven’t had that happen.

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 21:02:51 +0000

Most of my lovers have always been very quiet. Guys say it is a turn-on for them when we woman make noise. Well, it works the other way around too. Those few times when I’ve been with a guy who is noisy, it is a huge turn on. For all you male readers, this is a BIG FAT HINT.

By: Candace

Candace — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 21:02:36 +0000

Yeah second Ellen… why do women make more noise than men in bed? I personally love to make noise in the bedroom because I can’t help myself and it feels so good. My bf does not make half as much noise as I do or even as loud. I’m going to ask him tonight why, makes for good discussion.

By: Sunflower

Sunflower — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 20:38:27 +0000

For me personally, I’ve never had to try and make noise and really don’t understand women who are completely quiet. And yes, I do find it a turn off when a man makes too much noise. Just doesn’t seem natural. Maybe because he’s suppose to be strong and we the delicate flower?

By: Ellen

Ellen — Thu, 08 Nov 2012 19:07:34 +0000

I’ve been wondering about this topic myself. My experience has been a lot like Karmic Equation’s: the older and more confident I got, the louder I got.

But it bothers me when men are too quiet ’cause it makes me think they aren’t as engaged as me. I asked my bf about it the other night actually and he said he doesn’t make noises much ’cause he’s so focused on me. Sweet, huh?! lol