Comments on: “Why Didn’t He Call?” http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-didnt-he-call/ Wed, 22 May 2013 18:56:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Goldie http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-didnt-he-call/comment-page-1/#comment-183072 Goldie Sun, 25 Sep 2011 17:51:24 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/why-didnt-he-call/#comment-183072 @ Vicki #3: ““Man’s rejection is God’s protection.”
 
HAH! I love this! :D

]]> By: Vicki http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-didnt-he-call/comment-page-1/#comment-183002 Vicki Sun, 25 Sep 2011 13:09:02 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/why-didnt-he-call/#comment-183002 If you didn’t commit any of the above transgressions, and you don’t have any pattern in your dating history of guys *always* saying they will call and then disappearing on you, then it is quite possible the problem is him, not you.

I’ve had maybe 2 guys disappear on me (in 20 years of dating!). One was a total whack-job, and I was lucky to get out of that situation. :) The other had been recently divorced, gotten custody of his kids, and they apparently had a meltdown at home after a visit from their non-custodial mom after she went back to her home state.
 
The first guy, I should have written him off after the first date. I see that now. I won’t make that mistake again. The second guy, he really liked me, a lot more than I liked him, and he wasn’t really ready to be dating again anyway- he just thought he was. He needed to get his kids and family life on more even keel before bringing a new adult into the mix.
 
“Man’s rejection is God’s protection.” Don’t ask why, just accept it and move on. DO NOT send followup emails to “confirm” whether you’re going to see him again or not. That clearly indicates you’re more interested in him than he is in you. Optimal situation is he should be more interested in you than you are in him. Period. Move on.

]]> By: verbosity http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-didnt-he-call/comment-page-1/#comment-1053 verbosity Tue, 02 Oct 2007 00:07:13 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/why-didnt-he-call/#comment-1053 Don’t forget to add….

Reason #6 – You’re a little too interested in his job, income and how nice his neighborhood is.

]]> By: w4mfun http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/why-didnt-he-call/comment-page-1/#comment-31 w4mfun Fri, 06 Apr 2007 19:40:46 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/why-didnt-he-call/#comment-31 Question for you- At what point do you write him off? I have been out with someone 5 times. After the last one he said he wanted to see me again and would call early the next week so we could schedule it. The next week has come (and is nearly gone). He sent an email saying “hope you had a great weekend and your week is off to a good start.” I called a few days ago and said “just calling to see if we were still going to try to get together this week or maybe next. Call me when you get a chance.” Our outings have been fun. I have been a Christian Carter Cool Girl. I did not break any of your 5 rules posted here. In fact, he did most of the talking on our last outing. So at this point, when do I try to contact him again or do I write him off?

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